I sincerely hope I am wrong | Lee Yee
I know very little about American issues. In the past, I even thought that no matter which party wins the presidential election, there would be no significant difference under the Constitution and the existing system. However, it is different this time. This US presidential election not only involves the interests of the Americans but also concerns the future political situation of the world, especially for China and Hong Kong.
The state of society tearing as a result of this presidential election is far beyond any from the past, almost to the point of a civil war. As far as the domestic situation in the US is concerned, it is not a dispute between supporting Trump or supporting Biden, but a fight between support for Trump and opposition to Trump. The topics of discussion are 1) epidemic prevention and control measures, 2) violence and disorder due to the Black Lives Matter protests, and 3) economy. Arguments from both standpoints are too numerous to detail and many are reasonable with solid judgment. It is very difficult to explain clearly in this short article. I will only discuss the history and current situation of Sino-US relations.
The most important timeline in the history of the modern relations between China and the US is after WWII during the Chinese Civil War between the Kuomintang (KMT)-led government of the Republic of China and the Communist Party of China (CPC). At that time, the 33rd president of the US and leader of the Democratic Party, Harry S. Truman pursued a policy of appeasement to the CPC and actively advocated negotiations between the KMT and the CPC. During the Chinese Civil War, it was apparent that he was pro-communist and made the communist military stronger. The KMT was defeated for internal reasons but the US inclination was key. After the KMT government retreated to Taiwan, in January 1950, President Truman issued a statement that the US would not intervene with the situation in China and declared that the island groups of Taiwan, Penghu, Kinmen, Matsu and some minor islands were not within the scope of the US military. The US Democratic Party allowed mainland China to fall into the hands of the Chinese Communist Party (CCP). Later, Chiang Kai-shek commissioned General Ho Shai-lai to Tokyo to meet with Douglas MacArthur, the American general who administered postwar Japan during the Allied occupation and oversaw the occupation, rebuilding and democratization of Japan. The visit aimed to win the support of General MacArthur and was ultimately able to save Taiwan.
Another important page in the history of the Sino-US relations was the diplomatic breakthrough of Republican US President Richard Nixon in 1971. A military conflict broke out in the previous year at the border of China and the then Soviet Union. The Soviet Union intended to deploy nuclear weapons to perform a so-called “surgical removal operation” on China’s nuclear base. However, it was halted when it probed the US for reactions. The US stated that if the Soviet Union employed nuclear weapons, it would undoubtedly challenge the US nuclear balance policy. After that, when the US collaborated with China to strategically deal with the superpower Soviet Union, the US did not abandon Taiwan. Not until 1979 when Jimmy Carter, the 39th president of the US and a democrat, established diplomatic relations with the CCP that the US severed ties with Taiwan. The incident triggered a global trend to set up diplomatic relations with the CCP, which enabled the CCP to steady a firm holding in the international community.
The third important aspect in the history of the Sino-US relations was in 2000, under Bill Clinton’s administration, China was given entry into the WTO (World Trade Organization) and granted a most favored nation (MFN) status. Since then, it developed its foothold as an international manufacturer in the global market. Furthermore, its economy took off through intellectual property theft, failure to commit to the promise of its 2001 accession to the WTO and market dominance by means of authoritarian capitalism. As China’s economic development fully penetrates into the Western world, on the one hand, it takes advantage of the multinational companies invested in China to control the capital markets of the US and the West. On the other hand, it invests heavily in its grand propaganda to control overseas Chinese media and even Western mainstream media.
Every election candidate receives donations from multinational companies. Not to mention 90% of the mainstream media in the US are owned or operated by these Democratic Party’s donors. Therefore, they turn a blind eye to the elephant in the room and injudiciously embrace the CCP regime that has infiltrated the American society and continuously infringed on human rights at home. In addition to the interest considerations, the media of course also has the leftist ideology permeated in Western academia and journalism. I will elaborate on this topic at another time.
Finally, there is Trump who is not swayed by the donors of multinational corporations because he himself does not lack money nor is he afraid to offend most of the leftist media. He sometimes speaks without thinking but he never seeks the so-called “political correctness,” and basically does what he says he would. People who stand on the moral high ground with the spirit of great love would shake their heads upon his words and actions. Regardless, only a person like Trump can start to contain the power that infiltrated the US and the Western world, and support the democracy of Taiwan and Hong Kong’s campaign for autonomy.
Currently, anti-China is the general social conscience in the US. Biden’s China policy seems to align with that of Trump’s. Biden even defined the CCP’s handling of Xinjiang as an “ethnic genocide.” However, is there really no difference between the two parties? Recall that when Clinton was running for the presidency, he said that he opposed the Republican government’s annual review of the US MFN status for China. He believed it should not be granted but after he took office, he made China’s MFN status permanent and sent China to the WTO.
