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“We all play different roles in our daily life.”
Sometimes we can be our true selves, other times we need to put on a mask to look professional.
No matter which role I’m in, I try to play the best out of it.
When I’m a flight attendant, I ensure my passenger’s safety and comfort during the flight.
When I’m a Zumba instructor, I put on a big smile and give all my energy to make people dance and sweat with me.
When I’m at home, I’m a loyal wife who takes care of my husband and the house.
When I’m back in my hometown, I’m my Mom’s little girl and her listener.
It’s never easy to strike a balance between different roles, as long as we have tried our best, there’s nothing to blame yourself for.
While you’re struggling to play each role perfectly, remind yourself not to be trapped with the labels which are given by the society.
Nobody is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, so stop beating yourself up.
Learn from the experience and carry on.
Embrace your true self. 🥰
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我們每天都在扮演不同的角色。
有時候可以做自己,有時候為了看起來專業,必須戴上面具示人。
不管是什麼角色,我盡力做到最好。
當我是個空服員,我確保乘客的安全及舒適。
當我是個Zumba 舞蹈老師,我給學生滿滿的笑容及能量讓他們跟著我跳舞流汗。
當我在家時,我是個照顧老公跟家務的好老婆。
當我回娘家時,我是媽媽的心肝寶貝跟傾聽者。
在每個角色間取得平衡很不容易,只要我們盡力了,便沒什麼好遺憾的。
當你很努力地想扮演好一個完美的角色時,別忘了提醒自己:忘掉那些世俗的標籤吧!
沒有人是完美的,每個人都會犯錯;
從錯誤中汲取經驗,下次盡量不要再犯就好。
記得每天讚美自己:你已經做得很好了,不需要過度批判自己。
不管是好的或壞的經歷,都是成長的養分🌱
「不同面向的我,都是我。」
Love yourself. ❤️
easy on me zumba 在 Racheal Kwacz - Child & Family Development Specialist Facebook 的最佳貼文
My husband and I work quite a bit from home and these are some tips that have really helped us navigate work and family life together.
Each family dynamic is different, and what might work for one family, may look very different for another. The key using Respectful Parenting principles is just to let love lead.
Be kind to one another as well as yourself. Prep. Listen. Empathize. Acknowledge. Sit. Empower.
This is a new normal for many in what is an unprecedented move and will take a little time to adjust. To learn what works and what doesn't and there will be days that you definitely learn what doesn't. Or that it is less than what you expected or wanted that day to be. But maybe the next day or the day after you'll learn what does.
And when it falls apart some days, which it will. We've had different iterations of working from home since Ella Grace was born and there's been lots of giant failwhale moments even with the best laid plans. In those moments, the biggest things my husband and I needed to do was to breathe it all out, sit with all those uncomfortable feelings of hard and growth and guilt and overwhelm, allow it to surface and not build resentment, ask what it was here to teach us, let it go, forgive ourselves as much as each other, pick it all and each other up, call all the pieces back, and start again.
One step at a time, one day at a time.
Let love lead.
You got this mama, I'm rooting for you.
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WORKING FROM HOME TOGETHER
1. Ask what's important. This is something we did together as a family and is pivotal. Asking what each other needed, what would help, what would not help, how we saw this working out really help everyone get on the same page. We wrote and listed down everything we talked about which really helped us all visually build a schedule as well as know and manage each others expectations.
2. Designate work and non-work time. This is crucial and will make a huge amount of difference. A schedule and routine helps give everyone structure to the day which is very comforting when so much is up in the air. It also allows everyone to be really present whether at work or with each other. Work is work time, play is really play time.
3. Connect to disconnect. If your little one is interrupting a lot, they are seeking for an emotional refueling and connection. If you are able to, fill up that tank through play and presence. When you first start and especially if you don't normally get a lot of time with them, they will crave for this a lot and follow you everywhere. Keep filling that tank, ideally designating specific refueling time (refer above!!) imagining it as in the negative, and when you can get it full, you'll be amazed at how well and willing they will be to separate and do their own thing.
