【福禍休咎】
In the last 3 months of 2017, I was horribly sick.
I still do not know the exact cause of my ailment, but my guess is overworking and undersleeping.
When a person is sick for a period of time, it means his luck status at that time isn't tip top.
It will affect the wealth and of course, his mood.
Best way of dealing with it is to ensure speedy recovery and not let impatience get in the way.
I was feeling down in the dumps when I wasn't healing well, despite two rounds of medication.
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水神就是財神
On 4th Jan, I announced my CNY Wealth Manifestation Feng Shui Workshop, through a Facebook Live.
The Facebook Live was streamed at a Pizza Hut restaurant.
I ordered finger food and a beverage. I also requested for warm water to take my medication.
I was expecting just a glass of warm water but the waiter sent it in a 1-litre canister.
It was too much for me to finish.
I don't like to waste food and water. I wanted to fill up my glass and return the canister.
Then a thought flashed past, hey, 水就是財! (Water represents money!)
Must be a sign that my workshop will bring me extra income.
I drank the whole 1-litre of water after doing my Live. Not sharing with anyone.
True enough, the consistent posting and selling of my workshop for the past 10 days brought me more queries than usual.
My January income is already 2 times of both November and December combined.
Proof that Facebook Likes is not necessarily equivalent to income.
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桃李滿天下
For the first time ever in my 12 workshops, a workshop participant came up to me with a bag of plump Australian cherries, at my Wealth Manifestation workshop yesterday.
My first workshop in 2018.
She bought a pack for me, when she was shopping for cherries herself.
I like cherries very much, ever since I had a red sugary one on top of my Swensen's ice-cream sundae.
One of my favourite ice-cream flavours is Ben & Jerry's Cherry Garcia.
Fruits represent harvest.
In Singapore, cherries are more expensive, compared to the usual oranges and bananas.
You can say that they are the classier kind of fruits.
While my mum had always taught me not accept food from strangers, I happily received the fruity gift from Mevlin with thanks.
It was in a Giant plastic bag.
I recognise this as an auspicious sign that my work in 2018 will bring me bountiful rewards, and my reach will gigantically extend beyond the shores of Singapore.
(Actually Mevlin had came for my workshop in Nov 2016, so she isn't a stranger to me. 😁)
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接財神
Leaving the workshop venue, while cruising down the long Geylang road, I caught sight of a towering inflatable smiley God of Fortune.
I asked the Husband to make a Uturn at the lorongs so that I could have a photo taken with the first God of Fortune I see in 2018.
The Husband asked for permission to snap a photo, from the friendly Uncle, seated in front of the hamper shop.
The Uncle grinned and replied, "可以!這是好兆頭!"
("Can! This is a good sign!")
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修福修慧
Back home, I laid out the red packets that I need to pray for.
I picked up this ritual from my Shifu, Master Dai Hu.
Every red packet he receives from his client, no matter the amount, he will do a short 5-minute prayer and dedicate the merits to the client.
I have seen him done so for the past 12 years.
While most people are happy to earn money and spend on themselves, Shifu makes sure he does the prayer, so that the client will have some of his negative karma eradicated.
He often reminds me that it is very tough for most people to earn more money, because their daily conduct are not virtuous.
They are like hamsters in a running wheel, caged up and not knowing what will come next.
Most people react to Life instead of moving ahead of Life.
They have no control over their destiny because they lack the wisdom and benefactor guidance. Some are blinded by lures of easy success.
As a person who is ahead of them, Shifu sees it as his duty to bestow blessings to his clients, not just in the form of Chinese Metaphysics help.
He imparts wisdom to his clients and swears by teaching a man how to fish, rather than giving him a fish outright.
Poverty, debts, lack of growth in career, no recognition at workplace, no benefactors, family disharmony, losing money in investments...
Are all signs of depleting merits and negative karma.
Only when these blouders of negative karma are moved away, and the client mends his conduct to a more virtuous self, Chinese Metaphysics will then be able to manifest its full power to help the client.
That is why Shifu always does the prayer within the same day of receiving it.
He says, "One never knows what might happen the next day to the client, if I don't do the prayer in time."
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先知
In Chinese Metaphysics, there is a divination practise known as 梅花易數, Plum Blossom Oracle.
One can gain an insight into the unknown future, based on what he sees, hears, smells, experiences, and the movement in his surroundings, the people he interacts with, the animals that move around him, and the timings of the happenings.
There is a lot more technicality to it but in short, what we do and experience everyday is always a glimpse into the future.
We are sensory animals. I'm sure if you are in bad luck, you would know without an expert telling you.