As the Democratic Party controls Wall Street and mainstream media, I am not optimistic about Trump in this election. Even so, I really hope from my brain to my heart that I am wrong.
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[[slide page 1]]
Thank you for attending this part.
I'm from Hand Angel, a non-profit organization of Taiwan.
The title of my presentation is "As a sex worker and a sex volunteer",
since I'm both a sex worker, and also attending Hand Angel as a sex volunteer.
[[slide page 2]]
Allow me to introduce my organization more,
though you may know some from what Vincent has said in the morning.
Our main tenet is sexual rights to people with disabilities.
[[slide page 3]]
This includes not only orgasm, but also the right to control one's sexuality with autonomy and without discrimination.
People know us usually because we provide limited sexual service for servere physical or visual disabilities, including females.
Hand Angel is not a registered organization in Taiwan,
since we literally provide sexual service, which is considered against public order and morals.
However, we are still able to initiative our idea on the table
because our service are free, which means we actually do not violate any law.
[[slide page 4]]
In Taiwan, the definition of "sexual transaction" includes obscene acts in exchange for monetary,
which means it's considered transactional sex even there is no sexual intercourse.
And since transactional sex is technically illegal in Taiwan,
there's no legal way for us to charge anything by providing any service which may be considered obscenity.
This is much different in other countries.
In Japan, the law prohibiting sexual transaction only applies to intercourse between one male and one female. That's why White Hands and NOIR are able to provide paid handjob. The other reason is that they seem do not locate their service as sexual transaction. We can talk about this difference later.
And in Hong Kong, there's some way for sex workers not to be punished, which is called "one-woman brothel". So the difficulty for people with disabilities to satisfy their sexual desire would be different.
I, who has been a sex worker for years -- under the table, of course -- was invited to join Hand Angel at its very beginning.
[[slide page 5]]
People keep asking me that how a sex worker would think about a free sexual service.
But before that question, I think it's more important for us to know the difference other than money.
What's the difference between a classical transactional sex and our service?
As a sex worker, I hope my customers will come back to me more and more, as many times as they can pay.
But as a member of Hand Angel, I hope the servees would not need us anymore.
In fact, I hope they don't have to come to us at the very beginning.
The reason why people with disabilities may need sexual service, is the absence of sexual resource, the resource to fulfill one's sexual desire.
This is just like other issues of disabilities.
[[slide page 6]]
Just providing a service would not resolve the structural problem.
For example, if you give food to the poor without changing their situation, you would end up finding out that they're still poor.
Now change the "food" to "sex".
If we just give our own sex to those who barely have sexual resource, we'll end up exploiting ourselves, and their bad situation still remains.
The problem is, disabled people are considered abnormal, and they have been treated as no unnecessary needs.
But what is necessary for a person to live her own life instead of just survive?
In our issue, disabled people are usually considered asexual, and seldom sexy. That's the stigma we're going to break down.
[[slide page 7]]
There are some textures talking about disabled people in love and having sex, such as "Scarlet Road", "Sex on Wheels", and "The Sessions".
However, the narrative are usually based on ableism.
Viewers usually focus on how can the service provider "bear" to have sex with disabled people, instead of seeing the obstacles disabled people encounter.
[[slide page 8]]
A feminist has said that the relationship a disabled person has is considered depending on the compassion of the other person. People think their sexuality is disgusting and only saints are able to tolerate it.
So we can see the problem is not only physical obstacles, but also how we think about intimate relationship a disabled person deserves.
[[slide page 9]]
Does Hand Angel care about intimate issue? The answer is yes.
In our service, we provide not only sexual service. Our target is not the physical orgasm, but the infinite opportunity of their own lives.
Here are two examples.
[[slide page 10]] Little Prince
Since this servee can sense nothing below his waist, a classical handjob would be meaningless.
Fortunately, we have a BDSM queen in our team.
She thought of techniques in SM to check how pain it is to the slave, and use the same trick to check how the servee's body can feel.
I have to emphasize: that was not a medical treatment, that was about communication with each other.
They were talking about the feeling of two people, instead of the body of one person.
The whole process relies on the intimacy between the sex volunteer and the servee.
[[slide page 11]] ND
"Strolling" for him was from his room to the front door of his home.
Uh, I'm not talking about he lives in a big house.
Though using an electric wheelchair, ND's finger was not powerful enough to control the device for more than 10 minutes,
which means going out alone is not possible for him.
But after applying for our service, he trained himself to "walk" longer.
Even after our service, we were told that he kept trying to leave home and meet other friends.