4. Welcome interruptions lovingly but stay focused and come back to it. Take and build in breaks - ask if you need to connect, limit, set, prioritize, or nourish.
5. Sit by a window and bathe in natural light, preferable with some view of green with a giant bottle of water next to you - stay hydrated! Healthy snacks also help your brain get into a theta wave which is the most receptive to information and learning. I sit next to a giant window in our living room and it helps me not go stir-crazy!
6. Better yet, take lots of movement breaks. Exercise over eating allows your brain to stay in the theta wave the longest which is really where your brain is at it's optimum. The movement helps you get it all out and cope better by also releasing a flood of happy hormones. We try to start our day with a little 20-30min family exercise, it doesn't have to be fancy. Sometimes it's a little circuit that we build in our living room, a yoga or zumba video, or even just a dance party.
7. You don't have to "dress up" but it's important that you get dressed, brush your teeth, wash your face, prep yourself. It will really help you move from sloth to work mode. 😅❤️
8. Designate a work area and space. We live in a little apartment in the city but having designated work spaces is so important to help us keep focused and "in the zone".
9. Quiet is ideal but if not, earplugs or headphones work too when you need it.
10. Don't micromanage, you'll go crazy. Allow and trust everyone the beauty of discovery. What works for them, what doesn't. How creative they can get. How to regulate. How to ask for what they need or don't.
11. Be flexible and open as much as possible to change and new experiences and ideas as well as little mess. Again, we have a little 1500sqft condo in the city and we're actually on day 12 of self-quarantine so being mindful that this is a shared space for all of us means allowing Ella Grace to "dress up" our living room, leave different creations at different stages as she free plays, or being kind on ourselves in terms of what housework we can manage today if our plate is especially full or if we are just tired.
12. 20 minute shakedowns are your friend. We play this game in the evenings or when we need it and it's called a 20min shakedown. We set the timer for 20mins and everyone earnestly picks up, cleans up, puts away, the crazy of the day. The key is to really walk away at the 20min mark even if it's not perfect. What this does is that because you know it's only going to be 20mins, everyone tries their hardest and makes it fun instead of never-ending. Better yet, everyone is happy to do it again the next time!
13. Plan your time strategically. Mornings for me are for correspondence/follow-up/emails as I know I'm likely more to be interrupted then so pick tasks that would be easy to get back into. Nap time is calls or anything I might need to get done during the day that works better with minimal interruption. I usually "clock-off" at 3/4pm to play with Ella Grace (connect to disconnect!!) before I start dinner and usually go back to work at about 8/9pm to do the more serious thinking stuff that requires quiet like writing articles, designing workshops, working on slides, etc.
14. Schedule in marriage time. J and I are technically colleagues and we also run a business together. It's easy to get stuck in work mode so being sure that work is work and marriage is marriage also helps a lot. We make sure to "date" each other after Ella Grace goes to bed at night. It doesn't have to be fancy, a shared dessert, cuddling and watching a movie together, talking about our day. However and whatever your love languages are, honor that.
15. Be kind. To yourself, to your little one, to each other. It's hard heart work and it's constantly learning and unlearning. Choose to find joy. In the little things, in the big things. This too will pass, mama. We love you and are standing in the light with you. <3
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easy on me zumba 在 Coach Hardiana Facebook 的精選貼文
To all mummy yg breastfeeding..dont give up! Anda juga pasti boleh!!!! BAYANGKANNN!!!
ANDA BOLEH JADI SLIM DAN FIT!
21 TIPS KURUS UTK IBU MENYUSU BADAN
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3 orang anak, saya bersalin secara czer, dan mereka menyusu badan lebih dari 1 tahun. Alhamdulillah rezeki Allah yg beri utk anak2 kami..
Now berat badan saya kekal 47kg - 48kg, alhamdulillah dpt balik berat masa bujang. Saya pasti ramai ibu-ibu mengalamai masalah nak KURUS dan SLIM, tapi tak boleh nk diet sangat, nanti production menjunam drop, perut always rasa lapar pulak!