You just don't know what to do to get out of it.
The biggest mentality difference between a layman and a wise expert is that...
A layman reacts.
A wise expert preempts.
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窮人相
Yesterday at the workshop, I told my students that if you are penniless, don't expect anyone to sympathise you.
It is your own responsibility to be sufficiently affluent.
Make sure you return what you have borrowed.
Don't hanker for handouts or favours, because the more you take from others, the more you will be karmically indebted.
When you meet-up at a cafe, order something even if it's only a cup of tea.
People are running a business. There's labour, rental, water and electricity bills to pay.
You are using their facility.
To not pay in one way or another is stealing.
Don't grumble or whine when you hit a wall of bad luck. This will add on to the negative energy around you, pushing the God of Fortune further and further away from you.
The God of Fortune is always jovial. He laughs when he gives a lot of money away to many people. He does not sulk, cry, or stinge.
Everybody likes to see the God of Fortune. He is well-liked and has great affinity with millions of people.
It is a joke that talent brings in money.
If you want more people to like you enough to push their hard-earned money to you, buy your products and services...
You need 眾生緣.
The affinity with sentient beings.
Think Jackie Chan, Mark Zuckerberg, Michael Jackson, JK Rowling.
In simplistic terms, when no one owes you, no one will give you money.
How many people have you helped?
How many people's lives have you changed for the better?
Did you help the right people?
How much love and happiness have you given to others?
How much wisdom have you inculcated in them?
What is your motive for helping?
Why do you deserve to be rich?
What are you going to do with all the money?
A poor man can still give his time, effort, and a listening ear. Or donate blood to save a life.
I recognised my lack of affinity with sentient beings in my Bazi. I had incurred 5-figure losses in 2 failed businesses.
I am now making up for lost time, with the amount and depth of content I produce on my Facebook consistently.
I don't do it with a profit mindset.
When you Like my content, comment or share it, and your FB friends get to read it, you are also forming better affinities with sentient beings. #leverage
All these are like savings.
When you are down in your luck, or your negative karma manifests itself, these savings will pull you up in the form of benefactors appearing.
I am aware that some of you read my Facebook to get your dose of happiness, wisdom and positivity.
I am generally not an optimistic person, if not for the Dharma I learnt.
On the other hand, I am also aware that there are people with malicious intent consuming my content.
Should I write less than? No. An affinity formed is an affinity formed.
If it's untruth that is spoken, if malice is the true intent, the person is still indebted to me karmically.
But if it is me who had done that to him or her previously, then all is even.
In any case, it's troublesome and distracting to keep track of who is doing what behind my back.
I also know some of you wanted to get a seat at my workshop but couldn't afford to.
If money is painful for you to talk about, implement what I recommend in this post everyday.
I had been posting here for the past 2 years.
Original content, not just shared posts.
It still feels surreal that strangers are willing to pay to see and hear me talk.
I don't market myself aggressively or go for meet ups to put my name out there. I'm not sociable.
I focus on my content.
Money still comes.
Especially now that I am much better than 3 months ago.
If you are struggling now, think about what you should improve about yourself.
And do it! Don't stick to the same old way of living life.
Disaster is often a recipe for success.
Success, when mismanaged, can also lead to disaster.
When you unravel these two, you will realise they actually mean the same thing.
人要懂得靈活變通。
Riches come easier to those who have a flexible mind and virtuous conduct.
Oh, good mental and physical health is always the greatest wealth.
