《親密戲導演》
American Theatre,2018年11月號。
《演員的親密戲》
擷自內文:
「性愛場景,如同設計武打場,或是舞蹈動作一般,需要同樣細心編排的動作設計,特別是在這個 #MeToo時代。 」
「我在研究所時期也是演員,所以我有親身體驗—那種來自同事的不恰當經驗,一起跟我上台的人,或是導演完全不知道該怎麼處理這些(親密戲)場景,所以他們索性就完全不處理。」Sina說 「如果你有一個比較年長的導演,碰到親密戲他會跟你們說:你們就做吧,就試看各種可能。所以你們就開始在性愛場景中即興,這是非常不舒服的經驗,而且大多數時候非常令人受傷。」
「親密戲的指示,從來沒有在演員Emily與她的女搭檔編排動作設計遇到困難時出現(她們當時在編排一個充滿戲劇衝突的雙人愛情戲),即使Emily之前演過同性間的愛情戲,她仍然發現自己舉步維艱, 而她的導演除了不斷對著她們大吼舞臺指示「洶湧的情慾」以外,毫無建樹。兩位演員根本沒有辦法自己演完這場戲,而她們發現到了排練最後階段,她們的導演對著她們大喊「就做吧。時候到了。」
「劇場的一切都是假的,」Sina說,「那是一個由演員搬演的假故事,我們必須永遠記得這點,你不應該因此失去自我,你必須在自我跟所做事情之間取得很好的平衡。是的,你必須把自己奉獻給角色,但你也必須要在適當時候離開。」
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前言:
自己日常閱讀時發現這篇文章,其中許多觀念頗為受用,花了幾天翻譯出來,希望能給台灣帶來不同觀念交流、分享,人家對身體以及一切相關觀念,已經好前面了。
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正文:
Intimate Exchanges
Sex scenes require as much careful choreography as flight or dances, especially in the #MeToo era.
《交換親密》
性愛場景,如同設計武打場,或是舞蹈動作一般,需要同樣細心編排的動作設計,特別是在這個 #MeToo時代。
Adam Noble had been teaching an advanced scene class for just one month when he faced a startling encounter with sexual assault in acting. A student came to him asking for a new scene partner, saying she thought the man she had been working with, on the final scene between Stanley and Blanche in A Streetcar Named Desire, had tried to rape her.
Adam Noble在他的進階場景分析課上遇到一件令他膽戰心驚的表演性騷擾事件,一名學生跟他要求更換場景搭檔,她說她的搭檔企圖在他們一起工作《慾望街車》最後一景Stanley跟Blanche的戲時,企圖強暴她。
Noble immediately offered to serve as a mediator for the two students, who had been rehearsing alone in the young man’s dorm room, in order to clarify what had happened. The situation was resolved as a misunderstanding, and the two were able to continue working together. But for Noble, who had staged his first theatrical flight in 1992, the incident served as a wake-up call.
Noble立即以協調者身分為兩位同學提供幫助(他們一直單獨在男同學宿舍房間單獨排練),以求能夠釐清事實真相。後來發現整起事件其實是個誤會,兩位同學也因此能夠繼續一起順利工作。但對於Noble來說—他從1992年就設計了他的人生第一場舞台打搏鬥戲—這起突發事件有如一記響鐘。
“We were sending these kids off on their own devices with no foundation for how to approach this stuff,” he recalled. The lack of resources for both students and teachers regarding the staging of intimate scenes was apparent.
「我們讓這些孩子在完全不具備如何處理理這種事的相關基礎知識時候,就放手要他們自己發展,」他這麼回憶。「因此,老師與學生雙方都缺乏排練親密戲的必須知識,這件事是顯而易見的。」
Noble developed a method called Extreme Stage Physicality to provide students with a framework to address what he called in an article for The Flight Master maginize “scenarios of intense physicality” with comfort and confidence. He began teaching ESP to high school, undergraduate, nd graduate students across the country. He found that the methodology was effective for all ages, and the number of reported incidents and problems dropped to zero.
Noble後來發展出了一套他稱之為「極端舞台形體」(ESP)的技巧,他對《The Fight Master》雜誌表⽰這個技巧提供了一組完整架構給學生使用,讓他們在「激烈的肢體情境」中可以感到安心並且擁有自信。他開始在高中、大學、研究所教導這套ESP技巧。他發現這套方法適用於所有年齡層,後來這些單位的性騷擾通報數量為零。
“For me as a director, it had to work for aggression, and it had to work for intimacy,” Noble said. “ It had to work across the board for those moments when the body steps in to fill the void, whether it’s violence or intimacy. Theres’s a point where the text and the words are no longer enough and the body steps in. There had to be a way for them to work on it safely.”
「身為導演,我認為在工作時,必須涵蓋侵略性以及親密性這些面向,」Noble說,「這些都必須要被全面地工作到的,特別是在那些時刻,當你的身體必須要介入來填補空缺的時候,會有那麼一個點,光靠文本跟台詞已經不足以支撐而你的身體必須要介入,在這時候必須要有一個安全工作的方法。」
That way would later be referred to as intimacy choreography, a term first used in 2006 by Tonia Sina, creator of the Intimacy Directors International. While studying movement pedagogy, including flowing and mime, Sina was helping to choreograph intimate scenes in student-directed plays and found what she described as “a hole” in choreography and no resources to help with her work.
