關於 sorry for your loss take care ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

UNTUK RENUNGAN AYAH / BAPA / WALID / PAPA / DADDY..
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1. Sebenarnya apabila kita mempunyai anak, ramai yang sudah mengaku menjadi AYAH, sebenarnya belum lagi, ibarat orang yang baru memiliki bola, dah mengaku jadi footballer.. Kena belajar bagaimana nak imbang bola itu..
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2. AYAH itu sebenarnya gelaran untuk lelaki yang mahu mengasuh anak, bukan sekadar 'membuat' anak.. astaghfirullah. Maaf ye macam kasar je.. kerana ramai lelaki begitu, tapi bukan semua.
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3. Seorang AYAH yang mahu terlibat mengasuh anak-anak bersama isterinya, sebenarnya separuh permasalahan keluarganya ini telah di atasi.. Tak caya tanyalah isteri-isteri..( tak kiralah berapa isterinya ).
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4. Sekiranya seorang AYAH yang tugasnya cuma menyedia dan memberi wang sahaja, ia telah menyamakan dirinya dengan mesin ATM. Di datangi anak ketika diperlukan sahaja. Hu hu Muhasabah diriku..
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5. Hari ini memang telah hilangnya fungsi tarbiyah dari AYAH, banyak AYAH tidak sedar bila anak lelakinya memasuki alam baligh.. dan anak perempuannya dah mula malu-malu.. Ruginya ayah..
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6. Jika ada anak yang durhaka, sebenarnya ia juga dari AYAH yang durhaka. Ini istilah Sayyidina Umar Al Khattab..
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7. Sekiranya seorang AYAH yang ingin didoakan oleh anaknya, berdoalah selalu dari sekarang untuk anaknya dan didiklah dengan agama..
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8. Sekiranya AYAH ingin dimuliakan oleh anaknya, usahalah memuliakan anaknya dengan ilmu agama..
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9. Mengikut kajian, ramai ayah-ayah yang hampir kehilangan ciri-ciri AYAH yang sebenar. Kerana semua pengajar anak di masa kanak-kanak diisi dan di kuasai oleh kaum ibu sahaja.
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10. Padahal keberanian, survival dan ketegasan, harus diajarkan di usia kecil oleh ayah-ayah. Dimanakah AYAH sang pengajar utama?
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11. Dunia AYAH ketika ini bagi anak-anak hanyalah angan-angan mereka sahaja. Anak-anak mencari ayah mereka di surat khabar, tv dan komputer...
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12. Banyak anak-anak sudah merasa yatim sebelum waktunya, sebab AYAH dirasakan tak hadir lagi dalam kehidupan mereka. Kerana amat sibuk dengan dunia ayah.
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13. Ayuh wahai ayah-ayah semua, ambillah Semangat Al Quran mengenai pendidikan mengedepankan AYAH sebagai tokoh. Kita kenal Lukmanulhakim, Ibrahim, Ya'qub, Imron. Dalam Al Quran mereka adalah contoh AYAH yang prihatin.
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14. Ibnul Qoyyim dalam kitab Tuhfatul Maudud berkata: Jika terjadi kerosakan pada anak, penyebab utamanya adalah AYAH..
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15. Ingatlah! Seorang anak bernasab kepada AYAHnya bukan ibu. Nasab yang merujuk kepada anak menunjukkan kepada siapa Allah meminta dipertanggung jawapan kelak.
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16. Rasulullah yang mulia, sejak kecil ditinggal yatim oleh AYAHnya. Tapi nilai-nilai keAYAHan tak pernah hilang dan diperolehi dari datok dan ayah saudaranya sendiri..
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17. Generasi sahabat menjadi generasi gemilang kerana AYAH terlibat dalam mengasuh anak bersama ibu-ibu mereka. Mereka digelari umat terbaik.
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18. Di dalam AlQuran ternyata terdapat 17 dialog pendidikan anak-anak. 14 diantaranya iaitu antara AYAH dan anak. Ternyata AYAH lebih banyak disebut di dalam alquran!
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Tahukah anda di dalam al-Quran ada lebih banyak kisah mengenai ayah dan anak berbanding ibu dan anak?
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Kisah Luqmanulhakim dan anaknya, Kisah Nabi Ibrahim dan Nabi Ismail (serta anak-anak yang lain), Kisah Nabi Yaakub dan Nabi Yusuf (serta anak-anak yang lain), Kisah Nabi Nuh dan anak2nya, Kisah Nabi Luth dan anak2 perempuannya, Kisah Sheikh Madyan dan 2 orang anak perempuannya dan beberapa lagi yang lain.
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Ini menunjukkan ayah memainkan peranan yang SANGAT PENTING dalam Islam. Sudahkah kita memainkan peranan kita wahai bapa-bapa sekalian?
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Tepuklah dada dan tanyalah Iman sebelum Allah bertanya kepada kita akan amanah yang dipertanggungjawabkan sebagai ketua dalam keluarga...
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19. Marilah semua wahai AYAH-ayah untuk melibatkan diri dalam pendidikan baik di rumah, sekolah dan dimasjid..
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20. Ibu memang madrasah pertama seorang anak. Tetapi AYAH yang menjadi mudirnya. (Pengetuanya).
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21. Ibarat burung yang punyai dua sayap. anak memerlukan kedua-duanya untuk terbang tinggi ke angkasa. Kedua sayap itu adalah AYAH dan ibunya.
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22. Ibu mengasah kepekaan rasa, AYAH memberi makna terhadap logik. Kedua-duanya diperlukan oleh anak
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23. AYAH mengajarkan anak menjadi pemimpin yang tegas. Ibu membimbingnya menjadi pemimpin yg peduli. Tegas dan perihatin itu sikap utama.
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24. Jom wahai ayah-ayah pujuklah diri dan perkongsian ini agar makin banyak AYAH-ayah yang prihatin dengan urusan pengasuhan yang dikuasai oleh ibu-ibu dan membentuk generasi pejuang dunia akhirat.
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Allahuakbar.. !!!
Wallahua'lam.