Another servee has tried other entertainment such as snorkeling and paragliding after our service.
He's having a more plentiful life than before, and even than me.
[[slide page 12]]
In these cases, we can see that:
First, physical orgasm is not the only purpose of a sexual service.
Secondly, libido, or desire for sexual activity, is a strong energy for people to live.
There's a continuing question for us: People can still live without sex.
[[slide page 13]]
What's so important for disabled people to have sex?
Well, I think sex is probably not important for those who can have sex easily, but the impossibility to sex or intimacy may deny the self-esteem of a person.
Sex is an important reason for most people to make friends. So on the other hand, once a person is forced to abandon the opportunity to have sex, she (or he) might lose the energy to social activities. And that's not good for mental health.
[[slide page 14]] The 3 aspects we care about
First, physical orgasm. This is not only about sex organ, but also those come from your erogenous zone.
The problem is not only that people don't know how to interact with disabled people during sex,
but also that people do not want to know how the sex would be for people with different disabilities.
Second, intimacy. The right to have a satisfying date is also important.
Let's imagine, what if a couple of lovers want to kiss each other while seeing movie in a theater, but one of them is in wheelchair so their positions are actually separated?
Third, social integration. Many people with disabilities don't have enough opportunity to make close friends. One of the reasons is that other people usually don't know how to react with disabled people. Therefore, education is important.
[[slide page 15]] Gender Equity Education
In Taiwan, gender equity education comprises 3 parts: affective education, sex education, and gay and lesbian education.
Though I also want to introduce the situation that the conservative group is raising a proposal of referendum to forbid gay and lesbian education, but that's not the issue here so I have to skip that. I hope people who are interested in Taiwan may notice that same-sex marriage is not the only issue about gender equity.
Uh, back to disability rights movement.
As an organization which cares both gender issue and disability issue, we note that even open-minded gender activists may ignore the existence of people with disabilities.
Gender equity education is never designed or applied in the point of view of the disabled.
For example, there are some materials for teaching safe sex, but people seldom think about how a blind person should know before she (or he) masturbate or have sex.
We have a servee who once masturbated in the bathroom of his home, but couldn't clean up since not knowing where his semen reached during ejaculation, and therefore shocked his sister who later used the bathroom.
And another friend bought an artificial vagina in a sex toy store. But he didn't even know he have to erect before insertion.
[[slide page 16]] female servee
People caring about gender equity keep question us: why is there only one female servee during these 5 years after our foundation?
Well, we think the answer is complicated. But the most important one is: how difficult for a female to "confess" she has sexual desire?
We all know about "slut shaming", and those terms to humiliate females by their sexuality -- such as "bitch" and "whore".
It's difficult even for able-bodied females to state their sex experience and preference.
Then it's even more difficult for disabled females to think what she herself wants.
But before sexual activity with other people, disabled females don't even know their body well.
The only female servee we have, told us she has never seen or touched her own vagina.
So we also hosted some conferences and speeches to discuss about such situation of disabled females.
[[slide page 17]] Androcentrism
This is an important issue for us. And I think it's important for those who care about sexual health of disabled people.
Though there are some textures talking about sexual desires of disabled females. To provide sexual service or even sex education to them is barely seen.
I have to admit that, even though there are more and more female members joining us, androcentrism is still not easy to get over.
[[slide page 18]] limitations
Hand Angel provides service to those with servere physical or visual disabilities.
So here comes a frequently asked question: what about others?
The main difficulty for us is that we don't know enough about the situation of other disabilities.
Of course we know that people with other disabilities also don't have enough sexual resources,
but we ourselves do not have enough resources to share, either.
That's why we also hope other people to compose other similar organization.
Meanwhile, there are some people we cannot help because of law.
Adolescents are the ones I myself care about most,
since male teenagers have overwhelming sexual desire, and that would be hell for those with upper limb disability.
However, there are always laws prohibiting youths to have sex in every country.
[[slide page 19]]
In Taiwan, it is legal to have sexual activity after 16. No matter it's intercourse or not.
But even for an organization providing free service like us, the member who communicate with sex volunteer and the servee would be punished as a broker if the servee is younger than 18.
Actually, we do have an applier who mailed us about his desire when he was 15. What we can do is tell him to wait 3 more years.
Unfortunately, being an adult does not mean your right to sex is permitted.
[[slide page 20]]
People with intellectual disability or mental disorder are also infantilized, treated as babies or angels, and considered asexual.
The dilemma is similar to what teenagers have. Their consents are not considered valid.
That is frustrating. The law to protect them from sexual violence also tortures them.
