【八字還没一撇，誰說命不能改？】(English writing below)
「今天，我會讓您知道什麼是真正的看八字。」
我一般在開始前，會問客人他們可曾看過命，以便我了解他們對自己命的認知。
這位客人告訴她之前看過，但得到的方案，就是要向那間店買價值五位數的幾種水晶，才能解決她的問題。
聽了之後，我覺得八字命理被誤解到這樣，甚是遺憾。
看完八字的幾天後，她傳了以下的私訊給我。
20多年來，因為曾經喝了後心跳一整天都跳得很快，她便一直以為自己對咖啡過敏，不敢喝。但我說可以，而且還要多喝，並解釋為何那時會心跳加速。
她勇敢聽從我的建議，突破了自己以為的「宿命」。
很多人其實都在受苦受難，但大多數人卻不要去了解如何改命，只會埋怨或說一些掃興的話：
「哎呀，我的業障重啊！」
「改什麼命？有用的話，為什麼那麼多人還這麼辛苦？」
「很難的啦，很難的！我有試過，還不是這樣！」
「一切都是註定的！人生就是這樣，看開一點！」
「不要啦！知道自己的命以後，不是自己嚇自己嗎？」
一直講這樣的話，根本就是在詛咒自己，不給自己機會，不增長自己的智慧，所以頭腦一直不清醒，心就不會光明，因此很多人的靈魂之窗都是混濁的。
因為她他封閉了自己的心，眼睛看不清，生生世世都是這樣，自己生出來的孩子也是這樣『漏氣』。
我寧可知道自己怎麼死，什麼時候死，為什麼會死，如何死的輕鬆，也不願死的不明不白。
這是我最初學玄學和佛法的初發心。我要奪回掌控自己命運的能力。
天時地利人和，八字既是天時，佔了您人生的33%，另外的33%地利是風水的協調，最後的33%便是人和，包含著了自己的努力。
可是您的天時，會引來某種「地利」，更會影響您的「人和」能力。它們之間有著非常密切的互動關係。
可以這麽說，你如果沒有深入了解自己的「天時」，你不懂的用命，你無法知道怎樣的風水才是最旺自己，你也無法啟動你的「人和」方向，開發你生命的潛能。
一般人只會說「隨緣」，但你知道嗎？真正的隨緣，是你盡了一切的努力後，不去勉強結果，也能看開最後的輸贏。
重點是你有努力，你懂得怎樣努力，你有為你父母給予你的生命盡責的活得更有出息。
該來的可能還是會來，但有我在，不要怕知道自己的命運，因為為什麼我們要隨隨便便的認輸給命運......或一杯咖啡呢？
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"Today, I will let you witness what analysing Bazi truly means."
Usually before I begin, I will ask the client if they have gotten their Destiny analysed before, so that I can understand how much they know of their own Destiny.
This client told me she did the analysis before. However the solutions she received were to purchase various crystals amounting to a five-figure amount. She could barely afford to pay that huge sum.
After listening to her, I felt much regret that Bazi Analysis had been so misinterpreted and misunderstood by the masses.
A few days after our consultation session, I received the PMs from the client.
Because she once experienced rapid heart beating after drinking coffee, for 20 years, she thought she was allergic to coffee and dare not consume it again. I told her she could, and in fact, should drink as much as possible. I also explained to her why her heart rate shot up at that time.
She bravely took up my advice, and broke through her self-assumed Destiny.
There are many people out there who are suffering. Yet most of them do not wish to understand how to turn things around, but instead play the blame game or say things that dampen one's mood:
"It's me lah. I have severe heavy negative karma."
"What Destiny is there to change? If it works, why are so many people still suffering?"
"It's very tough, impossible! I tried before, but nothing changed!"
"Everything is predestined! Life is like that, just take it easy!"
"Don't want! Isn't it scaring myself to know my Destiny?"
If you keep talking like that, you are just cursing yourself. You deny yourself the opportunity to increase your wisdom. Your brain remains in that state of insobriety, with no Light in your heart.
This is why the windows of the souls of many people are cloudy and unclear.
Because they have chosen to close up their minds and this shows in their eyes. They remain like this for many lifetimes, and pass on this demoralising trait to their children.
I rather know how I will die, when I will die, why I will die, and how I can die more fuss-free, than to die not knowing anything. This was my initial reason for learning Chinese Metaphysics and Dharma. I want to regain control of my own Destiny.
The Chinese phrase of 天時地利人和 means:
Your Bazi is the Heavenly Time which constitutes 33% of your life,
the Favourable Place which means harmonising your residence Feng Shui forms another 33%,
and the last 33% is Human Effort.
However, your Heavenly Time will attract a certain kind of "Favourable Place", and also influences heavily your amount of Human Effort.
These 3 variables have a very intricate working relationship in controlling your life.
In other words, if you do not have deep understanding of your Heavenly Time, you do not know how to use your Bazi. Neither will you know what kind of Feng Shui is most prosperous for yourself, nor will you be able to steer your Human Effort in the best direction to maximise your life potential.
Most people will say just leave it to Fate. But you know what? The true meaning of that phrase means after you put in your best effort, you will not force the end result and be at peace with the eventual winning or losing.
The most important thing is you have worked hard, you know how to work hard, and with the life your parents gifted you, you fulfilled your responsibility by living it in a more promising way.
Perhaps what will happen will still come. But I am here. Don't be afraid to know your Destiny, because why should we admit defeat to Destiny, or in my client's case, a cup of coffee?