那套方法,後來被「國際親密戲導演工作坊」創辦人之一Tonia Sina稱為「親密戲形體排練」。當 Sina在鑽研動作教育學時—其中包含小丑與默劇—一面幫忙在學生執導的劇目中擔任動作設計,就在這時候,她發現了在動作設計這個領域中的「空缺」,而這方面,她發現自己完全沒有任何資源可以幫上忙。
For her thesis he created a technique to help actors improve the conditions of their work as well as the results. Published in 2006, “ Intimate Encounters; Staging Intimacy and Sensuality” drew from her own experience as an actor. While attending graduate school at Virginia Commonwealth University, Sina’s personal life was disrupted due to the lack of structure provided for staging intimate sscenes. While rehearsing Picasso at the Latin Agile, she and her acting partner staged a love scene together, alone-a standard practice for such scenarios- with unnerving results.
她在她的論文創造了一套技巧,來幫助演員精進他們工作的狀態以及成果。2006年,她從自身演員經驗出發,發表了《親密接觸:表演中的親密性及其感官性》。大學就讀維吉尼亞聯邦大學時,Sina的私生活就因為沒有一套擁有完整架構的技巧來排演親密場景,而深受其苦。在排練Picasso at the Latin Agile 時,Sina跟她的表演搭擋需要排練一段愛情戲,而且是獨自排練—一個司空見慣的情況—然後最後結果卻令人不安。
“The second our lips touched it was not rehearing,” Sina recalled. “It was just kissing. We both felt it. We both knew. It ended up spiraling. We ended up leaving our parters for a month and we had a showmance. It caused a lot of mayhem in our personal lives because we couldn’t let these characters go. We didn’t have a safe way to do the intimacy, and we didn’t have a safe way of coming out of it.”
「當我們的嘴唇碰在一起時,那就不是在排練了。」Sina回憶道。「那就只是單純在接吻而已。我們都感覺到了,最後越演越烈,我們都因此而跟各自伴侶分手,在那個演出期間我們的私生活真的變得很混亂,因為我們都不肯放下我們劇中角色。我們沒有一個安全的方法來做親密戲,也沒有一個安全的方法來離開它。」
The two dated for a month, but their romantic relationship ended shortly after the show closed. And while Sina’s experience was consensual, there are many cases in which an intimacy director could have prevented non-consensual encounters and abuses of power, especially for young women in the industry.
他們兩個交往了一個月,但隨著戲告一段落感情也就馬上結束了。儘管Sina的案例是當事者雙方都心甘情願,仍然有非常多的例子不是如此,在那樣的狀況下其實親密戲導演是有大把機會可以防止這種違反自身意願的接觸,以及權力的濫用,特別是對業界年輕女性而言。
“While I was in grad school I was also an actress, so I was experiencing it firsthand- situations that had been completely inappropriate from co-workers, people who had been onstage with me, director and there’s a sex scene and they say, ‘You guys just do it. Just try something.’ So you’re improvising a sex scene with your partner. That’s extremely uncomfortable and very victimizing at times.”
「我在研究所時期也是演員,所以我有親身體驗—那種來自同事的不恰當經驗,一起跟我上台的人,或是導演完全不知道該怎麼處理這些(親密戲)場景,所以他們索性就完全不處理。」Sina說 「如果你有一個比較年長的導演,碰到親密戲他會跟你們說:你們就做吧,就試看各種可能。所以你們就開始在性愛場景中即興,這是非常不舒服的經驗,而且大多數時候非常令人受傷。」
Alcoa Rodies, co-founder of Intimacy Directors Internatial, witnessed and was a victim in such scenarios throughout her career. After almost chipping a tooth when a scene partner decided to intensify a kiss onstage, she was told, “ That’s part of the profession. Get used to it.” Knowing there were hundreds of other women who would gladly take her spot in a show if she left, Rodis thought she had to accept that kind of behavior for the rest of her career.
IDI共同創辦人Alcia Rodis在她自己生涯中,親眼見過幾個案例,並且,也曾經有過身為受害者的經驗。在她的對手演員決定在場上把吻戲變得異常激烈時,她的牙齒幾乎都要裂了,儘管如此,她還是被告知「這行就是這樣。早點習慣吧。」因為Rodis清楚知道如果她選擇離開的話,會有其他幾百位女性會搶破頭想要她的位置,她一度以為她必須要在整個職涯中接受這種狀況。
“We sort of learned that’s not the case, and we don’t have to just take it. We can actually be part of the process and work together,” Rodis said.
「我們後來知道其實並不是這樣的,我們不需要逆來順受。我們其實可以在整個工作過程中同心協力地工作。」Rodis 說。
Sina and Rodies, along with co-founder Siobhan Richardson, created the Pillars, the core protocol of IDI’s work and teaching. A codified process, the Pillars consist of Context, Commumication, Consent and Choreography. (They recently estabished a fifth pillar, Closure, to assist actors in walking away from a character after a performance.) Not having this process, Sina said, can be damaging and dangerous.
Sina跟Rodis,以及創辦夥伴Siobhan Richardson發明了「骨幹」這個IDI在工作及教學上的核心要素草案。其中包含:文本、溝通、同意以及動作(近期還加上了第五個骨幹:收尾。來幫助演員在戲結束之後順利離開他的角色。)Sina說,沒有這些幫助的話,是有可能帶來危害的。
“None of it’s real-it’s theatre,” said Sina. “It’s a fake story that is being portrayed by actors, and we have to keep remembering that. You shouldn’t be losing yourself. You need to have some semblance of yourself and some awareness of what you’re doing. Yes you can commit to the character, but you need to come out again.”
「劇場的一切都是假的,」Sina說,「那是一個由演員搬演的假故事,我們必須永遠記得這點,你不應該因此失去自我,你必須在自我跟所做事情之間取得很好的平衡。是的,你必須把自己奉獻給角色,但你也必須要在適當時候離開。」
IDI currently recommends four certified Intimacy Directors, with 16 candidates in training to become certified. Currently only established movement teachers, choreographers, and directors who have worked directly with a founder are able to apply for training. The organization also offers workshops for actors, directors who want to learn basic consent and choreography, and for stage managers and choreographers wanting to learn more about intimacy direction. In August 2018, a 10-day International Intimacy Pedagogy was held in Illinois.
