Video - The Twins loving School
We never had problems sending our kids to School even from a very young age .
Be it Bella , Tasha , Adam or Noah .
The kids are always hunger for knowledge wanting to learn new things .
Some kids cry not wanting to go .
Some kids throw tantrums lasting for weeks and parents not knowing what to do ..
So how do I do it ?
Here’s some tips to make the transition easy peasy .
1. Exposure from young
Toddlers as young as 2 years old need to be exposed to new surroundings and new people .
Most kids are terrified being left out to a new place which explains their reactions .
2. Separation anxiety
When a child is too attached to their parents he will cry his lungs out not wanting
to be separated . It becomes difficult when Mommy or Daddy is already at the gate wanting to leave .
3. Prepare them the night before
Before bedtime describe the kids plan for School the next day . A child doesn’t like surprises and needs to know what to expect . Just like us adults .
4. Make the journey fun
Put on some nursery rhymes or sing along while driving to the School .
These activities put them in a happy mood once they arrive at School .
5. Say Goodbye and leave
Drop the child at the gate , hugs & kisses and walk off . Don’t dilly dally too long or the child might change his mind wanting to follow you back .
6. Hug them proudly
Upon picking the Child from School , hug them tightly and say how proud you are .
It builds their level of confidence and feeling good at the same time .
7. Ask your Child how exciting School was .
Listen as he describes the fun things done at School . Beam with pride . Let him do the talking . The Euphoric feeling will make the Child wanting to go to School the next day .
8. Ask the teachers
Always enquire about your Child’s level of happiness at School . A child who is playful and socialising well indicate that he’s comfortable and happy at School .
9. Listen to their complaints and take them seriously. Help your kid to solve what’s bothering them at School.
10. Choose the right School
Salam Jumaat Everyone
Love As Always
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When friends and family ask me how I’m feeling about the extension of the MCO period 😂🙈
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But in all seriousness though, this is a good measure and hopefully within that timeframe, we will be able to flatten the curve a bit. All in all, we can do this you guys, so here is to sending out tons of virtual hugs, encouragement and love your way always ❤️
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sending love and hugs your way 在 Oon Shu An Facebook 的最佳貼文
👋👋I know some of you got your PSLE results yesterday, and whether you got what you wanted or you didn't, here is a big hug for you. If you’re feeing crappy about your grades, sending you a big big hug. I'm trying not to say cheer up, and tell you your grades dont define you, and that you aren't a number, because I don't know if that is what you wanna hear right now, and also, sometimes looking around us, it can be hard to believe that.
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I found this clip from a video i did with the Esplanade - Theatres on the Bay a while ago, and i think it was in response to a question along the lines of whether we should get rid of exams, grading etc. And while that sounds wonderful, cos it feels like the associated stress will disappear along with the numbers, but i was thinking... all of life on many levels we are comparing and grading. Aren’t we? Something is more than or less than something else, if it isnt numbers, we are comparing accomplishments, successes, failures etc. Whaaaaattt issss succcesssssss. Haha
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Our system is flawed. Welll, all systems are somewhat flawed. We tend to look to numbers and clear markers to assess “successes and failures” cos we still don't have the best way of celebrating a person’s intrinsic worth and it is hard for us to just... BE.
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Isn’t it hard to be more than the labels and the numbers, and to not compare, especially since it has been ingrained in us since young? I got retained in JC and even TODAY i still think, maybe I’m stupid. I STILL struggle with this you know?? Books still scare me, BUT THEN, along the way, the Internet and friends and other people have taught me so much. Now, i find so much joy in finding new ways to learn, and little ways I can add value to my world around me. Things can change. Things are changing. You can change things. And I’m looking forward to seeing how YOU change how the generation after you grows up, and how you will find ways to bring value to your world. So, yes :) that’s all. Here is me sending you a tonne of love and if you arent feeling great, HUGS!!! ♥️💓💗💖💗💓♥️