「你是一個乖小孩嗎?」
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從小在台灣生長的我,最常聽到長輩用「乖」當作是一個稱讚。但我從不覺得「乖」有什麼值得表揚得。我覺得「乖」的人都很無聊。我認為「乖」就是剝奪意識,奴化的開始!孩童時期,大人如果說我乖,我會回:喔,是喔。
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到美國後,我才發現英文根本沒有「乖」這個字
可是語言是人創造的,一定有靠近的字。
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首先想到 「nice」
充其量這只是好。
接著想到 「obedient」
順從是乖的一種吧,可是乖不只是順從,你還需要主動滿足對方的期待。
比較靠近的是「well behaved」,有表現行為得體的意思,也是一種乖。
可是又覺得這個組合字不夠到位
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也許「乖」這個字完美的屬於中華文化。
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語言建構社會,沒「乖」這個字,也代表英文裡對這個觀念不是特別在乎。(孝順也沒有)於是乎美國人更有獨立思考和批判的能力,而華人更加順從。大家就別再裝乖了,把內心的渴望放出來吧,乖真的是非常無聊!
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後記:即便我自認從小是社會定義上的乖,唸了還可以的大學,做一個還可以的工作,不抽煙不喝酒也不往外跑。但在我父母心中,我卻是一個離經叛道的人,他們口中的我彷彿殺人放火,販賣毒品一般。「乖」在大家的心中的尺真的是很不一樣呢耶,怎麼那麼幽默???
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以上,其實我覺得最能貼近「乖」的英文應該是
Be the good girl you always have to be…
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#乖 #短文
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爸爸們在開刀房都不好意思脫掉上衣⋯⋯
脱不脫有差喔!😊
The Early Sensitive Period
The crucial importance of skin-to-skin contact immediately after birth was demonstrated by the finding that a two-hour separation period immediately after birth inhibited the development of positive effects on social interaction and stress buffering. The mother-infant dyads reunited after a two-hour separation period after birth, behaved like those that were separated not only in the labor ward, but also during the four-day stay at the maternity ward.
These results point to a particular role of skin-to-skin contact during the first two hours after birth, “the early sensitive period.” More surprisingly, the group in which the babies wore clothes differed from the skin-to-skin group, suggesting that clothes act like an insulator from real skin-to-skin contact (Bystrova et al., 2009).
Dad had requested skin-to-skin in the OR from the moment that he stepped foot in the hospital... he must have mentioned it a dozen times.
He + his wife were preparing to welcome twins in to the world after losing their first-born to Krabbe Leukodystrophy at the young age of 20 months.
Staff told him that it would be tough since he would have two babies and needed to be in a scrub suit over his clothes ... So he promptly and without question explained that he had a large arm-span that was ready and waiting to hold his two boys and then took his shirt off and zipped up his scrubs announcing, 'well then.. problem solved!'
This nurse made sure to advocate for him to all 24 other people in the OR that day -- and personally made sure that his request was fulfilled. <3
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behaved 意思 在 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu Facebook 的最佳解答
(English version below)
某一場利樂有情眾生的餐會 ,來了一位間谍類的女有情 。吾望了她一眼,心知肚明這是一位,惹來意识魔的可怜眾生。恰好她來請吾爲她,改名字及批大運,吾就開門見山的問她,是否常駡人?
她些許惊呀的答說:「是的。」
吾當場傳授她,如何看出。举凡嘴唇呈下垂之相,都離不開和駡人有关。也有位徐娘半老的師姐,借故嚮吾學佛 , 吾察覺她的雙手的手指上,有些紅彤彤的血迹,故問她:「是否有比中指的習慣?」
她神情既不好意思,又微紧張的回曰:「過去和弟妹們,是有此種互動。」
哈哈哈!這就是,若要人不知,除非己莫爲也。 更是業障的痕迹也。慎之, 愼之啊!
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In one particular Learning Session, one participant who behaved like a spy. I took a look at her, and knew that she was a poor soul who attracted the Mara in her consciousness. There was an opportune moment when she requested for my services in name change and Bazi analysis. I asked her directly if she often scold people.
She answered in bewilderment, "Yes."
I taught her how I knew from her facial feature: her drooping lips, which is often related to the verbal abuse of others. There was another participant who was attractive beyond her age, and came to learn the Dharma from me. I observed some blood red veins on her hands, and asked if she often showed the offensive middle finger.
She was slightly embarrassed and replied me, slightly nervously, "I used to do that in the past with my younger siblings."
Hahaha! If you don't wish for others to know what you have done, don't do it in the first place, and leave karmic trails along the way. Be careful, be very careful!
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想請教各位
well-behaved 這個複合形容詞的構成為什麼是 adv + pp.
不是應該是well-behaving 嗎?
以well-known來說
可以還原成 someone who is known to ... well
well-behaved
就無法找到合理的解釋, 用well-behaving不是比較合理嗎
the boy who behaves well --> well-behaving?
或者well-behaved就是一個約定成俗的用法?
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