關於 things to do without phone ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

It’s been awhile since I last posted a picture of me. Without Layla, without Deon, not in home clothes, not without makeup. Just me, post motherhood, looking stylish, glamorous and unfriendly. Haha!
 
While I must admit that it is nice to have chio photos to showcase on social media, however as I age, more and more so I relish being in the present. And that means, when I am with my daughter I spend quality time with her instead of trying to capture the perfect moment, and be spending quality time with my phone instead. Likewise, when I’m with my friends, at work, with my family, with Deon, having a nice meal, all dressed up for an event or an editorial shoot, when I’m cooking, reading a book, taking my daughter out to park, cycling, working out, etc. I am in that moment with them and myself. It is such a beautiful feeling to be able to be completely engaged in something I am doing, such a privilege to be spending quality time with myself especially after being a mom.
 
It is unfortunate that in this time and age, people often do things for the sake of presenting it to the rest of the world. There’s this weird mentality of, 'if I don’t show then it doesn’t count because people wouldn’t know that I have done it.'
 
I’m proud to say, those days where I needed external validation is over.
 
When I first started Instagram, it was because I wanted to document my life’s journey. I posted my first picture on 10 June 2011, it’s been a decade (OMG)! It’s been through so many stages of my life with me. The good times and the bad, many relationships, heartbreaks, marriage, vacations, wonderful meals, hairstyles, fashion, deaths, births. I am delighted that 10 years later, ive stayed authentic and shared only things that matters to me at that point in my life. it’s like a little journal that I keep. I may not put in much effort with showing ‘Instagram-worthy’ pictures, but I sure do with writing my thoughts.
 
So thank you guys, for being here with me all these years. For accepting my less than perfect photos, my bad grammar, my infrequent posts, my long-windedness, my non-existent replies and comments.

But here I am, what you see is what you get.

Happy blessed Monday!

終於有機會同 @mcheung1201 一齊合唱《反對無效》嘅英文版本 “How Many Times” 🤘🏻😝! 多謝 @sotoc and @nictsui for jamming with us! And the nice mix by @enoch_cheng ! You guys asked for a duet version, so here it is, 希望你哋鍾意！🙏🏻❤️ #反對無效 #HowManyTimes

“How Many Times”

曲：馮允謙 / Cameron Browne
詞：馮允謙
Piano: 蘇道哲
Guitar: Nic Tsui
Mix by Enoch Cheng

MC: Been waiting by the phone to ring everyday
But you don’t really ever seem to call
I managed to push you away, away from me
Now I’m by myself, by myself here all alone

J: How many times, did I try but can’t move on
I fought a million times, but I still keep holdin’ on
My heart is crumblin’ deep down inside
But I still can’t seem to let you go oh…

MC: Everyday it seems like I’ve been losing my mind
The things I did to hurt you, wish that I could rewind
I feel the beat of my heart keeps moving too fast
Moving too fast yeah...
J: All the times you needed me I pushed you away
Was scared that you might pick up and just lead me astray
I need you, need you, back in my life
I’ll do it different this time with you
No I just can’t live without you...oooo...

MC: How many times did I try but can't move on
You fought a million times, til you couldn’t stand no more
J: I built a wall round’ my heart deep inside
Never let nobody ever come close

Together: Everyday it seems like I’ve been losing my mind
The things I did to hurt you, wish that I could rewind
I feel the beat of my heart keeps moving too fast
Moving too fast yeah...
Together: All the times you needed me I pushed you away
Was scared that you might pick up and just lead me astray
I need you, need you, back in my life
I’ll do it different this time with you
No I just can’t live without you...oooo...

J: I’m sorry that I couldn’t, give you all of me…
This broken heart, that hasn’t healed entirely… ohhh no...
MC: Now I’ll have, to live, life knowing, I let you slip away...