IDI最近推薦了四位經過認證的親密戲導演,陸續還有其他十六位正在培訓。目前,機構只提供專業的、並且曾和創辦者共事過的動作老師、編舞以及導演可以申請接受培訓。IDI有提供工作坊給演員及導演學習「同意」與「動作」的基礎概念,另有舉辦工作坊,給有意願了解更多關於「如何給予親密戲指示」的舞臺經理與動作設計。2018年8月,他們在伊利諾州舉辦了為期10天的國際親密戲教育學工作坊。
Along with the Pillars, another crucial aspect of intimacy directing is recognizing and respecting traumas in one’s colleagues. All IDI-certified choreographers have completed state-offered metal health certification courses.
除了「骨幹」之外,另有一個至關重要的概念:辨識並且尊重同事的創傷。所有IDI的動作設計都完成了由州政府認證的心理健康課程。
“None of us are therapists, and none of us are counselors,” Rodis said. “But we know what to do if someone is having a metal health crisis, and we know what resources to give them. Because of the nature of the work we’re doing, and because some of us are so new, we’re getting further education on trauma.”
「我們都不是心理治療師,我們也都不是諮商師,」Rodis說「但是,我們知道當有人心理出現危機時該給他們什麼資源。因為就我們現在所做的工作本質上來說,我們都是新手,所以我們有必要持續在創傷這個議題上進修。」
While recognizing that theatre professionals are just that- professionals hired to tell a story- the founders also understand that that job can involve actors putting themselves through traumatic experiences night after night.
“We know what you’re doing is different than going to the office every day,” Rodis said, “If you’re playing Lady Macbeth every night, after a while it’s going to wear on you. So we also offer resources on how to close out at the end of every night.”
正因為知道劇場這個職業就是由一群受聘的專業演員來講一則故事,創辦者清楚的認識到這個工作可能需要演員讓他們自己日復一日、夜復一夜的經歷那些創傷。「我們明⽩你的工作不同於朝九晚五的上班族,」Rodis說,「如果妳每天晚上都在飾演馬克白夫人,過一陣子這個角色其實是會影響到妳本人的,正因為如此,我們也提供方法讓你在每晚演出過後把角色給關起來。」
One such resource is the ability to discuss sexuality and sexual experiences openly and without discomfort- a shift from the norm in American culture, which, as actor/director/teacher Claire Warden observed, has little problem with violence but tends to balk when it comes to sex, leaving directors feeling uncomfortable and embarrassed.
其中一個資源,就是擁有能力來討論性以及性經驗而不會感到不適。談論性這件事,不同於具有多重身份(演員、導演與老師)的Claire Warden觀察到的一個美國文化現象:談到暴力時大家都沒問題,不過一但談到性的時候大家都顯得有點畏畏縮縮的,這其實讓導演們都覺得不舒服與尷尬。
“We’ve got this really skewed view of sex and sexuality and intimacy, and an obsession with it,“ Warden Said, “ A lot of shame, judgment, power, and confusion lies around it, which has made it uncomfortable and awkward to talk about openly.” The root problem, she said, may be that “sexuality and intimacy have kind of blurred into one.”
「我們對於性與親密的相關議題有一種扭曲的觀念,同時卻又深深為其著迷」Warden說,「這同時又有許多羞愧、判斷、權力以及困惑參雜其中,因此讓它成為一個公開談論時會帶來不適與尷尬的議題。」根據她說,其實真正根深蒂固的問題是,我們把「性」與「親密」混為一談。
Intimacy direction was never mentioned when an actor we’ll call Emily(not her real name) was performing in a dramatic two-handler and struggled to choreograph a love scene with her female scene partner. Having never performed a same-sex love scene before, Emily found herself at a loss, and her director- whose only technique was to yell the stage direction “Rolling heat!” Repeatedly- was no help. The two actors were unable to stage the scene on their own and found themselves onstage at the end of rehearsal with the director yelling. “Just do it. It’s time.”
親密戲的指導,從來沒有在演員Emily與她的女搭檔編排動作設計遇到困難時出現(她們當時在編排一個充滿戲劇衝突的雙人愛情戲),即使Emily之前演過同性間的愛情戲,她仍然發現自己舉步維艱, 而她的導演除了不斷對著她們大吼舞臺指示「洶湧的情慾」以外,毫無建樹。兩位演員根本沒有辦法自己演完這場戲,而她們發現到了排練最後階段,她們的導演對著她們大喊「就做吧。時候到了。」
Emily recalled that “when it came time to do it in performances, fight director friends of mine ho came to see the how said, ‘That look incredibly uncomfortable for you both. You looked like you were in pain and it was obvious.’’’ Her friends asked her where the intimacy director was. Emily had never heard of such a director, saying, “ I wish I’d known about it at the time when all the yelling was happening.”
Emily後來說,「後來真的演出時,我有個舞台搏鬥導演朋友來看演出,到了所謂的『就做吧』片段時,他說『那看起來對妳們兩個都極其不舒服,妳們看起來超痛苦,而且非常明顯。」她的朋友繼續問她親密戲導演在哪。Emily那時從來沒有聽過有「親密戲導演」這種導演,她說「我真希望在所有的吼叫發叫的當下,我能夠知道『其實有親密戲導演』這件事。」
Emily now a director herself, said she is carful to ensure that her actors are comfortable when staging intimate scenes. “I am hyper-aware of my actors’ sensitivity and I’m constantly checking in with them: ‘Are you okay? Are you comfortable with this? Let me know if you’re not comfortable. We don’t have to do this. We can do something else.’ And my actors thank me for it. They’re not used to that.”
