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SUNAT ANAK KETIKA BAYI, SUNNAH YANG DILUPAKAN

Orang arab panggil khitan, orang melayu pula sebut khatan atau sunat, orang-orang tua sebut 'masuk jawi'.

Ramai yang tak tahu, sunat meng'khatan'kan bayi pada hari ke-7.
...Continue ReadingCIRCUMSTANCES WHEN A BABY, A FORGOTTEN SUN

Arabs call khitan, Malays mention circumcision or circumcision, the old people say 'enter jawi'.

Many people don't know, circumcision will make baby circumcision on the 7. th day

Yes, apart from aqiqah, shaving hair, and giving name, circumcision also among the sunnah of his majesty SAW on the 7th day of birth.

Baby is suitable for circumcision as soon as birth to 4 months old. After that, it's quite difficult to be circumcised, because the baby is starting to lie down.

Sadly, many do not know or miss this sunnah circumcision. It's also a custom for the Malays to circumcise their son when they're late for children.

From Jabir bin ' Abdillah ra; that Rasulullah saw implemented Hasan and Husain's aqiqah and Husain and proceeded both on the sevent (HR; Thabrani and Baihaqi)

From Ibnu ' Abbas ra said,
′′ There are seven things that include the sunnah of the baby on the seventh day: Named, circumcised,...." (HR; Thabrani)

From Abu Ja ' far ra said,
′′ Fathimah carried out his son's aqiqah on the seventh day. He also shaved and shaved his hair as well as the silver as the weight of his hair." (HR; Ibn Abi Syaibah)

Alhamdulillah, Taqi & Zaki we circumcised their time 3 months.

We're a little late. But for some people they ask, why is it so early?

Among the reasons why many choose to miss the child's circumcision:
1. Don't know the circumcision between the sunnah of the 7th day and better be hastened.
2. Pity and worry, afraid that the baby is sick.
3. I haven't reached the heart to see the circumcision process and watch the baby cry
4. Want children to feel the experience of being circumcised.

Circumcision is sunnah. So it's a religious guide. Islam is not wrong, but Islam is rahmah's religion.

So, don't think about ' poor baby ', afraid that baby is sick and so on. Because Islam will not be wronged by its people. While in animals Islam teaches rahmah's nature, this is what happens to babies. So of course there's rahmah when we're circumcising our baby.

Among the advantages of circumcision as a baby:

1. Babies lack of pain, because baby skin is still soft. baby sleeps a lot. Just like us, if we sleep, all the pain will be gone.

2. Baby wounds heal fast, as early as 5-7 days.

3. Babies don't need to confinement. Even parents don't need to get tired of taking care of children's abst Because the food is only milk.

4. Babies are not blocked by the move. Because the baby's work is lying down and sleeping.

5. Babies won't be afraid. Because babies still have no fear. Different from children, they already know the meaning of fear.

6. Parents don't need to be tired of persuading their children so they agree to circumcise Because baby is ready to surrender to be circumcised.

7. Circumcised babies can avoid the disease. Some children who have not been circumcised will be affected by blind urine. So, finally the doctor recommended to be circumcised soon.

8. Parents are also not tired of taking care of babies after circumcision. Because the care is very easy.

Isn't this all proof of sunnah rahmah? Ease baby's affairs and ease parent s' affairs.

If mom or dad are afraid, maybe we can try not to watch the circumcision process. Let her baby nenda or uncle accompany her. Don't be because of our shortcomings, the sunnah has to be missed.

If the circumcision experience is sought,
Hmmm, there are many other experiences that the child can find. At least, you can record the circumcision process using your handphone. When you grow up, show back to the child.

It's here, the custom is changed to sunnah.
Don't be because according to our custom to leave sunnah.
Sunnah is more important.

You don't lose your child's circumcision
Actually, they will be very grateful because their parents chose to circumcise them early.

How many mothers regret that they didn't regret because they didn't circumcise their children when they were little.

If something has been missed, it's okay. Continue to find the right time to circumcise your children. InsyaAllah it will be eased

Khitan has two times, mandatory time and sunnah time. The mandatory time is when the age of baligh, and the sunnah time is before. Ibnu Hajar the best time to do the circumcision is on the seventh day after birth and does not slow down the circumcision so that the time is mandatory unless there is a certain excuse or cause. (Fathul Bari 10/342).