[[slide page 21]] Acrotomophilia and devotees
While talking about disabled people in love or having sex, this is also an issue we should mention.
Some people worry about that devotees are just trying to dominate or take control of the disabled people.
This is similar to MacKinnon's dominance theory and male supremacy.
Devotees are considered to have more power in the relationship, and thus disabled people have a lack of autonomy.
I think that's a stigma, too.
The dominance theory does not deny free love. It focuses on the power issue.
Thus, the problem lies still on the absence of resources disabled people deserve.
Slanders on devotees are based on the prejudice that disabled people are never sexy,
and that denies the possibility for disabled people to have plentiful sexual activity.
The whole society shall support disabled people to have their own autonomy in their relationship.
[[slide page 22]] Difficulties
Usually, people would understand sexual desire of disabled people.
But to support it publicly is another story, especially for the organizations relying on donations.
There are some social workers and parents telling us that they want to do something to help their cases and family,
but it is still an issue which could not be spoken.
It's never been easy for us to talk about sex on the table, but it should be done.
Even for those who don't agree with the idea of sexual service, I do hope you could at least support disabled people to talk about their sex and romance.
[[slide page 23]]
This ends my report. Thank you for listening.
I'm Kong, a sex volunteer of Hand Angel from Taiwan.
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เมื่อกี้ดูข่าว เห็นที่พี่ชายของเหยื่อออกมาพูดถึงคอมเม้นท์ในเน็ท ที่ victim blaming ใส่น้องเขาแล้ว น่าเจ็บปวดแทน คือการโทษเหยื่อแบบนั้นมันคือหนึ่งในการสร้างเหตุผลเพื่อสร้างความชอบธรรมให้การข่มขืนนะ โพสนี้เขียนดีมากลองอ่านกันฮะ
ช่วงนี้มีข่าวข่มขืนออกมาเยอะ แอดเลยอยากนำเสนอเรื่อง "รากฐานของการข่มขืน" ให้ทราบกัน โดยเราแปลชาร์ตมาจากองค์กร 11thPrincipleConsent และเขียนให้เข้าใจง่ายกับบริบทของบ้านเราอีกที ... ยินดีให้แชร์โดยไม่ต้องขออนุญาตค่ะ ^^
👉 รากฐานของการข่มขืน หมายถึง ชุดความคิดที่ทำให้เราเข้าใจว่าเวลาคนคนนึงตัดสินใจใช้ความรุนแรงกับคนอีกคน ความคิดของเค้าก่อรูปมาจากอะไร เพราะหลายครั้งคนที่ข่มขืนไม่รู้ตัวว่าตัวเองทำเรื่องเลวร้าย เค้าอาจคิดจริงๆ ว่าสิ่งที่เค้าทำมันปกติเพราะ "ใครๆ ก็ทำกัน"
👉 ซ้ำร้ายคือ ในคนที่ลงมือข่มขืน มักไม่คิดว่าตัวเองกำลังข่มขืนอีกฝ่ายถ้าตัวเองไม่เห็นสัญญาณต่อสู้หรือไม่เห็นการปฏิเสธอย่างรุนแรง (ทั้งๆ ที่อีกฝ่ายไม่มีสติ เอาแค่ยืนเองยังยืนไม่ได้ก็ตาม)
👉 รู้มั้ยว่านักข่มขืนหลายคนไม่รู้สึกว่าได้ทำผิดต่อเหยื่อ แต่คิดว่าตัวเองโชคไม่ดีที่โดนจับได้หรือเหยื่อไม่ยอมเงียบแบบที่เหยื่อคนอื่นมักจะทำกัน
👉 นักข่มขืนอาจรู้สึกผิดต่อพ่อแม่ ต่อองค์กร เพราะการโดนจับได้และถูกประนามเป็นการทำร้ายอนาคตตัวเองหรือทำให้เสียชื่อเสียงโดยตรง แต่ย้ำอีกครั้ง "ไม่รู้สึกผิดต่อเหยื่อ" เพราะคิดว่าใครๆ ก็ทำกัน แต่ตัวเองซวยที่โดนจับได้แค่นั้นเอง
👁 อะไรทำให้คนคนนึงถึงคิดว่าตัวเองข่มขืนคนอื่นได้ ?????