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Sini saya share tips KURUS utk ibu BREASTFEEDING:-
🔶1) MINUM AIR 3-4 LITER SEHARI🔶
Lebih lagi bagus.. Mengikut pengalaman saya 3 orang anak ni, saya minum 6 liter sehari.. Alhamdulillah production meriah dan lemak badan turun laju!!!
🔶2) LEBIHKAN MAKAN SAYUR WARNA HIJAU🔶
Contohnya mcm sayur bayam, sawi dan brokoli.. Bukan saja boleh booster your production susu, malah ianya bantu melawaskan penghadaman kita.
🔶3) IKAN, AYAM & DAGING TANPA LEMAK🔶
Kene ada protein dlm setiap hidangan! Higher protein portion lagi bagus. Makanan sumber protein ni boleh buat anda rs kenyang lebih lama. InshaAllah takde rasa craving cepat sgt nk mengunyah itu ini.
🔶4) LOBAK🔶
Lobak ni tinggi karbohidrat dan kalium which sgt bantu tingkatkan stamina energy mommy while breastfeeding. Kalau lobak putih, mmg tinggi khasiatnya as milk booster, which boleh tambah kepekatan susu badan mommy.
🔶5) KEKACANG🔶
Kaya dengan protein dan mengandungi zat besi. But for mommy yg bersalin secara czer, dinasihatkan ambil kuantiti sedikit dulu, tunggu luka betol-betol sembuh.
🔶6) TELUR🔶
Sumber protein yg sgt tinggi dan mengandungi Vitamin D. Ianya jgk makes u feel full longer, dan khasiat telur ni bantu pertumbuhan sihat utk tulang dan otot-otot yg kuat utk baby anda.
🔶7) BANYAKKAN MAKAN BUAH-BUAHAN🔶
Buah-buahan byk khasiat nya, tinggi antioksidan, vitamin dan zat mineral. Vitamin C dlm buah contihnya, bantuutk sembuhkan luka lepas bersalin. Buah-buahan seperti epal dan pisang bantu utk tingkatkan energy anda supaya cergas dan sihat.
🔶8) MAKAN BIJIRAN PENUH🔶
Contoh mcm oat, beras perang, barli... Ianya kaya dgn nutrient yg bagus mcm protein, vitamins dan mineral lain. So these will help a lot utk bg energy dan stamina utk anda.
🔶9) PRODUK TENUSU RENDAH LEMAK🔶
Antara diet pemakanan yang perlu diambil ialah produk tenusu rendah lemak seperti susu, yogurt, soya dan cheese. Ianya tinggi Vitamin B dan D, and very very good source of calcium.
🔶10) SNACKING!🔶
Ibu yg menyusu ni masalah utama nya SELALU LAPAR! Menyebabkan, mommy asyik nak snacking all the time!!!! So, jgn menyerah kalah dengan snacking! Jgn kantoi kan diet anda dgn snack yg merapu habis mcm kerepek, keropok, coklat, gula2, eskrem, kuih2 manis, kek cheese coklat semua tu!
My suggestion, snack yg high protein, high fiber, low GI or watery base food.. Contoh, kurma segenggam, roti wholemeal sapu peanut butter ke, buah tembikai,buah pisang, buah epal, biskut oats 3 keping, kismis dan kacang badam.
🔶11) MAKAN KERAP SETIAP 2-3 JAM, TAPI 3X jek HEAVY MEAL🔶
Kalau kita makan kerap, metabolisme badan pon akan maintain high and sugar level pon pada paras normal. Ianya akan helps a lot utk uolls turun berat lebih mudah tau! Makan kerap bukan maksudnya kene makan kuantiti banyak ye.. Heavy meal hanya pd 3 main meal iaitu breakfast, lunch and dinner. Di perantara tu snack time, amik makanan kuantiti kecil tapi berkualiti (high protein, low calorie, low sugar dan less oil)
🔶12) MAKAN NASI SEGENGGAM SHJ🔶
Jgn tambah nasi klo still lapar, tambah sayur. Rules nasi segenggam ni mmg dipakai utk semua org yg nk diet. Konsep suku suku separuh! Suku pinggan nasi, suku pinggan lauk, separuh pinggan sayur dan buah.