Let's follow the sunnah :)

Thank God, the process of Taqi & Zaki circumcision is all made easy. I'm not awake either, live like normal days. Day 3 of our circumcision has gone on holiday in Terengganu.. hehe..

We are circumcised with Dr. Khairuddin at Taqwa clinic, Ipoh. Dr Khairuddin is very experienced. Her work is very thorough and neat.

Cost of only RM140 including medicine. It's pretty cheap than most normal places. If it's in KL Selangor area, we survey the price of about RM250- 400. That's what we do in Ipoh, save money! Hehe..

Time to circumcise the baby, Dr. Khairuddin shows the 'palat' that is inside the penis Taqi & Zaki, the doctor also said,

′′ Look, even the baby's palat has many like this, imagine if the 12-year-old is not circumcised anymore. Many have been accumulated in there ".

This is a piece of our experience. We were not able to follow the sunnah for Taqi & Zaki circumcision on the 7th day due to health and various matters. So we can only follow the sunnah to hurry to circumcise them.

Islam is very beautiful. There must be a lot of wisdom behind the sunnah circumcision when a baby.

Our children also look more macho and handsome when they're married 😎

Good morning..

Nur Shazareen
Mama to 2 macho heroes & a heroin ayuTranslated

Seorang Suami Menemui Sebuah Diari Arwah Isterinya Dan Hampir Pitam Selepas Membaca Kandungan Diari Tersebut Kerana Rupanya Arwah Isterinya Itu Sudah Banyak Kali...
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Apa yang nak aku tuliskan ini, jadikan lah sebagai pengajaran buat semua lelaki di luar sana yang bergelar suami. Kisah ini mungkin menyayat hati bagi yang masih ada ‘hati’.

Hari ni genap 67 hari arwah isteri aku meninggl. Dan selama 67 hari ini juga aku tak henti henti menangis di atas pemergian isteri yang paling aku sayang. Bukan aku tak redha, cuma aku rasa seperti tak lepas.

Seperti ada sesuatu yg belum selesai antara kami. Dan malam ini, aku terjaga bukan kerana tangisan baby yg minta disusukan, tapi kerana seakan terdengar dengar tangisan arwah. Allahu..aku tak kuat.

Aku dah berkahwin selama lebih kurg 3 tahun setengah dengan isteri. Kami kahwin muda. Seawal usia aku 20, dan isteri 19. Di awal perkahwinan, semuanya indah belaka. Aku sgt mencintai isteri sehingga langsung tak boleh berjauhan dengan nya.

Sampai kadang kadang bila kena oustation, aku menangis rindukan dia pada waktu malam (aku bekerja di company milik family, dan dia belajar di ipts dekat dgn rumah) . Pergi ke mana saja, aku akan bawa dia bersama. Hatta keluar isi minyak atau beli top up pun dia akan merengek nak ikut. Isteri aku mmg manja org nya dan type of overly attached wife. Tapi aku tak rimas, malah aku suka.

Kami memang sangat rapat. Tambahan pula kami bercinta lepas nikah. We explore everything together. Bila dia cuti sem, aku akan bawa dia berjalan mana dia nak pergi. Isteri aku cantik orgnya. Bukan aku puji sebab dia isteri aku, tetapi sebab semua orang pun cakap perkara sama.

Bila keluar, kalau isteri aku melaram mesti ada je mata yang duk pandang pandang. Memang aku sakit hati, tapi aku pujuk diri dengan cakap takpelah, dia milik aku skrg. Lagipun aku tahu isteri aku mmg jenis sangat tidak melayan.

Bercakap dengan lelaki pun kurang. Dulu masa nak pikat hati dia pun ambil masa berbulan baru dapat kenal. Dia seorang yang sopan, dan menutup aurat dengan sempurna.

Dari awal kahwin, sehingga hampir setahun, aku rasa sangat senang dengan arwah. Kalau boleh, aku nak ada dekat dengan dia je 24jam. Bila ada kerja luar, aku akan settlekan cepat dan berkejar nak balik rumah.

Namun bila masa berlalu, tanpa aku sedar aku makin banyak berubah. Tanpa aku sedar, arwah makan hati dalam diam. Aku makin jauh dengan dia. Aku sibuk dengan kerja luar, sehingga aku rasa seronok berada di luar berbanding di rumah bersama isteri. Kadang kadang, aku cari je apa yang boleh aku settlekan di luar rumah sebab aku bosan stay dekat rumah.