現在身為導演的Emily表示:「在排練親密戲時,我總是對我的演員的感受保持超級高的敏感度,我會不停的詢問他們『你還好嗎?你對這個覺得自在嗎?如果有不舒服要讓我知道。我們不一定要這麼做,我們可以有替代方案的。』我的演員總是對此心存感激,他們對這樣的工作方式其實還不是那麼習慣。」
Uncomfortable situations can present themselves with or without directors in the room. Often scene partners are encouraged to stage the scenes on their own, outside of rehearsal, a practice that can lead to feelings of fear and helplessness. Sina was kissed inappropriately- a kiss that hadn’t been choreographed or rehearsed- in front of an audience of 500 people and had to be in character as she received it.
不舒服的狀況不論導演在不在場都有可能發生。通常演員們會被鼓勵私下自己排練,其實,這麼做很容易引發恐懼與無助感。Sina曾在500位觀眾面前被不當的親吻—一個沒被事先設計或是排練過的吻 —而她在被親的同時還要想辦法讓自己「待在角色裡」。
“There are times where it’s, ‘Kiss, but don’t kiss until previews.’ It’s the worst,” Rodis said. “At best it’s a bad story, at worst they start grabbing you, ‘be in the moment.’ That’s the definition of assault.”
「有時候的情況是親,但是在試演前不會真的親,那種是最糟的。」Rodis說,「當那種狀況發生時,你能得到最好的結果是一個爛故事,最糟的結果是你開始被這件事給抓住還要『待在當下』, 這其實就是侵犯的定義。」
Along with establishing the definition of assault, IDI training also defines consent in clear, unquestionable terms that differentiate between that and permission. A director can give permission to touch another actor, but only a fellow actor can give consent.
除了建立侵犯的定義以外,IDI還以清清楚楚、不容模糊的語彙界定了「同意」與「允許」的差異。 導演可以「允許」演員去觸摸對手,但只有對手演員自己才可以真的表示「同意」。
“The conversation is always very professional and technical, so when we’re talking about parts of the body, it’s the biological name of the part of the body.” said Warden. “And we as intimacy directors never ask anything about and never inquire about the actors’, directors’ or anyone else’s personal sexual life, history, story, proclivities, etc.”
「所有的討論都是非常專業的,當我們必須要談論身體的部位時,我們都會用生物學名稱。」 Warden說,「身為親密戲導演,我們絕對不會去問任何演員、導演或是任何人的個人性愛生活、歷史、故事或是性傾向...等等任何事情。」
The language doesn’t change when the workshops contain students, Warden said, though she may move more slowly.
語彙的使用並不會因為工作坊有學生而改變,Warden說,只是她會教的更慢而已。
“A lot of what we’re saying for adults is still, ‘That is not real. None of this is real.’’’ said Sina. “In rehearsal, we don’t add acting to it until the very last minute, We choreograph it like we do anything else. Just do the moves so everyone knows what’s happening. Then they can add the emotion to it when the actors are ready and they feel they know the choreography well enough. And if you can get that to happen for minors, it separates the sexuality from the choreography and allows them to treat it like it is: choreography.”
「即便我們跟成年人都一直在強調『這都不是真的,這一切都是假的。』」Sina說。「排練的時候,我們不到最後一分鐘是不會加上『表演』的。在最後關頭之前。我們都像是處理其他素材一樣,做形體動作讓大家都知道會發生什麼事。一直到演員們都準備好了,對動作都夠熟悉時,他們才會真的帶入感情去演出。如果你能夠讓這些未成年先開始這麼做,慢慢的所有人就能夠把性跟動作設計分開來來看,然後以正確的眼光看它:動作設計。」
The inability to treat intimate scenes as simply choreography is a problem Sina has observed at numerous drama competitions, where students without sexual experience or knowledge, let alone the ability to separate themselves from the characters they were playing, have performed sex scenes. These situations can be traumatizing for people without the knowledge or resources to handle it.
Sina在無數個戲劇比賽上觀察到一個問題,學生們往無法把親密場景當成動作設計一樣來處理,這群學生們沒有性經驗或是相關知識,想當然就無法在性愛戲中把自己跟扮演的人物切割開來看待。這種狀況是非常有可能讓人受創的,特別是對那些沒有相關知識,或是資源來處理這種狀況的人。
“If they’re not being led through it properly, it can be very, very dangerous,” she said. “It’s illegal in our country to do anything sexual with a minor or have two minors do something sexual in front of an adult. It’s very thin line between choreography and a crime when you’re dealing with minors.”
「如果他們沒有被好好引導的話,那真的非常非常的危險。」她說,「根據我們國家的法律,讓一個或多個未成年人在成年人面前做出帶有性愛意味的事情是違法的。所以面對未成年時,在『動作設計』跟『犯罪』之間其實只有一條非常模糊的線。」
Demand for IDI services and training has spiked in the past year, since the #MeToo movement has exposed abuse in the entertainment field, including theatre, and the issues of consent and empowerment in the workplace (not to mention outside of it) have become central.
自從去年#MeToo運動開始後,對IDI這個機構的服務與訓練來說,他們面臨了重要挑戰。在娛樂產業(包含劇場)的職場上(更別提職場外也是),現在,關於「同意」與「權力」的議題都變得重要無比了。
“At the moment there’s so much need and demand and only so many of us to go around,” Warden said. “I cannot be in every single room and play out there, but what I can do is empower actors or directors or even stag managers to go into a room and say, ‘I would like to offer a way of talking about this.”
「目前來看,親密戲導演的需求與實際從業人數是不成正比的,」Warden說。「很顯然的,我不可能出現在每一個房間裡指導,但我可以做的是賦予演員、導演甚是舞臺經理權力,讓他們能夠在每個房間替自己發聲『我想要提供另外一種工作方式』。」
Also encouraging to Warden is the increased awareness among young students.