👁ในปิรามิดความรุนแรงนี้อธิบายว่า ความรุนแรงมีหลายระดับ ระดับบนสุดคือความรุนแรงที่มองเห็นได้ง่าย เพราะเกิดความเสียหายแก่ร่างกายหรือชีวิตของเหยื่อ ส่วนปิรามิดลำดับล่างๆ ลงมา เป็นความรุนแรงที่ไม่ได้เห็นด้วยตา แต่สร้างความเสียหายแก่ "อำนาจในตัวเอง" "คุณค่าในตัวเอง" และลำดับล่างสุดคือสภาพแวดล้อมที่ทำให้คนเรียนรู้ว่า "ความรุนแรงเป็นเรื่องปกติ" จนกล้าที่จะตัดสินใจกระทำการในขั้นบนๆ ได้ในที่สุด
👁 แต่ไม่ได้หมายความว่า คนที่เล่นมุกตลกข่มขืนจะเป็นคนที่ข่มขืนคนอื่นเสมอไป หลายคนอยู่ที่ระดับสร้างสภาพแวดล้อมที่ช่วยกันพูดว่าความรุนแรงเป็นเรื่องปกติ แต่อย่าลืมว่าคำพูดของเราเป็นส่วนหนึ่งที่ทำให้คนจำนวนมากคิดว่า "เรื่องปกติ = ทำได้" เพราะพวกเค้าเรียนรู้จากสภาพแวดล้อมมาอีกที ลองจินตนาการถึงพัฒนาการทางความคิดต่อไปนี้ดูนะ
📌 ยอมรับว่าความรุนแรงเป็นเรื่องปกติ : หมายถึงการคิดว่ามนุษย์เห็นแก่ตัวโดยสันดานโดยที่สังคมไม่สามารถเปลี่ยนแปลงพฤติกรรมได้ เราจึงปล่อยให้ความรุนแรงเกิดขึ้นกับคนอื่น ขอแค่มันไม่เกิดกับตัวเองและคนที่เรารักก็พอ ซึ่งมันก็ไม่ผิดหรอกที่จะป้องกันตัวเองและไม่ได้รุกล้ำพื้นที่ส่วนตัวของคนอื่น
แต่ ! ความหลอนจะเกิดขึ้นเมื่อ
>>> คนจำนวนนึงเรียนรู้จากสังคมว่า "ความรุนแรงเป็นเรื่องปกติ ดังนั้นฉันสามารถทำกับคนอื่นได้หนิ โดยเฉพาะคนที่ปกป้องตัวเองได้ไม่ดีพอ" คนเหล่านี้จะพัฒนา ไปสู่ผู้ใช้ความรุนแรงเลเวลถัดไป
>>> คนจำนวนหนึ่งดันเรียนรู้ว่า "การป้องกันตัวเองให้ปลอดภัย แปลว่ามีข้อยกเว้นให้ใช้ความรุนแรงได้ในบางเวลาบางสถานที่" เช่น คิดว่า ผับ บาร์ ปาร์ตี้ ผู้หญิงบริการ เป็นพื้นที่ยกเว้นที่ทุกคนทำอะไรกับใครก็ได้ ทั้งๆที่ที่ไหนมีคน ที่นั่นต้องเคารพคน โดยไม่มีข้อยกเว้น ซึ่ง พอดันเรียนรู้แบบแย่ๆ ไปแล้ว พวกเขาอาจอีโวไปเป็นผู้ใช้ความรุนแรงเลเวลถัดไป
📌 เริ่มลดคุณค่าของอีกฝ่าย : เมื่อคนกลุ่มดังกล่าวเริ่มคิดว่า "งั้นเราก็แสดงอำนาจเหนือคนอื่นได้สิถ้าอีกฝ่ายเอาคืนเราไม่ได้" เขาก็จะสามารถปล่อยคลิปแก้แค้น แอบถ่ายรูป ส่งรูปโป๊ให้โดยไม่ได้ขอ ตามตื๊อ การสตอล์ค ทำตัวสนิทสนมเกินเลยจนอีกฝ่ายลำบากใจ หรือใช้วาจาคุกคาม แซวแบบน่ากลัว เพราะต่อให้อีกฝ่ายไม่พอใจ ผู้คุกคามก็สามารถพูดได้ว่า "มันยังไม่ได้รุนแรงขนาดนั้นหนิ" "เธอแหละคิดมากไป" "ใครๆ ก็ทำกัน"