Sepanjang perkahwinan, mmg aku langsung tak pernah keluar kalau bukan bersama arwah. Apa lagi nak lepak malam malam dengan kawan lama. Sampai laa suatu masa aku join macam macam club kereta dan motor.

Makin banyak alasan aku nak jumpa kawan itu dan kawan ini. Mula mula arwah diam , lama lama dia mula merungut yang dia bosan di rumah kesorangan. Tapi aku tak peduli pun. Kadang kadang dia menangis sebab kecil hati dengan aku. Tapi setiap kali dia menangis bila bergaduh atau berkecil hati, aku tak pernah pedulikan dia. Sedar sedar dia dah tertidur dengan air mata kat pipi.

Ye, aku tahu aku suami yg jahat. Aku biasakan dia dengan layanan seperti seorang puteri, kemudian aku ragut semuanya . Dari seorang suami yang cukup lembut, aku berubah menjadi seperti seekor singa bila bergaduh.

Aku akan ignore dia. Aku akan cakap kasar kasar dengan dia. Tangan aku mula pandai sentuh badan dia (itu kalau dia yg mulakan dulu). Sampai kadang kadang aku rasa mcm jodoh aku dengan dia dah takde.

Kami kerap bertengkar. Dan kebanyakannya berpunca dari sikap dia yang terlalu kuat cemburu. Tapi itu dulu, masa dia hidup. Bila dia dah pergi, baru aku sedar. Dia bukannya cemburu buta tetapi dia mahu aku jadi suami yg soleh. Dia mahukan yg terbaik untuk dunia dan akhirat aku. Allah, berdosanya aku.

Aku mengaku, aku memang susah nak jaga mata. Bila keluar berdua, dan ada perempuan cantik yg melintas depan kami mesti mata aku akan terpesona tgk kecantikan perempuan tu. Padahal isteri aku ada kat sebelah. Dan isteri aku pun sangat cantik.

Tapi aku tak pernah sedar semua tu. Bagi aku biasa lah tu lelaki mmg suka tgk perempuan cantik. Aku tak tahu yang isteri aku sedih dengan sikap aku tu. Arwah selalu tegur. Tapi aku buat tak tahu je. Sampai satu masa arwah dah tak tegur lagi, mungkin dia dah penat dengan perkara sama. Aku memang tak tahu bersyukur. Aku tak pernah rasa cukup dgn apa yg aku adaa. Sedangkan arwah dah cukup segalanya

To be honest, aku juga sukar jaga mata dari pandang perkara haram. Kadang kadang aku terlajak layan video prno. Tapi arwah tak pernah tahu. Sampai la satu hari masa dia mengandung 3 bulan, aku kantoi. Masa tu dia sedih sgt, sampai dapat migrain dan kena admit ward sebab pre eclampsia .

Aku risau sgt pasal baby masa tu. Dan it was the last time aku tgk mende keji tu. Aku dah bersumpah pada diri sendiri yg aku takkan tonton lagi umpan syaitan tu. Aku tak tahu kenapa, isteri aku halal untuk aku datangi bila bila masa tetapi pelacur di website itu juga yg aku nak tengok. Sedangkan t
Sedangkan tbuh isteri lebih cantik dari semua tu. Aku hina. Aku memang pendosa

Mulai hari tu, aku tengok isteri rajin bangun solat malam. Aku tahu, dia mengadu kepada Allah perihal aku. Aku tahu, dia bangun untuk doakan kebaikan bagi aku. Itupun semua aku tahu lepas dia dah pergi. Lepas dia dah meninggl. Lepas dah terlewat semua nya.

Seminggu lepas dia meninggl, aku kemas luggage pakaian dia. Dan aku terjumpa satu buku tebal. Aku ingatkan buku nota study dia. Rupanya dalam tu penuh catatan diari dia dari mula kahwin dengan aku sampai la hari terakhir sebelum di admit ward untuk give birth.

Aku baca semua. Air mata aku tumpas. Akurasa masa tu aku nak pergi gali semulaa kubur arwah aku nak peluk dia, aku nak cium dia, aku nak minta maaf aku nak minta ampun. Aku banyak dosa dengan dia.

“Abang, kenapa abg tengok semua tu. Sayang kan ada kalau abg berhajat? Mungkin sayang tak mengiurkan macam pelakon pelakon dlm video lcah tu. Syg minta maaf kalau syg tak pandai layan abg, sampai abg cari kepuasan melalui cara tu.