🔶13) ELAKKAN MINUMAN TINGGI KAFEIN MCM TEH/KOPI🔶
Kaffein tidak digalakkan utk ibu-ibu kalau breastfeeding. Ianya jugak tidak elok utk anak anda yg menyusu badan itu.
🔶14) JANGAN SKIP MAKAN UTAMA🔶
Try your best utk jangan skip makan! Bz mcm mana pon, cuba utk follow waktu makan! Bila kita skip main meal, susu pon boleh drop and berat pon lebih susah turun.
🔶15) TUNGGU BAYI UMUR 2 BULAN KE ATAS🔶
Nak start aktif bersenam boleh, TAPI tunggu dulu sehingga baby anda 2 bulan ke atas. Lepas dh 2 bulan, boleh dh slowly start high intensity workout.
🔶16) KERAPKAN SUSU ANAK🔶
Lebih kerap anda menyusu badan, lebih banyak kuantiti Oz yg susu hasilkan, lebih byk pembakaran kalori berlaku! Malah, BONUS nya...akan lebih banyaaakkk jgk production susu anda sbb konsep Demand and Supply tu.. When we always kosongkan breast, badan bg signal yg high demand for susu, maka nanti badan akan lebihhhh kan lgi production susu, and meriahss laaa susu ibu nanti!
So, keep on beastfeed sekerap mungkin, always kosongkan breast!
🔶17) GET ACTIVE! LAKUKAN HOME WORKOUT. ATLEAST 45-60 MIN🔶
When your baby 2 months old dah, boleh start bersenam. Try jgk squueze time anda for your ME time utk buat workout. Any workout yg u happy to do dan enjoy buat and mudah utk lakukan. It could be Zumba, Jogging, HIIT Workout, TABATA, Swimming, Hiking.. Anything yg u boleh dan suka buat. Kat rumah pon bleh buat workout, there are thousands of videos yg ada kt internet mcm mana home workout! Follow saja.
🔶18) MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY!🔶
Jangan stress, try to always find effort utk HAPPY kan diri dan lari dr negativity! Ada pelbagai cara utk happy like exercise zumba, reading, watch movie or video, tgk rancangan lawak.. Sbb bila kita stress, susu production pon drop, badan pon susah turun berat!
🔶19) JOIN GROUP SUPPORT DIET/SENAMAN🔶
Support system ni very veryyy important tau. Bunyi mcm nothing jek.. Tapi ianya helps a lot utk mommy diet ni. Bila ada geng dan kawan2 yg sama misi, sama target iaitu nk kurus sambil menyusu, kita akan rasa mcm 1 team yg sama2 bg semangat! Takde lah nanti rs keseorangan dan cepat down dek kerana dugaan dan cabaran sekeliling.
🔶20) CARI COACH YG BOLEH BANTU MONITOR ANDA🔶
Dapatkan coach utk bantu anda. Even Ronaldo pemain bola professional pon ada Coach dia! Inikan kita yg tak professional kaannn.. Coach bantu banyak bg tips, semangat dan pantau progress turun berat kita. Takde coach, kita takde guideline, takde cikgu yg tlg peringat kita.
🔶21) ISTIQOMAH. SABAR. TERUSKAN.🔶
Kunci utama utk kurus tak kira lah you breastfeeding mom ke, bukan ke.. Mmg kene ISTIQOMAH! Sebab....journey nk turun berat ni bukan terjadi overnight. Ianya ambil masa more than 1 month.. Berbulanss bulanss okeh! Sbb tu kene isitqomah dan konsisten. Conquer the mental battle! Cabaran utk kawal mental dan nafsu tu... Sbb itulah cbaran TERBESAR anda! Yakin you boleh! InshaAllah segalanya dipermudahkan.