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FOR DAD / FATHER / WALID / PAPA / DADDY'S REMEMBER..
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1. Actually when we have children, many have admitted to being FATHER, but not yet, like people who just had a ball, already admitted to being a footballer.. Have to learn how to draw the ball..
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2. FATHER is actually a title for a man who wants to babysit, not just 'make' children.. astaghfirullah. Sorry for being rude.. because there are many men like that, but not all.
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3. A FATHER who wants to be involved in babysitting with his wife, actually half of his family's problem has been overcome.. If you don't believe it, ask the wives.. (no matter how many his wives are).
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4. If a FATHER whose job is just to prepare and give money, it has equated himself to the ATM machine. Visited by the child when needed only. Hu hu muhasabah me..
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5. Today the tarbiyah function of DADDY is lost, many FATHER did not realize when his son entered the puberty.. and his daughter has started to be shy.. Dad is a loss..
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6. If there is a rebellious child, he is actually also from a rebellious FATHER. This is the term Sayyidina Umar Al Khattab..
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7. If a FATHER who wants to pray for his son, pray always from now for his son and educate him with religion..
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8. If FATHER wants to be glorified by his son, try to glorify his child with religious knowledge..
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9. According to study, many fathers almost lost their true DAD features. Because all child teachers in childhood are filled and dominated by mothers alone.
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10. Whereas bravery, survival and firmness, must be taught in childhood by fathers. Where is the main teacher's FATHER?
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11. DADDY's world at the moment for children is just their dreams. Kids looking for their dad on newspapers, tv and computers...
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12. Many children have felt orphaned before their time, because the FATHER is felt not present in their lives anymore. Because I'm very busy with dad's world.
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13. Come on all fathers, take the Al Quran Spirit about education ahead of FATHER as a figure. We know Lukmanulhakim, Ibrahim, Ya ' qub, Imron. In the Quran they are the example of caring FATHER.
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14. Ibnul Qoyyim in the book of Tuhfatul Maudud said: If there is a child, the main cause is FATHER..
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15. Remember! A child says to his FATHER not mother. The relationship that refers to the child shows whom Allah asks to be held accountable later.
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16. The noble Messenger of Allah, since he was a child left by his FATHER. But the values of SUNNY never disappear and obtained from his own grandfather and father..
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17. Generations of friends became a glorious generation because FATHER was involved in babysitting with their mothers. They are called the best people.
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18. In the Quran there are 17 educational dialogues of children. 14 of them are between father and son. Apparently the FATHER is more called in the Quran!
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Did you know there are more stories about father and son in the Quran than mother and child?
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The story of Luqmanulhakim and his son, the story of Prophet Ibrahim and Prophet Ismail (and other children), the story of Prophet Yaakub and Prophet Yusuf (as well as other children), the story of Prophet Noah and his children, the story of Prophet Luth and his daughters, the story of Sheikh Madyan and his 2 daughters and a few others.
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This shows dad playing a VERY IMPORTANT role in Islam. Have we played our role yet dear fathers?
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Clap your chest and ask Faith before Allah asks us about the trust held accountable as the leader of the family...
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19. Come all fathers to get involved in good education at home, school and mosque..
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20. Mother is indeed the first madrasah of a child. But the FATHER is his mudir. (The principal).
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21. Like a bird with two wings. kids need both to fly high in space. Both wings are DAD and her mother.
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22. Mother sharpening the sensitivity, FATHER means logic. Both needed by the child
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23. The FATHER teaches the child to be a firm leader. Mother guides her to be a caring leader. Being firm and concerned is the main attitude.
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24. Let's all fathers persuade yourself and share this so that there are more fathers who care about the parenting affairs that are mastered by mothers and form the generation of fighters in the afterlife.
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Oh my God..!!!
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Kredit:cinta husband and wifeTranslated