對Warden來說,令他欣慰的是年輕一代學生中對這件事情有意識的人數越來越多了。
“My hope, my intentions and my dream is that the next generation of actors, writers, and directors come out with a very different understating of respect and consent with their bodies and each others’ bodies,” Warden said. “And that leads us into an even more free and safe way to creat deep, authentic, risky stories.”
「我的願望、我的本意、以及我的夢想都是下個世代的演員、作家、以及導演都能夠對他們自己以及他人的身體,有一種非常不同於現在的理解、尊重、權利,」Warden說,「這可以讓我們以更自由,同時也更加安全的方式來創造出具深度、真誠、精彩的故事。」
Carey Purcell, New York city-based reporter
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【玳瑚師父客人見證】《差一點的車禍》
THE CAR ACCIDENT THAT ALMOST HAPPENED
文 / 蔡永文 先生 Written by Mr Justin Chua
我很幸運,也很榮幸,在2017年9月29日請到玳瑚師父爲我批八字。
在此,也想感謝季謙引領我聯繫玳瑚師父。這次的諮詢打開了我的思想,180度地改變了我的生活和價值觀。
這是我第一份的見證,因爲這只不過是發生在這六個月內的一部份好事。我相信在未來的時間里,將會有第二份和第三份,因為我需要時間去執行玳瑚師父的建議和提示。
先讓我說說這五件事:
1.「隱形的第三者」:
我的書房裡有一位看不見的第三者。雖然「他」沒有惡意,但我覺得他在情緒方面影響了我的家人。玳瑚師父很準確地分析,並解釋了這情況的來龍去脈及「他」的由來。
雖然「他」還在那裡,但我現在內心安寧。因爲我已經應用了玳瑚師父的兩個建議。我現在正在籌備執行玳瑚師父其他的建議,實行後就會寫第二份的見證。
2. 貴人:
批八字令我印象深刻的其中一項,就是認貴人。
自從我小時候起,我就知道我沒有一帆風順的生活,因此,我一直提醒自己努力工作,為我所做的一切付出更多的心血和心思。
玳瑚師父向我解釋如何確認我的貴人。諮詢結束後,我仔細去思考那些在我生活中幫助過我,指導過我的人,那些在我需要支持的時候給予力量,關懷和安慰的人。果真,他們就是師父爲我歸類的貴人!玳瑚師父的準確度200%!這是現代科學無法解釋的。
要引貴人出現,我必須累積更多的功德,這也是我自2017年9月底以來一直在做的事。關於功德,我將在以下再詳細說明。
3. 休息環境或住宅:
玳瑚師父建議,如果我的家人去度假,韓國將是最理想的地方。 (當然,歐洲也可以,但是需要多一點金錢)。他提到,去寒冷的國家旅行對我們會有好處。
我還記得他提到,對於我的八字,最好能住在水體或綠地/山脈附近。我們全家在一個滑雪的旅館住宿三晚,我終於明白玳瑚師父的建議。我們的房間位於山前,算是山腳。
以往我和家人一起度假的時候,我通常是最後一個在早上醒的,总想睡得更多,哈哈!但是在這三個的早晨裡,我是第一個醒來,最奇的是,我就如充了電似的,充滿活力,就像自然醒。
我的家人感到驚訝,因為我是最後一個睡覺的。(只有一間廁所,我會確定所有的家人使用完後,我才去使用,而且我還必須洗奶瓶,並準備第二天的一切)。突然之間,我體驗到玳瑚師父的建議是如此又一次的準確,及其寓意。
4. 車禍:
玳瑚師父曾預測2018年將是我可能發生嚴重車禍的一年。我很擔心。事實上,在諮詢之後,我每天都會檢查我的汽車輪胎,然後才開車。但是,有一天,我沒有檢查。如果我回想起來,那是因為我忙辦年貨的事宜(那時是立春之後),而我正趕時間。
同時,我車的空調吹出熱的空氣,壞了。我在網上搜索,找到一些可靠的維修空調公司,並與其中一些人進行了交談。我終於決定找靠近我家的維修公司,也因爲在通話的時候,老闆聽起來對我很老實、坦誠和真誠。到達他的店面後,他的一名員工爲我的空調進行了診斷測試,並建議我更換新的一套。同時,他剛好在我的一個輪胎上發現了嚴重的缺陷。
輪胎的鋼絲已經露出了!這顯示輪胎胎紋已經嚴重磨損。我非常困惑,因為一兩天前,我很肯定不是這個狀況的。我心裡在想,這公司真的拯救了我的命啊!
想想如果在高速公路行駛,輪胎可能爆裂,車禍肯定是致命的。萬一我的車撞到另一輛車,其他乘客或車輛受到影響,該怎麼辦?我感到震驚,也幸運。我和老闆聊了聊,並感謝他,然後......我想到玳瑚師父的指導,才發現這老闆就是我的貴人
這是否意味著我已度過了這個難關?我不確定,但我有一種感覺,在我的生活中修功德和累積功德,是讓這事化險為夷的關鍵。
5. 功德:
玳瑚師在臉書上的文章提到了修功德。自從我遇到他以來,我提醒自己時時刻刻要做善事。
一些簡單的例子:捐贈給窮人和貧困者,向那些需要幫助的人伸出援助之手。
例如:我每周會去廟訪,一位行走困難的奶奶要求我給她買一杯茶,雖然我不久前從樓梯上跌了下來,剛出醫院,我還是馬上買一杯給她。
另一件事:一個媽媽抱著嬰孩在細雨中等待一輛Uber,我把我的雨傘借給她們,也陪她們等。
一個簡單的善念,也能大有幫助。
我也常唸「住生短咒」。我發現在2018裡,貴人較頻密地在我的生命中出現。
玳瑚師父是一個嚴肅的人,但他對每個人都很關心。我記得當他給我提出一些建議時,我和他分享了我在執行這些建議時遇到的一些挑戰,他的表情是真的很關心,並提出了其他可行的方法。
如果有人想改善自己的生活,不要期待聽甜言蜜語或處處都稱心如意。最重要的是,採取正確的行動並時時用心努力。
謝謝玳瑚師父! 🙏🙏🙏
祝福您身體健康、年年有餘、一年比一年好!🙏🙏🙏
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*Testimonial Part 1 from Justin Chua*
I have the good fortune and privilege to have my Bazi read by Master Dai Hu around End September 2017. I want to thank Ji Qian for linking me up with Master Dai Hu as this session opened up my mind and changed my life.