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Kalau saya boleh lakukannya, anda jugak pasti boleh. Saya 3 org semua bersalin secara czer! Semua breastfeeding.. Alhamdulillah.. Berat sekarang maintain 47kg dgn ketinggian 151cm.
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Nothing impossible.. Menyusu badan, atau bersalin czer..anda boleh dptkan berat ideal anda!
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Konsep utk turun berat tetap sama.... Kalori defisit!
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Cuba tips di atas ya. Jangan lupa klik LIKE dan SHARE dgn kawan2.. Mana tau ada yg dpt manfaat dr tips ni!
21 TIPS OF SLIM TIPS FOR MOTHERS TO BREAST BODY
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3 kids, I gave birth czer, and they breastfeed for more than 1 years. Alhamdulillah Allah's provision is given to our children..
Now my weight remains 47 kg-48 kg, thank God I can get back to my weight when I was single. I'm sure that many mothers are having problems with SLIM and SLIM, but can't go on a lot of diet, production will drop, stomach will always feel hungry!
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Here I share slimming tips for mothers who are BREASTFEEDING :-
🔶 1) DRINK 3-4 LITER WATER A DAY 🔶
Better.. According to my experience with these 3 kids, I drink 6 litres a day.. Thank God the production of merrier and body fat is going fast!!!
🔶 2) EAT MORE GREEN VEGET 🔶
For example like spinach vegetable, mustard and broccoli.. Not only can booster your production of milk, but it helps to reduce our digestion.
🔶 3) FISH, CHICKEN & MEAT WITHOUT FAT 🔶
Need to have protein in every meal! Higher protein portion is better. This protein source food can make you feel full longer. InshaAllah I don't have any craving for it so quick to chew
🔶 4) LOCAL 🔶
These carrots are high in carbohydrates and potassium which really helps to increase mommy's energy stamina while breast If carrots are white, the benefits of as milk booster will be high, which can increase the concentration of mommy's body milk.
🔶 5) BEAN 🔶
Rich with protein and contains iron. But for mommy who gave birth czer, it is advised to take a little quantity first, wait for the wound to heal.
🔶 6) EGGS 🔶
A very high source of protein and contains Vitamin D. It also makes you feel full longer, and the nutrients of this egg helps healthy growth for bones and strong muscles for your baby.
🔶 7) EAT MORE FRUITS 🔶
Fruits have lots of nutrients, high antioxidants, vitamins and minerals. Vitamin C in the fruit of the contihnya, helps to heal wounds after delivery. Fruits like apples and bananas help to increase your energy to be fit and healthy.
🔶 8) FULL VIRGIN 🔶
Example like oats, brown rice, barley... It's rich with nutrients that are good like protein, vitamins and other miner So these will help a lot to give energy and stamina to you.
🔶 9) LOW FAT BENUSU PRODUCTS 🔶
Among the nutrition diet that needs to be taken are low-fat dairy products such as milk, yogurt, soya and cheese. It's high Vitamin B and D, and very very good source of calcium.
🔶10) SNACKING!🔶
Breastfeeding mothers are the main problem, ALWAYS HUNGER! Because mommy keeps on snacking all the time!!!! So, don't give up on snacking! Don't catch your diet with a snack that is fooling around with chips, crackers, chocolate, candy, ice cream, sweet cakes, chocolate cheese cake!
My suggestion, snack that is high protein, high fiber, low GI or watery base food.. Example, a handful of dates, wholemeal bread apply peanut butter, watermelon, banana fruit, apple, oats biscuits 3 pieces, raisins and Almond nuts.