KENAPA AGAMA MELARANG KITA TIDUR SELEPAS SUBUH

Siapa yang suka tidur lepas subuh tolong baca.. dan siapa suka tidur lepas subuh kemudian bangun nak solat dhuha pun tolong baca.. sentap dan muhasabah sesama.. takda ruginya.. in shaa Allah..

Tidur lepas subuh, bagi pandangan orang soleh.
...Continue ReadingWhy does religion ban us from sleeping after dawn

Who likes to sleep after dawn please read.. and who likes to sleep after dawn then wake up to pray dhuha also please read.. Yank and muhasabah others.. No loss.. In Shaa Allah..

Sleep after dawn, give the view of the righteous.

A little sharing. Previously, I managed to meet a religious person.

His heart is a high level of knowledge that is a very strong knowledge. So whoever is close to it, be careful. What comes to heart and mind, make sure to make good things.
I correct my intention, my manners, my behavior when I face him every time.

Given a chance, I keep asking.

" Ustaz, how to do so that you don't sleep after dawn?"
He is menjawabkan,

"there has never been a term of sleep after dawn".

Ohhh, " become a ustaz, what is the law of sleeping after dawn?

" do you want me to answer in your school or my school? She said it again.

I whisper in my heart " is there a lot of school?".

Don't you want to say things that you can't hide with me.

" Astaghfirullah, he read the trajectory of my heart..."

"sorry ustaz".

I talk to him,

"two two madhhab, Ustaz".

He said, if it's your way of life, your way of practice, your school, you continue to sleep after dawn and be you like a dead dog.

I want to cry.

" but if in my school, my way, the practice that I know, this kind of person he falls in disbelief!"

I'm quiet.

" why ustaz?"

He replied, this kind of person is arrogant with Allah. He acts in front of God!. He rejects God's gift! How can he sleep while God sends down his sustenance, his grace every morning after sunrise, but he can sleep. It's like if you're a millionaire,

Bring millions of money to meet a poor poor papa every day. But what did the fakir do to you? He sleeps and does not care about your money while he is poor. So what's on your mind? Surely you will say "he is already poor to die, he is arrogant".

I'm jerks.

He said it again

" people who sleep after dawn and then wake up, there's still a heart to dhuha, allahuakbar. People like this are not ashamed in front of Allah. Just now he rejected Allah's gift. Now want to take back the provisions and blessings of Allah. Indeed, humans are ignorant. This person should have to repent before going to dhuha prayer ".

Allahuakbar.

When sitting with people who every time fear Allah, then realize how our practices are all this time. How stressed my mind has been. It's so different to compare our practices that don't know God will accept it or not. But life everyday doesn't seem to feel much sin. Oh my God...

We have a lot of sins, not just a lot of sins even the sin of sin.

He said it again

" a arrogant person if you repent, Allah forgives. If arrogant people do you think Allah wants to forgive while that is the devil's nature?
Allahuakbar.

I'm asking about sleep after dawn I feel like going to hell. Haven't asked anything else yet.

He said it again

" a lot of young people say they need to sleep after dawn because they didn't sleep enough last night because of playing futsal, walking around and what you never thought of the day and that night was Allah?"

" Allah has said in the Qur ' an, I make it for you to work, night for you to rest. If Allah you change it according to your own brain, that's why your life is ride.

Who are you? Want to change the Allah?

" Allahuakbar, our thoughts are far different from the people who are afraid of Allah. People who are close to Allah. Life really has to drive the Quran and the hadith. But, seek the one who can interpret what is in the Qur ' an and the hadith. Don't keep asking for dalil from this person and process with your own head. Some people bring the Quran to the downstream.

It's not wrong, but look for a good job so that it will not be wrong to interpret the law according to your lust.
Yank beb,, feels like cutting onions,, but it's true after I start to realize.