จะเห็นได้ว่าผู้กระทำเริ่ม "ละเมิดพื้นที่ของอีกคน" โดยเฉพาะ "คนที่ป้องกันตัวเองไม่ได้และไม่มีปัญญาเอาคืนแน่ๆ" เพื่อตอบสนองความรู้สึก "เหนือกว่า" ของผู้กระทำ และลดคุณค่าของอีกฝ่ายจากคนที่มีความรู้สึกไปสู่คนที่ "ฉันไม่จำเป็นต้องสนใจว่าเธอจะรู้สึกยังไง เพราะยังไงคนอื่นก็ไม่เข้าข้างเธอหรอกนะ"
และเมื่อไม่มีใครห้าม หรือเรียนรู้ว่าไม่มีใครทำอะไรพวกเขาได้ พวกเขาก็จะเริ่มอีโวไปสู่ขั้นถัดไป
📌 เริ่มลดอำนาจของอีกฝ่าย : ความเหิมเกริมในข้อนี้เกิดจากความชินชาในข้อหนึ่งและข้อสอง จนทำให้คิดว่า "ต่อให้เธอไม่โอเค ฉันก็จะทำให้เธอโอเคให้ได้" "เธอน่าจะชอบ" "เธอน่าจะโอเค" การคิดแทนเหล่านี้แสดงออกผ่านการการบังคับทางเพศด้วยเทคนิคต่างๆ มอมเหล้ามอมยา ข่มขู่ สัมผัสโดยอีกฝ่ายไม่ยอม หรือต่อให้อีกฝ่ายแสดงสัญญาณปฏิเสธก็ยืนยันที่จะทำต่อไปเพราะมั่นใจมากๆ ว่าอีกฝ่ายไม่มีทางสู้ตัวเองได้ หรือไม่ก็มั่นใจมากๆ ว่าเดี๋ยวเธอก็จะชอบ เธอต้องชอบแน่ๆ คือโคตรมั่นใจในตัวเองแบบสุดๆ
ความมั่นใจในตัวเองเบอร์นี้ทำให้คนพวกนี้คิดว่า "ถ้าอีกฝ่ายไม่ด่าไม่โวยวาย แปลว่าเธออาจจะชอบ" หรืออาจเริ่มคิดแทนไปแล้วว่า การนิ่ง คือการยินยอม
จากเดิมที่ "ขอแค่ไม่ถูกจับได้" ความคิดคนเหล่านี้อาจจะอีโวไปถึงจุดที่คิดว่า "ต่อให้ถูกจับได้ยังไงเราก็มีทางรอด" เช่น ยังไงเหยื่อก็มีส่วนผิดด้วย ยังไงก็จะมีคนเข้าข้างเรา ฉันมีเพื่อนเยอะ ฉันรู้จักตำรวจ เรื่องนี้ใช้เงินปิดปากได้ ฯลฯ
📌 ใช้ความรุนแรงที่เห็นได้ด้วยตา : ข่มขืน รุมโทรม ลวนลาม รุนแรง ฆ่า เหล่านี้เราคงไม่ต้องอธิบายว่ามันเลวร้าย เพราะใครๆ ก็เข้าใจว่าทำแล้วเกิดความเสียหายแก่อีกฝ่ายยังไง
แต่ที่อยากย้ำคือ คนที่ทำข้อนี้ ขณะทำก็ยังเข้าใจว่าตัวเองทำเรื่องปกติ หรืิอคิดว่า "ไม่ได้ข่มขืนซักหน่อยเธอไม่ปฏิเสธชัดๆ เองนี่" เพราะตลอดการเดินทางที่ผ่านมา ไม่มีใครห้าม ไม่มีใครเตือน ไม่มีใครบอกว่าอย่าทำ อย่างเดียวที่พวกเขาเรียนรู้คือ "ทำได้แต่อย่าโดนจับได้" "โดนจับได้แล้วยังไงก็รอด" "เดี๋ยวคนก็ลืม" "เดี๋ยวก็มีคนเข้าข้าง" ไปจนถึง "ยังไงเราก็ได้ผิดขนาดนั้น สังคมต่างหากที่เวอร์เกินควร"
😔 ข่าวเศร้าจึงเกิดขึ้นรายวัน เพราะสำนึกที่สร้างอาชญากรมีเท่าเดิม!
⭐️ แล้วเราจะทำให้สังคมดีขึ้นได้อย่างไร ?????