Ya allah, kau berilah hidayah pada suami aku. Abang, semoga Allah pelihara abang dari pandangan haram ye. Moga hati dan iman abg kuat ye. Takpe, syg tolong doakan abang setiap malam dan di setiap sujud syg. ”

” Cemburunya tengok abg duk pandang pandang perempuan tu tadi. Mmg la cantik. Tapi syg dah usaha habis baik nk bagi cantik jugakk bila keluar dgn abg

Sehelai demi sehelai lembaran tu aku belek. Dari sekecil kecil hingga ke sebesar besar hal dia ceritakan semua dalam buku tu. Baru skrg aku sedar , aku kurang beri perhatian pada dia selama ni. Dan ada satu luahan dalam buku tu ingatkan aku pada satu detik masa awal kehamilan arwah.

“Abang abang! Rasaa ni baby gerakk la! Aku emmm emm je. Mata asyik duk hadap hp. Bosan dgr dia merengek, aku alih tangan letak atas perut dia. Tapi mata masih lekat di skrin telefon. Dan segala kesedihan tu dia luahkan dalam buku tu. Memang aku dengar dia menangis malam tu tapi aku tak peduli pun. Mmg aku tak pernah nak pujuk kalau dia menangis. Apatah lagi nak tanya kenapa. Allahu.. kejam nya aku. Aku tak pernah peduli apa dia rasa.

Banyak yg aku baca dalam diari arwah. Patut laa dia dapat pre eclampsia (high blood prssure during pregnancy) . Padahal umur baru setahun jagung dan ini first baby. Rupanya banyak yg dia stress dan fikir pasal aku. Selama ni tanpa aku sedar, dia byk hide semua post di fb yg nengandungi unsur tak baik atau gmbr perempuan seksi. Betapa dia nak jaga dan nak bantu aku jadi baik.

Jahatnya aku. Memang aku tak pernah ada perempuan lain. Tapi aku seksa perasaan dan emosi dia. Dari apa yg aku baca, dia seolah menjadi sgt paranoid, memikirkan apa yg aku lihat di hp berkait dengan perempuan sksi, perempuan lain, atau tidak. Aku tak salahkan dia. Ini semua salah aku. Aku tak pernah fikir perasaan dia. Aku anggap semua remeh, semua kecil. Sedangkan dia menanggung derita yg besar.

Aku ingat lagi beberapa hari sebelum dia admit ward utk bersalin. Sewaktu dia nak turun beli makanan, dia sempat bergurau. Abang, rindu laa nak dengar abang ckp “awak jalan elok2 tau. Kalau ada org kacau, jerit nama abg kuat2”. Mmg dulu aku sangat lembut dan romantik dgn dia. Tapi aku xtahu mana semua tu pergi. Bukan arwah tak pernah cakap yg dia rindu aku yang dulu. Tapi aku tak pernah peduli.

Sekarang, semua dah takde. Yang tinggal hanya kenangan. Kenangan yang tak boleh mengembalikan apa apa. Dan arwah tinggalkan aku bersama zuriat kami. Nur amsya imani. Wajah iras sangat dengan arwah. Setiap kali aku pandang wajah anak syurga ini, setiap kali tu wajah arwah terbayang di mata. Allah..macam mana aku nak lalui hari hari mendatang.

Sungguh, aku sunyi. Dan sekarang baru aku faham erti sunyi yg isteri aku cakapkan selama ni bila stay dekat rumah sorang diri. Patut laa selama ni dia tak pernah tidur, dan tunggu aku balik walaupun tengah malam. Rupanya dia tak dapat tidur bila aku takde kat sblh

Aku dah hilang segalanya. Aku dah hilang isteri solehah yg sentiasa doakan kebaikan aku. aku dah hilang isteri yg selama ni jadi penguat aku. Abang rinduu nak naik motor dengan awak, sayang.. mcm awal kahwin dulu.

Pukul 1 pagi awak ajak round taman. Abang rinduu nak gurau dengan awak. Balik laa sayangg.. abg janji abg tak keluar dengan kawan dah. Abang janji abang tak hadap hp 24jam dah. Abang janji abg xpandang perempuan lain dah. Abang janji :(.