Yank beb...
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Update:
We find out that there is no ban through the clear nas about sleeping ban after dawn. Therefore, there is no obstacle to those who want to sleep after dawn but the best is to leave it based on the hadith that shows the advantages of living the time after dawn.

https://muftiwp.gov.my/artikel/irsyad-fatwa/irsyad-fatwa-umum/1838-irsyad-al-fatwa-ke-149-tidur-selepas-subuh-apakah-hukumnyaTranslated

Kudos to the hero.

To all my family friends and fans. To everyone of you who have been a part of my life, thank you. A real big sincere thank you.

Months ago, all of you knew I had cancer. I fought it. And I thought I fought it well. I thought I could try one more time.

I am just someone who love to play badminton. Someone who love my country. I feared of retiring with regrets. I was scared of not delivering that elusive Olympic gold for Malaysia. So when I was cleared of cancer, I took up my racquet and trained once again.

After few days of light training, I wanted to get clearanyce from my doctor to heighten my training intensity, then i was dealt a major blow. From that scan, doctor shook his head and said i might face the risk of recurrence if I continue to train. Mew Choo crumbled crying. She feared i might be stubborn and continue to pursue my dream.

I was at loss. I thought “How am I supposed to hang up my racket after nearly twenty years of competitive badminton?, “ How about my Olympic dreams?”

At home, i kept myself occupied with my two sons, Kingston and Terrence. I bathed them, I fed them, I taught them badminton. I spent time with them. Most importantly, I really watched them grew up.

Then it struck me to finally make up my mind. I shouldn’t be so selfish. I have played for myself, I have played for my country. This time, I want to play the role of a father, for long long time. I want to see them grow up to be proper men, to get married, to have kids. I want to take care of my wife when she is old too.

So Yes, I have made my decision to quit. I’m sorry that I couldn’t make it to Tokyo this time around. And I’m sorry I didn’t deliver an Olympic gold. But I know I’ve no regrets as I’ve tried my best. My very best.

I hope my name Lee Chong Wei has inspired you all one way or another, same like the way you guys inspired me. Without my family, my teammates, my coaches, and my supporters, I won’t achieve anything.

To my fellow badminton players like the Lin Dans, the Taufiks, the Peter Gades, and Hyun ills. Yup, my time is up. Thank you for the great battles we had. As amazing as it is, i think our era should be coming to an end now. Momota, Victor, Yuqi and Zi Jia, do hold the fort well. Make the world realise badminton is the best sport on earth.

To fellow Malaysian shuttlers, don’t give up the dream. Please remember there are actually thousands of Malaysians praying for your success. Train harder everyday. Always beat yesterday’s training records. Also, a sportsman life is short. Don’t end with regrets. There is actually a young 5 years old Ali, Muthu or Ah Meng idolising you, making you their Malaysian superhero. Don’t disappoint them. Play for the flag, play for Negaraku.

I had no regrets. When i started playing badminton, all I wanted to do is to represent Malaysia. And I believed I did it with pride and honour.

Well. I’m done. Thank you very much to all of you. Lee Chong Wei signing out.

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Rakan sekalian, Selamat Hari Raya dan Salam sejahtera. Saya ingin meminta maaf Sebab saya sudah tidak mampu lagi bermain badminton untuk negara dan anda semua.

Doktor menasihatkan saya bahawa risiko kanser kembali agak tinggi sekiranya saya berlatih dengan intensiti seperti dulu.

Ya, Tokyo 2020 tidak kesampaian. Tetapi, saya rasa saya akan meninggalkan arena Badminton tanpa kekesalan. Dari kecil, impian saya memang nak mewakili negara ini. Dan rasanya, saya dah berjaya.

Perasaan berdiri di podium, melihat bendera dinaikkan dan mendengar lagu Negaraku sememangnya akan dirindui.

Jangan risau sangat atas pengunduran Diri Saya Kerana kita mempunyai Barisan pelapis Yang kuat. Saya yakin dia orang boleh!

Terima kasih kawan kawan. Minta maaf atas mana mana Yang tak sempurna dalAm karier sukan saya. Dah tiba masa untuk kuda tua ini berehat. Terima kasih.

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大家好，我是李宗伟，几经挣扎我最终选择了挂拍，为我近20年在马来西亚国家队的羽毛球职业生涯，画上句点。

很抱歉让球迷们失望了，如果情况允许，我也想第五次站在奥运的赛场上，实现奥运金牌梦，如果身体可以我也想承载着国人的寄望，披着国旗继续前进，如果可以... 但，人生没有如果。

放下球拍这不是容易的决定，心里头满满的不舍，但决定了就好了。感谢教练、队友、羽总全体员工、物理治疗师、所有喜欢我的爱我的支持我的、看过我打球的、曾给我留言的朋友，谢谢你们，这一路上因为有你们，我才能是我。

很多朋友问我之后什么打算？除了好好休息，还有好多事情等着我去做，其中包括实现承诺，带我的老婆去度蜜月，结婚到现在讲到现在，终于有时间可以去做了，哈，有什么好地方推荐吗？

各位朋友，这一站我就先下车了，希望带着你们的祝福，开启下一段更精彩的人生路。

5 weeks left to Oct 21!