This is Part 1 of my testimonial because after a span of six months, these are just some of the positive things that have happened. I am certain that in time to come, there will be Part 2 and Part 3 because I will need time to work on Master Dai Hu's suggestions, advice and tips.
Meanwhile, let me illustrate on five key specific areas:
1. "Invisible third party":
There was an invisible third party in my study room. While "he" wasn't malicious, I felt "he" did affect my family in terms of moods and emotions. Master Dai Hu was spot on in his analysis and explain the fundamentals behind this situation and "him".
While "he" is still there, I am at peace and things have become better because I have applied two pieces of advice which Master Dai Hu had suggested. I am now working on the next course of recommendations and I will update this testimonial when it materializes.
2. Benefactors:
One of the memorable aspects of our session was the identification of Benefactors.
Ever since I was young, I know that I do not have a smooth sailing life and hence, I have always reminded myself to be hardworking and put in extra effort in everything I do. Master Dai Hu explained to me on how to identify my benefactors.
After the session, I went back to reflect on the important people who have assisted me, mentored me and gave me strength when I am in need over the years.. and guess what, they fall into these categories of benefactors.
The accuracy is 200%, and this is something that modern science will not be able to explain. For benefactors to appear, I must accumulate more merits, and this is what I also have been doing since end September 2017.
More to be elaborated below.
3. Resting Environment or Residence -
Master Dai Hu suggested that if my family were to go for vacation, Korea will be the most ideal place. (Of course, Europe as well, but subject to our budget). He mentioned that a trip to cold countries will do us good. I also recalled he mentioned that for my Bazi, it is best to find a residence near a water body, or greenery/mountains.
I had a sneak preview of this and during one of our stays in a ski resort, I finally understood why. Our room was located right in front of a mountain. In all the vacations I went with my family, I was usually the last to wake up in the morning and always wanted to sleep more.
But for these three particular mornings, I was the first to wake up, and when I do so, I feel very recharged and energized, like I woke up naturally.
My family was even surprised because I was the last to sleep (there was only one toilet and I made sure all my family members use it first before it was my turn, and also I had to wash milk bottles, and prepare for the next day). And suddenly, Master Dai Hu's recommendations were spot on once again after I realized the significance.
4. Car accident:
Master Dai Hu predicted that 2018 would be a year where I would likely have a serious car accident. I was very worried. In fact, after my session with him, I checked my car tires every day before I move off.
However, for one day, I did not check. If I recalled, it was because I was busy with CNY stuff (it was just after 立春), and I was in a rush. Concurrently, my air con failed on me, blowing hot air. I googled, found some contacts for a reliable air con workshop, and spoke to a few of them.
I finally settled on one which was near my house, but also, the boss seemed to be really honest, upfront and genuine to me during the phone call. Upon reaching the workshop, one of his worker ran a diagnostic test for my air con and suggested that I change a new set. At the same time, he happen to spot a serious flaw in one of my tires. The steel threading have already appeared which means the tire is already bare and worn out.
I was pretty puzzled because I was sure it wasn't like that just one or two days before. I then realized that this workshop could have save my life.. imagine driving along the expressway, the tire could burst and a car crash is certainly deadly.
What if my car hit another car and other passengers or vehicles are affected? I was shocked and counted my blessings.
I had a chat with the boss and thanked him, and then.. I realized he was my benefactor based on Master Dai Hu's guidance. Does it mean that I have made it past this critical stage? I am not sure, but I have a feeling cultivating merits could be important in this incident.
5. Merits -
Master Dai Hu and his articles on Facebook mentioned about cultivating merits. Ever since I met him, I have made it a point to accumulate merits.
Some simple examples: donation to the poor and needy, lending a helping hand to people who requires it at that point of time
Some examples: While at my weekly temple visit, a grandma who has difficulties walking asked me to buy her a cup of Teh O, I did so right away even though I had fell off the stairs and out of hospital not long ago.
Another one: I offered my umbrella to a mother and her toddler while she was waiting in the drizzle for Uber.. simple thoughts to help others, goes a long way.
I also often recite the Rebirth to Pure Land Short Mantra. I find that benefactors appear in my life more often in 2018.
Master Dai Hu is a strict person but he means well to every individual. I remember when he gave me some recommendations, and I share with him some of my challenges in executing it, he looked genuinely concerned and suggested feasible alternatives. If anyone wants to change their lives and make it better, do not expect sweet words and a bed of roses. Most importantly, take the correct action and make a conscious effort.
Thank you Master Dai Hu! 🙏🙏🙏
Wishing you best of health, wealth and all the good things in life! 🙏🙏🙏
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你的電話號碼是大吉還是大凶呢?
現21在世紀的今天,手機已經是我們生活中很重要的一個生活必需品。許許多多的人際、事業、生活……。都在手機裡。
你知道你的手機號碼也是你的「成功」影響因素之一嗎?
你的手機號碼,是召財還是破財?是廣結善緣還是到處小人?是帶來好消息還是煩惱連連?