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【玳瑚師父客人見證】《非一般的餐會》
The Extraordinary Meal Session (English version below)
文 / 蔡豪華 Written by Louise Choy
首先,我要感謝玳瑚師父慈悲允許我出席這次寶貴的餐會。我本身對玄學有錯誤的觀念,選擇了隨波逐流,大家信什麼,我就跟著信。但那晚的餐會讓我茅塞頓開,像一道光明把我心中的疑团驅散,敞開了我的心房,去愛地球上的每一個生命,從细小的螞蟻到另一個人。我也學到我們的每一句話,每一個動作,都會產生相對的效果,影響著我們的健康。
據報導,癌症是我國的首號殺手,也是最耗金錢的病症,因為化療和電療都非常昂貴。我在大學時期曾經與癌症病患接觸,目睹了他們接受治療時的痛苦。他們經歷身心靈的巨變,讓我看了很心痛,聽到他們在化療時所發出的痛苦呻吟聲,我有時更會淚眼盈眶。我當時很想為他們做點什麼。這些病患和他們的家人還得面對金錢和精神上的壓力,苦不堪言。但僅管醫生盡了全力去拯救,也會有病人的病情毫无改善。
所以我會想,除了醫藥治療,我們還能如何幫助癌症病患或預防癌症呢?這些年我得到的答案,包括養成健康良好的生活習慣及基因遺傳。良好的生活素質能夠避免疾病,這是無可置疑的。可是這些就能保證我們不會患癌嗎?我有一位親戚,他平時不抽煙喝酒,天天跑步運動,飲食也非常健康,但最後還是患癌。他家族也沒有患癌的前科,你可以想像我們接獲這消息後的訝異。
其實要避免患癌,就必須把視野擴大去探討科學、人體運作及醫學之外的領域。參研居家風水及八字命理,和我們平日的作息,是確確實實能夠幫我們抗癌的。我就在昨晚找到了答案。請相信我,玳瑚師父所給予我們的教導,讓我思考了很久才能夠「消化」,內容浩瀚,但非常值得我們去學習和廣傳給那些有需要的人。
玳瑚師父不單單講解有關抗癌的訊息,也包括其它的疾病,如男性健康、女性健康、腦中風、心臟病、等等。讓我記憶最深刻的是,師父告訴我,我家裡隱藏了一位就連我都沒有發覺的「靈異朋友」。我向鄰居的傭人打聽這屋子的歷史後,才驚覺師父果真料事如神。
我照著師父的建議去做,就再也沒有在半夜三更聽到傢具移動和牆壁敲擊的聲音了。
我非常感激他給我指點迷津,也很慶幸能夠出席師父的餐會,有緣分認識這位謙虛和踏實的師父。
如果師父再辦另一個餐會,我鼓勵大家出席,並持著一個開通的思維以及尊敬的心。最後,希望大家獲益後,要將愛分享出去,給您的至親至愛,不認識的人,甚至自己的敵人。:)
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First of all, I would like to thank Shifu Daihu for his kind and compassionate heart to allow me to attend such precious tea session with him. I am someone who does have misconception what chinese metaphysics is all about and go by the cookie cutter (meaning whatever the mass choose to follow to believe in, I will follow to believe). But after this tea session, it opens up my mind like a big parachute and shifting my heart to love all beings on earth e.g from tiniest ant to human and be mindful of our words and actions that can create cause and effect which eventually lead to health problems.
As mentioned, cancer is one of the common disease in Singapore and considered one of the most expensive disease to treat or cure e.g requires costly chemotherapy and radiotherapy. I have worked with cancer patients during university days and had witnessed cancer patients going through cancer treatments. The psychological and physical changes in a cancer patient is drastic and painful to watch. Sometimes, I teared silently to myself whenever I saw patient moaning and groaning in pain during chemotherapy. I told myself I wish I could do more for these people. Not forgetting, the financial and emotional stress put on their families can be too heavy and draining to bear. There also come to a point where doctors have exhausted their medical expertise and have done everything they could to save a cancer patient but still, there are no signs of cure or improvement.
So I wonder - Beside medical treatment, what else can be done to prevent or help a cancer patient? Well, the answer I have got over the years range from adopting a healthy lifestyle or genetics. Yes no doubt, a healthy lifestyle does play a part but what if someone who leads a healthy lifestyle, and still stricken with cancer? One of my relatives who doesn't smoke, jogs and exercises everyday. He eats healthily but in the end he was stricken with cancer. Also, his family has no history of cancer. Imagine seeing our shock expression when we came to know he has got cancer.
Well, the answer to prevent cancer goes beyond the surface of understanding of how our body works, scientific and medical way. But rather understanding of our home Fengshui, Bazi and our daily actions do play a part in cancer prevention. So last night, I found the answers and trust me, it took me awhile to digest the lessons given by Master Dai Hu, it was overwhelming but yet worthwhile for us to learn and pass the message to others who needs it.
Master Dai Hu not only covered the topics on cancer but also other health issues ranging from women and men health, stroke, heart disease and many more. One particular insight Master Daihu gave me was that something (a ghost) existed in my house which I wasn't aware of and he nailed it 100% with accuracy (I verified my house's history with my neighbour's maid) !
I followed the advice of Master Dai Hu and the mysterious noises from the movement of furniture and banging of the wall just disappeared without a trace.
I am so grateful that he pointed it out to me! I never regret coming down to attend his tea session and felt so blessed to know this down to earth and modest master.
Come and attend his next tea session if there is. Go to him with an open mind and with respect. Last but not the least, don't forget to spread love to your loved ones, strangers and even enemies once you leave the tea session. :)
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