⭐️ จริงๆ แค่เข้าใจภาพนี้ก็ช่วยได้มากแล้ว ถ้าเรารู้ตัวว่า "คนเรียนรู้เรื่องเพศจากสังคมและเพื่อนมากกว่าโรงเรียน ตำรวจ และพ่อแม่" เราก็จะตระหนักถึงบทบาทของตัวเองในการสร้างบทสนทนาในสังคม
⭐️ แค่เข้าใจว่า "ลดเหยื่อไม่เท่ากับลดอาชญากร แต่ลดว่าที่อาชญากรเท่ากับลดเหยื่อ" วิธีการที่เราพูดกับคนอื่นๆ หรือการสร้างค่านิยมสาธารณะก็จะเปลี่ยนไป
⭐️ แค่ไม่ยอมรับว่าความรุนแรงเป็นเรื่องปกติ ก็ช่วยได้มาก อย่างน้อยที่สุดคุณก็ไม่ได้ซ้ำเติมให้เหยื่อคนไหนเจ็บช้ำน้ำใจจนเก็บเงียบ และไม่ได้ทำให้คนใช้ความรุนแรงได้ใจ
⭐️ แค่ตระหนักว่าสังคมเป็นครูของคน การสอนให้ระวังตัว พ่อแม่ของทุกคนย่อมสอนลูกหลานอยู่แล้ว แต่ไม่ใช่พ่อแม่ทุกคนที่จะสอนลูกหลานไม่ให้ใช้ความรุนแรงกับคนอื่น ... เรื่องนี้สังคมและสื่อช่วยได้ เหมือนที่เราสร้างค่านิยมอื่นๆ ในสังคมอย่างการไม่คดโกง ไม่ลักขโมย ไม่เอาเปรียบไม่ฉวยโอกาสนั่นเอง
⭐️ ชวนกันลดละเลิกการสร้างสภาพแวดล้อมที่เอื้อให้คนใช้ความรุนแรงกับคนอื่นนะคะ เราป้องกันตัวเองป้องกันคนที่เรารักเนี่ยดีแล้วค่ะ แต่ถ้าช่วยกันสอนว่า "อย่าไปทำไม่ดีกับคนอื่น" แทนบ้านที่เค้าไม่ได้สอนลูกหลานตัวเอง ก็จะดีมากๆ
⭐️ เริ่มง่ายที่สุดในเพื่อนฝูงของตัวเอง ถ้าเพื่อนใครมีพฤติกรรมเมาแล้วมีโอกาสข่มขืนลวนลามคนอื่น เราในฐานะเพื่อนควรพาเขากลับบ้าน อย่าปล่อยให้เขาไปทำร้ายใคร
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Recently, there is a lot of rape news. I want to present about " the foundation of rape... we translate the charts from 11 thprincipleconsent organization and write to understand easily with the context of our home again... welcome to share without asking for permission. (sighs)
👉 the foundation of rape means a mind set that makes us understand that when one person decides to use violence against another person, what does his thoughts are made from? Because many times, the rapists don't realize that they do bad things. He may really think what he is. Do it normally because "everyone does it"
👉 repeated is in those who do rape, they often think that they are raping the other. If they don't see the signs of fighting or don't see severe rejection. (even when the other is not conscious, just stand by themselves, you can
👉 do you know that cuddle rapists don't feel that they have wronged their victims, but think they are unlucky that they are caught or the victims will not be silent as other victims usually do.
👉 rapists may feel guilty of parents for the organization because of being caught and named as hurting their future or infamous directly, but repeat "not guilty of the victim" because they think that everyone is unlucky that they are caught. That's all.
👁 what makes a person think they can rape someone else?????
👁 in the pyramid, this violence explains that there are many levels of violence. It is easily visible violence because of damage to the body or life of victims. The pyramids are lower to violence that does not agree. Eyes but damage to " Self-Power Self-worth " and the bottom order is an environment that makes people learn that " violence is normal " to finally dare to decide to do the upper level.
👁 but it doesn't mean that people who play rape jokes will always be the one who rape others. Many people are at the level of creating an environment that help say violence is normal. But don't forget that our words are part that makes many people think "normal = doable" Because they learn from the environment again, imagine the following thought development.
📌 admit that violence is normal: it means to think that human beings are selfish by nature. Society cannot change behavior. So we let violence happen to others. It doesn't happen to ourselves and our loved ones, which is not wrong. To protect yourself and not take other people's personal space.
But! Haunting will happen when
>>> a number of people learn from society that " violence is normal, so I can do it to others, especially those who protect themselves well enough these people will develop to the next level of violence users.
>>> a number of people learn that "keeping yourself safe means there are exceptions to violence at some places" such as thinking pub bar, party, women, service is an area except that everyone can do anything to anyone, even when there are people there must respect people without Exceptions, when they learn bad, they may evo to be the next level of violence users.
📌 start reducing the value of the other: when such people start to think " then we can show power over others. If the other can't take it back he can release revenge clips, secretly take photos, send naked photos by I didn't ask to follow the stock. I was too close that the other one was difficult or used a scary word to tease. Because even if the other is not satisfied, the menace can say "it's not that severe yet" you I think too much everyone does it "
It can see that the doer starts to " abuse another's area " especially " the one who can't protect themselves and cannot take it back " to satisfy the " superior " feelings of the doer and reduce the value of the other from those who have feelings to the " me. I don't need to care how you feel, because other people won't take your side "
And when nobody forbid or learns that nobody can do anything to them, they start evo to the next step.