Menangis lah air mata darah pun. Arwah takkan kembali. Aku takde apa nak pesan banyak banyak. Tapi ambil laa kisah aku sebagai pengajaran. Tolong laa ambil sebagai pengajaran. Jangan sampai semua terlambat, baru kau nak menyesal. Aku menyesal. Menyesal. Menyesal.
A husband found a diary of his late wife and almost swoon after reading his diary content because apparently his late wife has many times...
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What I want to write about, make it a lesson for all the men out there who are called husbands. This story may be heartbreaking for those who still have 'heart'.

Today is only 67 days my late wife left. And for the past 67 days I haven't stopped crying over the passing of the wife that I love most. It's not that I don't accept it, it's just that I

It seems like there is something unfinished between us. And tonight, I'm awake not because of the baby's cry that asked to be breastfeed, but because it's like hearing the cry of the late Allahu.. I'm not strong.

I've been married for more than 3 years and a half to my wife. We married young. As early as I was 20, and wife 19. At the beginning of marriage, everything was beautiful. I love my wife so much that she can't be far from her.

Until sometimes when I get oustation, I cry missing him at night (I work in the family's company, and he's studying in IPTS near home). Go anywhere, I'll take her along. Hatta comes out of oil or even buy top up he will cry to follow. My wife is really spoiled by her person and type of overly attached wife. But I'm not crazy, but I like it.

We are very close. Plus we love after marriage. We explore everything together. When he's a semester holiday, I'll take him to walk where he wants to go. My wife is beautiful. I don't praise because she's my wife, but because everyone says the same.

When it comes out, if my wife dresses up there must be eyes that are looking at. I'm really hurt, but I persuade myself by saying it's okay, he's mine now. After all, I know that my wife is very kind of not entertaining.

Talking to a man is also lacking. In the past, when he was about to catch his heart, he took months to get to know him. He's a polite person, and cover his body perfectly.

From the beginning of marriage, until almost a year, I feel so happy with the late. If possible, I would like to be close to him for 24 hours. When there's an outdoor job, I'll settle fast and chase to go home.

But when time passes by, without me realizing I change more. Without me realizing, the spirit eats the heart in silence. I'm getting far away from him. I'm busy with outdoor work, until I feel good to be out there rather than home with my wife. Sometimes, I'm just looking for something that I can settle outside the house because I'm bored staying at home.

Throughout the marriage, I will never go out if not with the deceased. What else to hang out at night with old friends. Until one time I joined like a car and motor club.

More excuses for me to meet that friend and friend. At first the late was quiet, long time ago he started complaining that he was bored at home alone. But I don't care. Sometimes she cries because she's small with me. But everytime she cries when she fights or gets discouraged, I never cared about her. Realized that he fell asleep with tears on the cheek.

Yes, I know I'm a bad husband. I used to do her with service like a princess, then I snatched all of them. From a gentle husband, I turned into a lion when fighting.

I will ignore him. I'd be rude to him. My hands are starting to touch his body (that's if he started it first). Until sometimes I feel like my partner with him is gone.

We fight a lot. And most of them are caused by his attitude that is too jealous. But that was the time he lived. When he's gone, then I'll realize. He's not jealous but he wants me to be a good husband. He wants the best for my world and my afterlife. Allah, I am sinning.

I confess, I am hard to keep my eyes open. When both of you come out, and there's a beautiful woman who passes in front of us, my eyes will be amazed by the beauty of the Even though my wife is beside me. And my wife is very beautiful too.

But I never realized all that. For me it's normal that men like to look at beautiful women. I didn't know that my wife was saddened by my attitude. The late always greets. But I just don't know. Until one time the deceased hasn't told me anymore, maybe he's tired of the same thing. I don't know how to be grateful. I have never felt enough with what I have. While the deceased is enough

To be honest, I'm also hard to keep my eyes from looking at illegal things. Sometimes I watch the video too much. But the spirit never knew. Until one day when she was pregnant for 3 months, I was caught. At that time he was so sad, until he got migraine and got admitted to the ward because of pre eclampsia.

I was so worried about the baby at that time. And it was the last time I saw that cruel thing. I swear to myself that I won't watch the devil's bait anymore. I don't know why, my wife is halal for me to come to me anytime but the prostitute on the website is also what I want to see. Whereas t
While the wife is prettier than all that. I am despicable. I am indeed a sinner

From the other day, I saw the wife awake at night prayer. I know, he complains to Allah about me. I know, he woke up to pray for me for the goodness. That's all I knew after he was gone. After he left. After all it's too late.

A week ago she left, I cleaned her clothes luggage. And I found a thick book. I thought it was his study notebook. Apparently the diary is full of notes from starting to marry me until the last day before admitted to the ward to give birth.

