8.20pm 回答的问题
Good afternoon Chan Fong. Hoping you can guide me.
I am 33 years old and I have a son with my husband. He is one year old now. My husband have the long history of flirting with woman. He love women attention and care all these while. We been living separately due to work, I have my business in other state and he lives in KL alone, my son is taken care by my in laws. We have been trying to fix the issue of him flirting all these while. He is trying but sometimes when he met woman who is a little flirty, he would entertain them. Not blaming any woman, but my husband is the one I should be blaming. On and off we do argue, from small thing to big issue. Until recently caught him cheating with another woman, invited the woman to his place and claiming himself is single. That woman has his house keys and staying there for four months. That woman basically does his house chores from cleaning to washing his clothes. I only get to know he keep this woman in his place after she called me and tell me everything. Saw his text to her saying that he never felt been treated so well. He never appreciate it when I does it for him. Some of you may question why I did not realise it for the four months. Because we have another house for us to stay when I got back to KL. We fight very badly and his family got involved in it. They afraid he will hit me so they were there for me. I felt so betrayed. It's very hard period. I thought I went through. He also made promises to his families that he wouldn't be doing it again. I thought things were good until few months later I found he somehow flirt with this girl, it was a minor thing but due to my family and his bad history, trusting isn't so easy. We fought again. I talked about divorce but his family disagree and ask me to re-consider. My son is still young and I hope to raise him up in a complete family and also I'm worry of my in laws health. They are not young, they take care of my child, I'm very worry they couldnt take it. I'm not sure what am I suppose to do.
-MEI-
