【無法滿足的人】THE MAN WHO CANNOT BE SATISFIED
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最近為一位馬來西亞的男客人，通過視訊批八字，我們談了很多，從他的婚姻、家庭、事業走向、到個人問題等等。
當天晚上，他有感而發，寫了兩頁的信發給我。
我來回讀了幾次，還是那句話：難改的不是命，難改的是人的習性。
你貪圖什麼東西，你就注定被那個東西綁死。
你若被綁死，就得賠上一輩子的自由和自在。
你將無法自主你的人生，因為你已被慾望他主了。
我是一個研究命運的人。
我的初衷，就是希望你能得到專業的指點，讓你走在幸福和光明的生命軌道上。
我看得到你看不到的未來。
所以我預先告訴你。
你把慾望當成很真實的東西，你就一直被慾望束縛，做它的奴隸，被它一波又一波地吞噬，被它一次又一次地折磨，還因此把福報也給折了。
諷刺的是，無論你如何去滿足你的慾望，你卻從來不曾真正擁有過。
看不破這一切是幻，就得賠上本來能令你引以為榮的人生了。
朋友，不值得啊！
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幕後寫文稿製片是個很孤獨的過程，難得有客人留意到，還把我分析地那麼仔細。感謝客人的贊語。
那今天就把這信的前半段貼上來，讓自己在家也能高興高興一下 😁🥳
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Recently I did a Bazi consultation online for a Malaysian male client. We spoke about a lot of issues, from his marriage, family, career direction to his personal problems etc.
That night, he thought over a lot and wrote a 2-page letter to me.
I read it repeatedly and I only have this to say: It isn't Destiny that is difficult to change. It is the habits of Man that is tough to overcome.
When you are greedy for something, you get bounded by that thing.
If you are unable to untie yourself from it, then you lose the freedom to choose your own life.
You lose the self-control to your life, because you are dictated by your desires.
I study destinies.
I start out with the intention to give my professional advice, so that you can walk on the life path to happiness and brightness steadily.
I can see the future that you cannot see. So I tell you about it in advance.
You are chained to your desires, because you see them as real things. So you become a slave to your desires, as they slowly devour and torment you. You pay for it with your good fortune in life.
Ironically, no matter how hard you try to satisfy your desires, you never really own them.
If you cannot see through the illusory nature of desires, you lose yourself, you lose the life that you can be proud of.
It will never be worth it, my friend.
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Writing and producing videos behind the scenes is a very lonely journey. It is rare that a client notices it, and give me such a detailed analysis. Thank you for his praises.
I'm putting the first half of the letter here, so that there is something to cheer myself up during these lockdown days. 😁🥳
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Translation of client's letter:
Amitabha, hello Teacher Ji Qian.
Firstly, I am truly grateful that you are willing to spend so much time on me. This is already beyond your service time scope. You also helped to analyse my wife's Bazi, and explained to me the origin of the problems between my wife and I and the way of resolution. All these are extra service. Thank you. I deeply appreciate this.
Here, I have some thoughts I would like to share with you.
During this period, I see that your reading and replying of messages tend to be during 1-2am, 5-6am in the morning. I can tell how busy you are.
Yet despite your busyness, you still put in so much effort to do your videos, patiently teaching and advising people. This is what I admire about you.
Among the many Feng Shui practitioners, I think this is very rare. In your many videos, you spoke many times about the relationships between abstinence from sexual misdeeds, filial piety, wealth and career, and the importance of virtuous conduct. This is what other Feng Shui practitioners do not talk about (at least there is no mention on their websites, because they mainly focus on Feng Shui wealth decor).
So I feel you truly can help people, and guide your clients to change their luck from the root.
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