I read all. My tears are broken. I feel that time I want to dig back the grave of my late I want to hug him, I want to kiss him, I want to apologize. I have sinned with him.

′′ Brother, why do you look at all that. Love is there if you wish? Maybe it's a pity that you don't like the actress in the video of the crazy video I'm sorry if I don't know how to treat me, until I find satisfaction through that way.

Ya Allah, please give guidance to my husband. Brother, may Allah protect you from illegal opinion. May my heart and faith be strong okay. It's okay, dear, please pray for me every night and every kneel dear. ′′ ′′

′′ It's jealous looking at brother looking at that woman just now. It's really beautiful. But unfortunately I've tried it and it's better to make it beautiful when I'm out with

One piece by one piece I turn into the sheet. From as small to small as big as he says everything in the book. Now I'm aware, I haven't paid attention to him all this time. And there's one expression in the book that reminds me of the early moment of the late pregnancy.

′′ Brother brother! I think this is a baby! Me emmm emm je. Eyes keep on facing hp. Tired of hearing him whining, I put my hand on his stomach. But the eyes are still stuck on the phone screen. And all the sadness he expressed in the book. I heard him crying that night but I don't care. I never wanted to persuade him if he cried. What else to ask why. Allahu.. I'm so cruel. I never cared what she felt.

I read a lot in the late diary. No wonder he got pre eclampsia (high blood pressure during pregnancy). Even though it's only a year of corn and this is the first baby. Apparently he's stressed out and thought about me. All this while without me realizing it, he hid all the posts on Facebook that contain bad elements or sexy women's pictures. How much he wants to take care of and help me be good.

I am evil. I never had another woman. But I torture her feelings and emotions. From what I read, she seems to be very paranoid, thinking of what I saw on her phone related to women, other women, or not. I don't blame her. This is all my fault. I never thought about her feelings. I take everything trivial, all small. While he suffered a big suffering.

I still remember a few days before he admitted to the ward to give birth. When he wanted to go down to buy food, he had time to joke around. Brother, I miss listening to my brother say ′′ you walk well. If someone disturbs me, shout out my name loudly ". I was so soft and romantic with him. But I don't know where all that went. It's not the spirit that he misses the old me. But I never cared.

Now, everything is gone. All that is left is memories. Memories that can't bring back anything. And the spirit left me with our children. Nur Amsya Imani. The face is very similar to the spirit. Every time I look at the face of this heavenly child, every time the face of the deceased is imagined in the eyes Allah.. how am I going through the coming days.

Really, I'm quiet. And now I only understand the meaning of silence that my wife has been talking about all this while staying at home alone. No wonder he hasn't slept yet, and wait for me to come back even though it's midnight. Apparently he can't sleep when I'm not beside me

I lost everything. I have lost my solehah wife who always pray for my goodness. I've lost my wife who has been my booster all this time. I miss riding a motorbike with you, dear.. like I got married early.

At 1 am you invite me to round the park. I miss joking with you. Come back dear.. I promise I won't be with my friends anymore. I promise I won't face my phone for 24 hours. I promise that I don't look at other women anymore. I promise :(.

Crying tears of blood. The spirit will never return. I don't want to order a lot. But take my story as a teaching. Please take it as a teaching. Don't let it be late, then you regret it. I'm sorry. I am sorry. I am sorry.Translated

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ไม่ได้รักที่เป็นคนดี แต่เลือกรักคนที่เข้ากันได้

written by Thanabatra Beboyl Chaidarnn
page owner: ตุ๊ดส์review / Pussy can talk

“…ถ้ารู้ว่าที่ผ่านมาคือ รักที่ฝืนพยายาม
ต้องไปต่อ ไม่ใช่ทนคบต่อ เพราะเสียดายที่คบมาแสนนาน…”

จริงๆ ตอนอ่านพวก comment ด่าบท หรือด่าตัวละครทานตะวันที่เลือกหมอฉลามเยอะมาก คนก็ยังเถียงกันมาจนถึงตรงนี้ ส่วนตัวที่เชียร์หมอฉลาม ไม่ใช่เพราะหมอหล่อ สดใส หรือน่ารักหรอก แต่มันมีคำตอบบางอย่างที่น่าสนใจ แล้วจริงๆ หมอเป้งก็ดีมากๆ แต่ทำไมทานตะวันไม่เลือก?