🔶 11) EATING EVERY 2-3 HOURS, BUT 3 X only HEAVY MEAL 🔶
If we eat frequently, the body metabolism will also maintain high and sugar level at normal level. It will help a lot for you all to lose weight easier! Eating frequently doesn't mean having to eat a lot of quantities.. Heavy meal is only at 3 main meal which is breakfast, lunch and dinner. In the middle of snack time, take small but quality quantity food (high protein, low calories, low sugar and less oil)
🔶 12) JUST EATING RICE 🔶
Don't add rice if you're still hungry, add vegetables. Rules of this handful of rice are used for everyone who wants to diet. Quarter half concept! Rice tribe, dish tribe, half plate of vegetables and fruits.
🔶 13) AVOID HIGH DRINK CAFEINE LIKE TEA / COFFEE 🔶
Kaffein is not encouraged for mothers if breastfeeding. It's also not good for your child who is breastfeeding.
🔶 14) DON ' T SKIP EAT MAIN 🔶
Try your best not to skip eating! No matter how busy it is, try to follow the food time! When we skip the meal, the milk can drop and the weight is harder to lose.
🔶 15) WAIT FOR BABY 2 MONTHS OLD AND ABOVE 🔶
If you want to start actively exercising, BUT wait until your baby is 2 months and above. After 2 months, can slowly start high intensity workout.
🔶 16) PURPOSE CHILD MILK 🔶
The more frequent you breastfeed, the more quantity of Oz whose milk is produced, the more calorie burning happens! In fact, the BONUS... will be more than the production of your milk because of the Demand and Supply concept.. When we always empty our breast, the body gives signal that is high demand for milk, then the body will increase the production of milk, and merrier laaa mother's milk later!
So, keep on beastfeed as often as possible, always empty your breast!
🔶17) GET ACTIVE! LAKUKAN HOME WORKOUT. ATLEAST 45-60 MIN🔶
When your baby is already 2 months old, you can start exercising. Try squueze your time for your ME time to workout. Any workout that you are happy to do and enjoy and easy to do. It could be Zumba, Jogging, HIIT Workout, TABATA, Swimming, Hiking.. Anything that you can and like to do. Workout at home, there are thousands of videos on the internet how about home workout! Just follow.
🔶18) MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY!🔶
Don't stress, try to always find an effort to make yourself HAPPY and run away from negativity! There are various ways to be happy like exercise zumba, reading, watch movie or video, watch funny plans.. Because when we're stressed, the milk production also drops, the body is also hard to lose weight!
🔶 19) JOIN GROUP SUPPORT DIET / EXERCISE 🔶
Support system is very very important. Sounds like nothing.. But it helps a lot for mommy to diet. When there are gangs and friends who have the same mission, the same target is to slim down while breastfeeding, we will feel like 1 teams that give us the same spirit! There's nothing to feel alone and quickly down the deck because of the challenges and challenges around.
🔶 20) LOOK FOR COACH THAT CAN HELP YOUR MONITOR 🔶
Get a coach to help you. Even Ronaldo has a professional football player! This is us who are unprofessional.. Coach helps a lot of tips, spirit and monitor our progress to lose weight. There's no coach, we don't have guidelines, no teacher who helps us remind us.
🔶 21) ISTIQOMAH. PATIENT. KEEP IT ON. 🔶 🔶
The key key to slimming down doesn't matter if you're breastfeeding mom, isn't it.. You really need ISTI Because.... the journey to lose weight is not happening overnight. It takes more than 1 month.. Monthly months, okay! That's why you need to be isitqomah and consistent. Conquer the mental battle! Challenge to control the mental and lust... That's why your biggest challenge is! Confident that you can! InshaAllah everything is eased.
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If I can do it, you can do it too. I'm 3 people who gave birth czer! All breastfeeding.. Thank God.. Weight now maintain 47 kg with 151 cm height.
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Nothing is impossible.. Breastfeeding, or giving birth czer.. you can gain your ideal weight!
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The concept of losing weight is still the same.... Deficit calories!
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Try the tips on the top. Don't forget to click LIKE and SHARE with your friends.. Who knows there are benefits from these tips!Translated