📌 starting to reduce the power of the other: this is caused by chin in one and second to think " even if you are not okay, I will make you okay you will like it. " you should be okay these thinking is acting through sexual force with various techniques, drinking, drug, threatening, touch by the other, not giving up, or even if the other shows the denial signs, insists to keep going because they are very confident that the other is no way. Fight yourself or be very sure that you will like it. You will love it. I am very confident in yourself.
This number of self-confidence makes these people think "if the other doesn't scold, doesn't rant, it means you might like it" or may start thinking that being calm is consent.
From the beginning that "just don't get caught" thoughts, these people may evo to the point where they think that we are caught, we have a way to survive however, there will be a wrong part. Anyway, there will be many friends. I have a lot of friends. I know the police This can spend money to shut my mouth, etc.
📌 use the violence that you can see by the eyes: rape, severe, molested, these murders. We don't have to explain that it's bad because everyone understands how it does and damage to the other.
But what I want to repeat is that the person who did this while doing it still understand that he did normal things or thought that "I didn't rape. You didn't deny it clearly" because throughout the past journey, no one would stop, no one would warn. No one said not to do it They learn is to " do it, but don't get caught get caught, then you will survive people will forget someone will be siding with me until " anyway, we are so wrong. Society is beyond "
😔 sad news happens daily because I feel grateful that I create the same criminals!
⭐️ how can we make society better?????
⭐️ in fact, just understanding this picture helps a lot. If we know that "people learn gender from society and friends more than school, police and parents" we will realize our role in creating social conversations.
⭐️ just understand that " reducing victims is not equal to reducing criminals, but reducing criminals are equal to reducing victims the way we speak to others or creating public values will change.
⭐️ just don't accept that violence is normal, it helps a lot. At least you don't hurt any victim, hurt, so that they keep it quiet and doesn't make people violence.
⭐️ just realize that society is a teacher of people. Teaching to be careful. Everyone's parents teach their children. But not all parents will teach children not to use violence against others... this, society and media can help as we create values. Other people in society like not crooked, no stealing, no exploiting, not taking advantage of the opportunity.
⭐️ invite each other to lose weight and stop creating an environment that is conducive violence with others. We protect ourselves. It's good to protect our loved ones. But if you teach "don't don't do bad to others" instead of the house that they didn't teach Their children will be very good.
⭐️ start the easiest in your own friends. If a friend has drunk behavior and have a chance to rape other people. We as friends should take him home. Don't let him hurt anyone.
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This video is about Dan Lok Gives Back To Community With Donation To BC Children’s Hospital.
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Want To Become A Great Leader? Guess What, You Have To Be A Good Follower First. Watch This As Dan Explains How To Become The Leader Others Admire And Follow. Want To Use Your Full Potential? Get A Free Copy Of The Unlock It Book: https://becometheleader.danlok.link
When you want to become a leader others admire and follow, learn from other great leaders. Experience first what it means to be a coachable follower. In the video, Dan Lok shares 3 principles with you that make him a better leader every single day.
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Dan Lok has been viewed more than 1.7+ billion times across social media for his expertise on how to achieve financial confidence. And is the author of over a dozen international bestselling books.
Dan has also been featured on FOX Business News, MSNBC, CBC, FORBES, Inc, Entrepreneur, and Business Insider.
In addition to his social media presence, Dan Lok is the founder of the Dan Lok Organization, which includes more than two dozen companies - and is a venture capitalist currently evaluating acquisitions in markets such as education, new media, and software.
Some of his companies include Closers.com, Copywriters.com, High Ticket Closers, High Income Copywriters and a dozen of other brands.
And as chairman of DRAGON 100, the world’s most exclusive advisory board, Dan Lok also seeks to provide capital to minority founders and budding entrepreneurs.
Dan Lok trains as hard in the Dojo as he negotiates in the boardroom. And thus has earned himself the name; The Asian Dragon.
If you want the no b.s. way to master your financial destiny, then learn from Dan. Subscribe to his channel now.
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Please understand that by watching Dan’s videos or enrolling in his programs does not mean you’ll get results close to what he’s been able to do (or do anything for that matter).
He’s been in business for over 20 years and his results are not typical.
Most people who watch his videos or enroll in his programs get the “how to” but never take action with the information. Dan is only sharing what has worked for him and his students.
Your results are dependent on many factors… including but not limited to your ability to work hard, commit yourself, and do whatever it takes.
Entering any business is going to involve a level of risk as well as massive commitment and action. If you're not willing to accept that, please DO NOT WATCH DAN’S VIDEOS OR SIGN UP FOR ONE OF HIS PROGRAMS.
This video is about How To Become The Leader Others Admire And Follow.
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