ก็เพราะทานตะวันรู้ไงว่า 15 ปีที่ผ่านมา ทานตะวันฝืนตลอด ต้องเข้าใจงานของเป้ง และตัวเองเป็นคนพยายามมาตลอด 15 ปี เป็นคนที่วิ่งตามเขาอย่างเดียว พอมันตกผลึกได้ว่า ที่ทำทั้งหมด เพราะรัก แต่มันฝืน ถึงจุดหนี่ง มันเลยมีคำตอบกับตัวเองได้ว่า มันคือความอดทนกัน

ในขณะที่ตอนหมอเป้งกลับมา หมอเป้งเองก็ฝืน มีความทนทรมานในพฤติกรรมของตัวเอง จากที่เป็นคนบ้างานมา 15 ปี ก็พยายามหยุดทุกอย่าง เลิกนิสัยเดิมๆที่เห็นคนไข้ และการรักษาชีวิตสำคัญมากๆ จนลืมแฟน พยายามกลับมาเป็นคนที่ดีพอให้ได้ แต่การกลับมาครั้งนี้ ก็คือการไม่เป็นตัวเอง

<3 รักที่ไม่ได้เป็นตัวเอง…รักที่ต้องพยายาม
รักที่ต้องอดทนกันไปต่อ เพื่อรักษามันไว้ให้เกิดปีต่อๆไป
ไม่ใช่ความสุขที่แท้จริง

การที่นางเอกเลือกหมอฉลาม หมอฉลามไม่ได้ดีกว่าหมอเป้ง ไม่ได้เจ๋งกว่า แล้วมันก็โคตรเสี่ยง เพราะจริงๆ มันไม่รู้เลยว่าข้างหน้าจะเป็นยังไง จะเลิกกันเมื่อไหร่ แต่การที่ทานตะวันยอมเสี่ยงกับคนใหม่ ความหมายคือ การเริ่มต้นใหม่ แบบที่ไม่ต้องให้ใครฝืนแล้ว

ทุกคนควรเจอคนที่ใช่ คนที่ทำให้เราได้เป็นตัวเอง
คนที่คุณรับความเป็นคุณได้ ไม่ว่าจะแคะขี้ฟัน นอนตด ไม่อาบน้ำข้ามวัน (จริงๆไม่ควรแย่มาก)

ถ้ารู้ว่าฝืน ก็แค่ปล่อยมือกันไป ให้ไปค้นหาคนที่ใช่กันต่อไป

ผมมีประสบการณ์จากคนรอบข้าง ที่คบกันมาตั้งแต่สมัยเรียน เป็น 10 ปี กลับเลิกกันไปง่ายๆ แล้วเลือกคนที่คบสั้นๆเพียงไม่กี่ปีแล้วแต่ง คำตอบคือ

“ถ้ามันใช่ มันใช่ไปนานแล้ว”
ถ้าใช่มันไม่ต้องพยายาม
แต่ที่มันพยายามเพราะมันไม่ใช่

<3 “เราต้องแยกคนดี กับคนที่ใช่ ออกจากกันให้ได้”

เป้งเป็นคนดี แต่ที่ผ่านมา 15 ปี ยังไม่ใช่ ยังไม่เข้ากัน แต่มันคือความพยายามที่ยาวนานจนผูกพันกัน เท่านั้นเอง

และเหตุผลที่ script ตอนท้าย นางเอกพูดว่า ‘หมอเป้ง’ จะเป็นคนแรกที่เธอนึกถึง จะเป็น My Ambulance ของเธอเสมอ มันก็ถูกแล้วไง ก็รักครั้งแรก รักที่ผูกพันมา 15 ปี คนที่ดีที่สุดของที่ชีวิต ที่ไม่เคยทอดทิ้งกันเลย จะให้ลืมไป ไม่นึกถึงคงไม่ได้

แต่ที่ทำได้แค่ระลึกถึงเสมอ แต่ไม่ได้เป็นคู่ชีวิต ก็เพราะเป้งเป็นคนดีเสมอมา แต่ไม่ใช่คนที่เข้ากันได้ และยังไม่ใช่คนที่ใช่

คนที่ดี อาจจะไม่ใช่คนที่ใช่ และมันบังคับไม่ได้ บังคับให้คนดีเป็นคนที่ใช่ไม่ได้
เพราะความไม่เข้ากัน มันอยู่ด้วยกันแล้วเหนื่อย