快來看看Dato' David Hew所研發的V數字方程式對手機電話號碼的精闢研究,了解數字,你將贏在起跑點。... See More
There was this article that appeared in today’s newspaper that clearly caught my attention. Once again, it proves that individuals will pay top dollars to own an “auspicious” mobile number. This is especially true in China where everyone competes intensely and fiercely on one objective…that is to “WIN”!
So, why are individuals willing to spend millions to acquire a mobile number? Well, with the advent of the Internet and state of the art mobile technology, our life has been transformed in many ways! To the extent where we can’t leave home or leave our hands free from our mobile(s) device(s). It’s an integral part of our lives that we can no longer do without. The basic functionality of a mobile phone has extended from merely attending to voice calls to data services and now multimedia functionalities that include real-time updates of information/news/videos/activities – be it private or official. The form factor of such mobile devices have varied in many ways over the last few years making it easier for people of all ages to have no excuse to leave home without one.
But the question is “paying millions”?!! Yes, why not? If a good mobile number attracts “callers” or “potential deal makers” that can bring about windfalls of projects, why not? This is especially obvious in country like China where deals are worth millions and in some cases, billions!
Let me give you some pointers as to how we assess mobile numbers…definitely not basing it on just the homophonic or the pronunciation of the numbers. For example 8 in Chinese is pronounced as “Fa” which means “prosperity”; 6 is “Lu” or “good fortune”. That’s not the focus on how a mobile number should be picked. The mechanics of how mobile devices work can be too complex for many to understand. But the crux of how we make or receive calls centres around a simple theory call “modulation”. In layman terms, “frequencies that carry across thin air from one point to the other”. Frequency is basically vibration of wave particles…it’s made up of different numbers that travel across the universe to and fro our mobile devices based on instructions and settings we pre-determined. Just imagine carrying a mobile phone or various mobile devices that uses SIM card. You automatically become the “host” that “magnatised” all the different frequencies around the universe! Hence, it’s best to “attract” the “positive energy” than the negative right?
Lets take a look at the million dollar mobile lines that was paid by avid fan of auspicious numbers!
Firstly, we layout the numbers and format them into a “inverted triangular” shape based on a special formulary developed by myself through the use of VISIBER’s unique V Formulary. This is an evolutionary part of the V Formulary that stood the test of time over the last 12 years.
The main purpose of such format is to deduce the mobile numbers by adding up all the digits individually – line by line. We have to include the “country code” as without that, the mobile number will not be deemed as “unique”. With the country code, this will be the most “unique identity” an individual can have as no other number will have similar patterns or number sequence. A person who carries a mobile device equipped with a unique number can be influenced positively or negatively depending on the sequential arrangement of the selected numbers that was chosen. As the saying goes, don’t judge the book by the cover…I think it’s appropriate now to start adding another statement that says “don’t judge the numbers as they appear”.
Alright, lets move on to the gist of the analysis (for +8618988888888). For China, the addition of country code 8618xxxxxxxxx give rise to a number combo of 579 in the subsequent line. Meaning, very strong government influences, connections or links in determining the success or failure in all areas within the country of China. For this mobile number in particular, we can see that 5798 is the first 4 digits that appear after the addition. Though having strong government network/connection, the user will have to be aware that this may also lead to potential conflicts that may happen if matters are not handled cautiously. 98 or 89 usually attract legal conflicts. This followed by another subsequent outcome after the addition of 8s in the base/top line - you can clearly notice that the first line all ended up with 7s. At the initial stage, the number magnetized positive events such as people…however, determining which ones are the good or bad lot will be somewhat a challenge thereafter. This is validated by the built-up of 5s in the 3rd line. 5 denotes direction and having one 5 is sufficient because one 5 shows strong focus and clear path of where the individual wants to go to. But having six 5s will lead to some real challenges down the track. Too many will be confusing for the user as it will lead to difficult “cross road(s)”. Moving from the 5s will be the 1s (also through the adding up of the previous set of 5s). Even after attracting a strong network of people, it ends up that the user of this mobile number having to undertake most tasks by him or herself. There are five 1s which when added up, gives rise to 5 – meaning, the user will not only be very busy but have to travel rigorously in order to get things in order.
Chinese love number 8 but having too many of it will distract us from the ability to focus on getting things done. From the derivation of this mobile number, we can clearly see a lot of repeated events (numbers). If this scenario leads to a positive end, it will not be an issue. However, this is not the case for this mobile number. The last 2 lines before the end which happens to be an 8 (derived from 89 => 8) will be an outcry as it denotes negativity. As mentioned, the occurrence of 89 or 98 does not lead to a positive note. It will end up with the user goes round in circle not achieving much but instead will accumulate lots of unnecessary legal conflicts. So, to conclude, though this mobile number costs millions to acquire, it comes not only with trouble but also lots of unwanted legal entanglement. Better be safe to avoid than to be sorry as the user may have to fork out many more millions later on to resolve all these unwanted negative issues!!
The second mobile number analysis is as follow:
8613 is a good beginning, leading to the connection with good government officials (574). Obvious patterns will be the repeated order of 6s right at the base/top line of this mobile number. The occurrences will be repeated by 3s and followed by 6s again. Hence, it means the ability to attract investment opportunities! Chances of yielding positive returns are very good too. However, the potential holding of assets based on this number pattern will be low due to the low appearances of 9s in the V chart. Meaning, this type of mobile numbers are more suited for individuals dealing with the “financial industry” or involving in “investment related” activities. I will associate this to a “corporate raider” who wheels and deals regularly.
The other occurrences will be number 7 but they are spread out evenly over the 12 lines (from 1st to final line). Therefore, it does not have the previous pitfalls demonstrated by the mobile with lots of 8s up front where the 7s will give rise to 5s in the next level down.