MC: Everyday it seems like I’ve been losing my mind
The things I did to hurt you, wish that I could rewind
I feel like half of my heart is missing inside, sometimes I just wanna die
Together: If you give me one more chance I will make a change
I will do my best to love you all of my days
I need you, need you, back in my life
I’ll do it different this time with you
No I just can’t live without you

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I had this long-distance relationship 2 years ago and it was one of my happiest and also the most depressing time of my life. He was there for me the whole time and the only way we could connect was a simple call every single night before bed. I would tell him about my day, all the little things that made me happy or sad. It was usually sad. I would cry every night without knowing why and he would just be there on the phone, listening.

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I wanted to write a song about that. To be that one call for someone.

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Because I know how those late-night calls made me feel accompanied and safe like it isn't so bad to be this way.

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Loving someone that doesn't love themselves is hard. Loving that someone from afar is even harder. So thank you.

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I think I relate this song to my mum the most. She's in Thailand right and I haven't seen her for about 8 months. I feel like I never express how much I miss her when we're on the phone because IDK, I just couldn't say it out loud but I do miss her a lot. I guess this song also resembles a little part of her reaching out to me and a part of me saying I fine mum don’t worry.

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thank you daniel this amazing arrangement
thank you lester for writing this beautiful song with me
thank you enoch for making this feels complete


here are the lyrics:')



Spacing out, I hold myself tight
How should I send my warmth to you,
Through the night

I know you've tried,
Oh so tired, I know
Not everything's in control in life
So take your time

Just breathe (it won't cost you much)
Breathe (and youʼll be ready to)
Figure out someday,
Even if you don't itʼs okay
Just breathe (donʼt hold it in)
Breathe (don't worry we still can)
Figure out someday,
Even if we don't itʼs okay

It'll never be enough
Wonʼt ever love yourself
But thereʼs always one beside you
Although he may be far
So far, so far, so far

Just breathe (it won't cost you much)
Breathe (and youʼll be ready to)
Figure out someday,
Even if you don't its okay
Just breathe (and let it out)
Breathe (don't worry we still can)
Figure out someday,
Even if you don't itʼs okay

*beautiful outro outta spacccee*

《daydream》
for ロンリー / 致孤獨 / for lonely
作詞 / Lyricist：阿部真央
作曲 / Composer：阿部真央
編曲 / Arranger：玉井健二・大西省吾
歌 / Singer：Aimer with 阿部真央
翻譯：澄野（CH Music Channel）
意譯：CH（CH Music Channel）
English Translation: Thaerin

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中文翻譯 / Chinese Translation :
https://home.gamer.com.tw/creationDetail.php?sn=4872250

英文翻譯 / English Translation :
https://www.lyrical-nonsense.com/lyrics/aimer/for-lonely-with-mao-abe/

日文歌詞 / Japanese Lyrics :
大好きな人　君はどう思う？
些細なことでぶつかり合う僕らを
僕の意地っぱりも　君の強がりも
全部会えないことのせいにしてしまおう

大好きな人　知っているか？
今日も君への想いで僕は揺れてる
ちょっととぼけた　可愛い人
今君に会いたくて僕は泣いてる

触れられない　触れ合えないことに　かなり参ってる
不安なんだよ　Baby　口にはできないけど

抱き締めたなら　ただそれだけで済んでしまうことなのに
for ロンリー

大好きな人　なんでそう思う？
自分ばかりが好きなんじゃないかって
驚いたよ　大好きな人
今の僕にその言葉はないだろう？

電話越し　突然に泣き出す君にどぎまぎしている
どうしろっての　Baby　こんなに好きなのに…

他の何かじゃ　満たせそうにないから困っているのに

for ロンリー
for ロンリー
for ロンリー

大半が　下らない
すれ違い　想い合うが故の憂さ

抱き締めたなら　ただそれだけで済んでしまうことなのに
for ロンリー
for ロンリー

Lonely you
Lonely girl
Lonely you

中文歌詞 / Chinese Lyrics :
最摯愛的人，你是怎麼想的呢？
因微不足道的小事而爭吵的我們
將我那不退讓的固執和你那不認輸的逞強
全歸在無法相見的錯上吧

我那最摯愛的人，你知道嗎？
今日又因對你的思念使我的心難以平復
有些許笨拙且可愛的人
我因過於渴望與你相見而落淚

無法觸及你、無法彼此相觸，使我十分挫折懊惱
「我其實很不安，Baby。」即使這種話難以說出口

即便僅是彼此緊緊相擁，便能令我感到滿足
致這份孤獨

我那最摯愛的人，為何會這麼認為呢？
「僅有你任性地沉浸在自己的世界。」
我很驚訝，我那最摯愛的人
為什麼你這時候能對我說出那種傷人的話？

電話那頭，因突然哭出聲的你而深感焦慮慌張
你是想要我怎麼做才好，Baby？明明我是如此地喜歡你......