Not feeling so great cause I caught a bug, it's flu season so wherever you are at please take care and pack on the water, Vit C & D, the veggies, fruits, protein and exercise smart!

Other fun stuff - I got my posing shoes! Can't wait to try them on and practice the struts, cause that is crucial other than working on the physique.

Found out this week what would happen to my body when i went up to 100g of Carbs in comparison to 60g daily. Definitely felt happier but I also stored more water. Learnt that for every 1g of carb you eat you store 3g of water, yay....... water retention. But it's ok don't fret on the weighing scale. Learnt that my body seems to be handling carbs better judging from the weight loss.

While we are on the topic of food.. if you haven't signed up yet for my talk "Fit and Fab 101" happening at @Koafitnessmy this 16 Sept, do click the link above and i'm sure you'll learn a few more healthy nuggets from me for your journey. Good night fit lovelies!

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Hello Youtube family,

I'm a little nervous about posting today's video. I'm sorry it's not the usual chirpy type of vlog. Originally, the footage wasn't supposed to be up so early but life never goes the way we plan right?

It’s been a bit of an emotional week. Due to a missed period, I took a pregnancy test on 8th October to find out we were expecting again. Just to be sure, I sent Tim out to get more tests to be sure. Since he came back with a two-pack, I took another test and it came back positive again. With one spare, I took the other test the next day but it came back negative (note- it wasn’t morning urine). Confused- I sent the hubby to grab more. This time, he came back with a triple pack. The next test was a big fat positive. After the initial confusion, we realised we really wanted this baby and thought maybe this baby was truly meant to be.

At the same time, Tim and I didn’t want to think too much. It was very early so we knew anything could happen since 1 in 5 pregnancies end up in a miscarriage. However, it didn’t stop us from thinking of baby names and envisioning our life as a family of four.

During my photoshoot in London, I felt lightheaded and my stomach pains started to feel more intense. I thought maybe I was just over fatigued so didn’t want to worry myself too much. As I was waiting for my flight back home, I felt pressure in my lower region. I stumbled to the bathroom and realised I was bleeding. Rather than the dark brown spotting I had days ago, it was a brighter colour of red indicating fresh blood. The bleeding eventually stopped for a bit so I felt more assured but as I got out of the airplane, I felt the bleeding started to return. Since I was emotionally and physically tired from the long day, I went to to bed early with hopes that rest could maybe prevent the worse from happening. Around 6am, I woke up to more stomach pains and pressure as I went to use the bathroom, I finally accepted I was having a miscarriage.

I knew my body wasn’t in it’s best condition so in a lot of ways, I wonder if it could’ve been prevented. It’s been an emotional few days. I spent it doing some grieving and I feel a lot better now. Since I was less than 5 weeks along, I’m thankful the loss happened early. To those who have also experienced a loss, I am so so sorry and my heart is with you. Know that you are not alone. We can only try to understand that everything happens for a reason. I hope you can take comfort in your family and friends.

It made me thankful to know Isaac was born into the world safely with no complications. I know Tim and I are still young and we have more opportunities in the future to expand our family.

We were not ready for another baby and the pregnancy was definitely a shock but our early loss has made us realise that if we are blessed to get pregnant again in the future, we would be ready and happy for it.

Physically, my body doesn’t feel too bad. It just felt like I was having a very heavy period. Usually my flow finishes in 4-5 days but my womb completely cleared within 2 days. Still experiencing a little nausea and cramping but I’m getting lots of cuddles from the family. Chubbi and Domo make fantastic hot water bottles too.

Even though it was an early miscarriage, I think I was a more upset about it than I thought I would be. I wasn’t as excited as I was with my first pregnancy and it was because I was overwhelmed since I knew what to expect. Once I started to embrace the changes about to come our way, I was able to connect with my pregnancy with excitement. Unfortunately, by then- the pregnancy couldn't progress.

Tim has reminded me that I could’ve been perfectly healthy and careful and yet sometimes, these things will just happen. We still feel incredibly blessed for our family already. We will leave it all to the Lord. He has been taking care of our family and we know everything happens for a reason. We know other people out there have had it way worse. Our situation is nothing in comparison. We are always going to be thankful ^_^

Love, the Bubz family xo




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