มันทำได้แค่เก็บเขาไว้ ให้เป็นความทรงจำที่ดีที่สุดในชีวิตก็พอ
ที่ครั้งหนึ่งเคยมีคนดีขนาดนี้อยู่ในชีวิตเรา แค่เขาไม่ใช่คนที่เข้ากันได้ ทำให้เราต้อง Move on

หยุดความรักที่พยายามฝืน คืนความสุขให้ทั้งเรา และเขาเจอคนที่เขาไม่ต้องฝืนจะดีกว่า

ความดี ไม่ใช่คำตอบหรอก ความเข้ากันได้ คือคำตอบ

#ตุ๊ดส์review

// ไม่มีใครเลือกอะไรผิดหรอก เราแค่อาจจะไม่ได้เป็นเขาที่ดิ้นรน และอดทนสู้มา 15 ปี เลยไม่ได้คิดแบบเขา

และการเลือกคนใหม่ ก็ไม่ได้ถูกต้องหรอก มันแค่กลายเป็นต้องยอม 'เสี่ยง' แทนที่จะต้อง 'ทนฝืน' ต่อไปให้มีปีที่ 16...แล้วนับต่อไปทั้งๆที่รู้ว่าเข้ากันไม่ได้
To the point that the audience scold the drama.
" why doesn't sunflower choose doctor pae?"

Stop the love that tries to resist
Happy returns to both us and him
It's better to meet someone who doesn't have to resist.

I don't love being a good person, but I choose to love someone who fits together.

written by @[1228486403:2048:Thanabatra Beboyl Chaidarnn]
page owner: @[332977620507759:274:ตุ๊ดส์review] / @[205184872969590:274:Pussy can talk]

"... if you know that in the past, it's the love that I keep
I have to keep going, not being patient because I feel pity that I have been with you for a long

In fact, when I read the comments, scold the script or scold sunflower character who choose doctor shark. There are many people still arguing until here. Personally, I cheer for doctor shark, not because the doctor is handsome, bright or cute, but there are some interesting answers. It's very good but why doesn't sunflower choose?

Because of sunflower. How do you know that 15 years ago, sunflower has been fighting all the time. I have to understand the work and I have been trying for 15 years. I am the one who runs after him only. When it's crystallized that I do all One point, there is an answer to myself that it is patience.

While when the doctor came back, the doctor kept suffering in his own behavior. From being crazy for 15 years, I tried to stop everything. Stop the same habit that I saw the patient and life is so important that I forgot my boyfriend tried. Come back to be a good person, but this return is not being myself.

<3 Love that I am not myself... love to try.
Love that we have to be patient. Keep going to keep it going.
Not true happiness

The way the actress chooses doctor shark doctor shark is not better than doctor pae. It's not cool. It's risky because he doesn't know what it will be in front. When to break up, but sunflower risk the new person. The meaning is to start over I need someone to fight

Everyone should meet the right person who makes us themselves.
The person you can accept you, no matter how bad hakka, sleep, fart, no shower over the day (really shouldn't be bad)

If you know that you are fighting, just let go. Keep searching for the right person.

I have experience from people around you who have been together since school for 10 years. It's easy to break up and choose someone who has been with me for a few years.

"if it's right, it's been right for a long time"
If yes, it doesn't have to try.
But the reason it's trying is because it's not.

<3 "we need to separate good people and the right people"

I am a good person, but in the past 15 years, I haven't matched yet, but it's a long effort that we are connected.

And the reason why script at the end, the actress said ' doctor pae ' will always be the first person she thinks of. It will always be your ambulance. It's right. First love. Love that I have bonded for 15 years. The best person of life that never abandon each other I want you to forget. I can't think about it.

But the reason I can only remember but I am not my partner because I am always a good person but not a compatible person and not the right person.

A good person may not be the right person and it can't force a good person to be the right person.
Because the incompatibility is tired together.

It can only keep him as the best memory in life.
There was a good person in my life once. Just that they are not a compatible person. It makes us move on.

Stop the love that tries to return happiness to both us and they meet someone who doesn't have to resist.

Goodness is not the answer. Compatibility is the answer.

#ตุ๊ดส์review

// no one chooses anything wrong. I just may not be him who has been struggling and patient. I have fought for 15 years. I didn't think like him

And Choosing a new person is not right. It just turns out to ' risk ' instead of ' endure ' to have to have the 16th year... then keep counting even though we know that we can't get along.Translated