All in all, this is a very busy mobile and the influence that it has over the user will be “good and fast decision making that results in positive high yield returns”. So the person that paid top dollar for this mobile will be laughing to the bank for certain!
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這是出現在今日報紙上的一篇文章,其標題吸引了我的注意力。 它再次地證明了一個人願意支付天價購買一個“吉祥”的手機號碼。尤其是在中國這麼一個競爭激烈的社會,每個人都在爭相追逐同一個目標......那就是“贏” !
那麼,為什麼會有人願意花那麼大筆錢來購買一個手機號碼呢?其實,隨著互聯網和移動通信技術的進步,已經全面地改變我們的生活方式與觀念,帶來了根深蒂固的影響。如今,每個人都離不開手機,它已經成了我們生活中不可或缺的一部分。手機的基本功能已經從單純的語音通話功能,延伸至即時更新的多媒體功能,當中包括了信息/新聞/視頻/活動等-無論是私人或官方形式。移動通信設備在過去幾年的迅速改進,使它更容易成為所有年齡層的人在遠行之時都會携帶的隨身物品。
但問題是,這有必要耗費“上百萬”嗎? !是的,如果一個好的手機號碼吸引了“來電者”或“潛在的交易者” 而帶來了大商機或意外的收穫,何樂而不為呢?尤如中國,一單交易便可輕易上百萬,並在某些情況下,更可高達幾十億!
讓我舉例解釋如何評估我們的手機號碼......絕對不只是單憑它的諧音或讀音那麼簡單! 例如,在中國粵語數字8的發音為“發”,有“財運佳”之意;而數字6則是“祿”,亦寓意著“好運氣” ;但這都不是挑選手機號碼的重點。移動設備中的程序太複雜,並非所有人都能夠理解。當我們撥打或接聽電話的時候,環繞著的是一個簡單的理論-“調製”。簡單來說,它就是在空氣分子中被傳遞的“頻率”。基本上,頻率是波粒的振動,由若干個數字組成信息,在宇宙中的無線電波及電話信息裡,根據各種設置川流不息。試想想看携帶著內含SIM卡的手機或各種移動設備的你,無時無刻地吸引著宇宙中的各種頻率!因此,吸引“正能量”總比吸引“負能量”好吧?
讓我們來看看這由吉祥數字狂熱迷支付百萬購買的手機號碼!首先,我們將這組手機號碼透過我本身所研發的“顛覆三角形”獨特方程式來進行計算,這也是V數字方法論這十二年來另一個層次的提昇。
這種格式的主要目的是通過逐行相加的方式來加至最後的單一數字。方程式的電話號碼中必須包括“國家代碼”,那這電話號碼才可算是獨一無二的,因為這世上不會有另一個人會和你擁有一模一樣的手機號碼 。一個人所配有的獨特手機號碼組合可看出其正面或負面的影響。俗話說,不要從封面來判斷一本書的好壞......那我認為現在我們也可以開始有這麼一個新的說法“不要以數字呈現的方式來判斷它的好壞”。
好吧,現在讓我們進入分析的要點 (for +8618988888888)。對於中國來說,增加了國家代碼8618xxxxxxxxx後便會在第二行產生579的數字組合。這意味著,中國政府有著非常強大的影響力和勢力,更可決定國內各地區的成與敗。尤其是這手機號碼在相加之後最先出現的四個數字為5798;可見雖然此手機號碼持有者擁有強大的政府網絡及人脈,但他若沒謹慎處理之間的關係,便會導致衝突和矛盾的發生。98或89組合通常都會吸引法律上的訴訟或合約方面的麻煩。隨後緊接著的多個數字7,在初始階段顯示身邊吸引了許多人脈,然而,判斷人脈當中的好壞便是隨之而來所會面對的挑戰。第三行中數字5的重複性更顯示了當中的阻隔。5代表著明確的方向及專注力,但若出現太多的5便會造成混淆,因為太多的“方向”會導致他猶如站在十字路口般,佈置何去何從。接下來的重複性數字1 表示了他先前雖然擁有人脈,但最終還是得自己承擔大部份的事務。而且,五個連續的數字1加起來等於5,所以他除了十分繁忙,也必須時時出差才能將事情處理好。
中國人喜歡數字8,但太多的8號會分散我們的注意力,失去焦點。從這個手機號碼的分析,我們可清晰地看到大量的重複數字。如果它帶動了正面的結果,那將不會是一個問題。然而,這手機號碼似乎並不是如此。總數前的最後兩行這恰好是8(89=>8)顯示了負面的結果。如之前所提,89或98都會吸引不必要的法律衝突,最終讓他不停地兜圈子,難以突破。因此,我們所得到的結論是:雖然此手機號碼以百萬買下,但它不僅帶來了麻煩,也將會被官非糾纏。因為使用者可能在花上幾百萬以後,還得親自解決這些不必要的問題!
另一個電話號碼則大不同 (+8613166666666)。8613是一個良好的開端,從而帶動良好的高官顯要(574)關係。方程式中最明顯的模式便是重複的數字6,之後便會相加出重複的數字3和重複的數字6。因此,這意味著他擁有吸引投資機會的能力!而投資當中所獲得的回酬亦會相當不錯。但是,根據這個手機號碼的分析,由於極少出現數字9,表示了固定資產的累積能力也較弱。這類型的手機號碼較適合涉及金融業或與投資相關行業的人。我會將這號碼與頻頻在市場上交易的“企業掠奪者”連繫在一起。
其他出現的數字如7號,平均地分佈在這12行數字中(從第一行到最後一行)。因此,它不會如數字8的陷阱般,加出數字7後再變為數字5。 總而言之,這是一個非常繁忙的手機號碼,而它對使用者的影響將會是“快而準的決策;正面且高收益的回報”,所以那支付百萬購買此手機號碼的人現在想必鴻運當頭!
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