明明除了你以外，不再有任何事物可以滿足我的內心，令我百般困擾

致你承擔的孤獨
致我擔負的孤獨
致這份屬於兩人的孤獨

其實全都是些枯燥乏味的事
心中的陰鬱全因彼此交錯擦身的思念而生

即便僅是彼此緊緊相擁，便能令我感到滿足
致孤獨
致這份孤獨

致孤單的你
致孤單的女孩
致孤單的你

英文歌詞 / English Lyrics :
Dear, my beloved. What do you think
About us fighting over the slightest things?
Let’s blame my stubbornness, and your false strength,
On the fact we can’t see one another right now.

Dear, my beloved. Did you already know
That even today, I’m still shaken by my feelings for you?
You slightly aloof, precious thing…
Wishing to see you, I’m steeped in tears.

I’m pretty defeated, unable to touch you… and be touched by you.
I’m feeling so uneasy, baby… though I can’t quite speak the words.

Even though it would solve everything… if you just took me in your arms.

Dear, my beloved. Why is it you think
That I’m merely self-absorbed?
I’m so surprised, my beloved –
You shouldn’t be able to say those things to me now…

From the other side of the phone, I’m getting flustered from your outburst of tears.
What do you expect me to do, baby? Despite loving you this much…

I’m in a bind ’cause I can’t imagine anything fulfilling me like you do.

Most of our reasons are foolish;
This melancholy is born of crossed wires and caring intent.

Even though it would solve everything… if you just took me in your arms.

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Most of the time, when you cry your heart out to others, the most they can advise you is "stay positive dear." Well, now what exactly stay positive means?

How do you even stay positive when all the emotions are compiling into massive energy and overwhelm you at the most unimaginable way?


1. Accept That "You Are Who You Are"

You are you. You can't change you and be what others are expecting out of you. If you are the person who likes to spend time all alone then don't take the extra initiative to change what you prefer.

Accept what you truly are. If you are clueless about you then study about your own self. Get to know you personally. When reading a novel makes you happy, nothing that others say is going to change your mind now. You know exactly why you are avoiding all the other plans and reading a novel now.

When you accept you as you are, nothing is going to kill the positivity that happens around you when you are doing your happy stuff. In fact, you will feel more confident and super positive as you know exactly why you're doing certain things in life.


2. Set A Goal To Reach

While you are surrounded by grey cloud, you would be able to see a path that leads you out of the grey cloud. Your Goal.

Yes, you would immediately be able to focus on your goal and ignore all the negativity around you. Focus on flourishing and enriching life.

If you are easily distracted, then make sure that each step, though it is a very small step brings you forward towards your goals.


3. Plan Your Day

Wake up to having plans each day. Don't wake up all lost and not knowing what to do. If can plan your day one day ahead. Have a list of things to do.

Wake up with the energy to accomplish things. If you feel like resting than rest well. No mood should make you feel weak. Have a reason to why you deserve the rest. If you feel low then distract yourself with another plan.

Meditate or something. Try downloading a new game on your phone. Try reading a new novel. Figure out what will keep you positive and active throughout the day. Plan it well.

4. Let go

Don't hold it anymore. Whatever that has been breaking you into pieces is now got to leave you. Sometimes, it is you who would have been holding on to it. Let it go.

Try living a life without that negativity and you will start noticing other unopened doors in life. Start to explore and discover other parts of life that you haven't figure yet.

Let the negativity go and start opening your eyes to all the positive things around you. Sometimes putting closure to your negativity will help you to move on fast. Do it.