關於 give me a ride意思 ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

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窮小孩也能搭遊輪 學馬術

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聽到問題的當下我停了一拍心跳
與其說驚訝 更多的是不捨和難過
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四月的一個週一早晨
我在高雄中學和一些學弟妹分享我的生活
我說要把握時間 活在當下
也說要無愧於心 逐己所愛
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我告訴其中一部分的音樂班同學
喜歡主修樂器的話請繼續享受 努力
根本不喜歡音樂的話
現在掉頭才不會誤了剩下的青春
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我相信學弟妹都有認真聽我的分享
才會在結束後提出對我的問題
而且有好幾個人提出類似的問題
令我錯愕又不捨的問題
「是不是因為學長的職業是牙醫師 收入不錯所以才能追逐自己的興趣？」
在他們的教育和認知中 收入竟優先於興趣
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感謝學弟在提問的時候有強調『提問時沒有冒犯的意思』 而不是酸溜溜的質疑
我執著於這個問題一週之久
然後請老師幫我向學弟妹轉達以下幾點：
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1.我看過很多快樂的人 成功的人 都是追求自己熱愛的事物 發光發熱 同時藉此賺取生活費 因應社會 該職業的社經地位 也許高 也許低 但都是滿足快樂的�.
２.高收入的人不在少數 就以牙醫為例 難道是所有牙醫都有追求自己喜歡的事物嗎？都幸福美滿？身體健康？我想告訴你們的是：我從興趣中找到快樂和滿足 所以分享給你們 若非為了向升學關口的你們分享職業特色 我根本懶得提牙醫這塊 因為那不是我熱衷的事情 應該由熱衷於牙科治療的誰向你們口沫橫飛地說�.
3.錢是我們生活中的一部分 就只是一小部分 不是全部 也不是必要的 我們一定比上不足比下有餘 我個人喜歡往下比 因為更容易讓我感到滿足 往上比的話我可真窮 買不起豪宅 沒有跑車 遊艇 也不能任性地說不上班就不上班 說買奢侈品就買奢侈品
如果我們的水很多 可能可以裝滿大碗公 如果我們的水很少 可以換成一個瘦瘦高高的玻璃杯 也可以有一樣的水位高度 那代表著快樂和滿足的程度 在自己的能力範圍 盡該盡的責任 享受能夠享受的舒適 公寓 大樓 豪宅 別墅 各有合適的住客 然而都是一個安全舒服的家�.
最後要提 如果你的夢想是搭豪華郵輪 除了先攢足船票的錢 也可以應徵船上服務生的工作
又例如我大學的時候沒錢學馬術 我願意刷馬 掃馬廄一個下午 換得半小時的騎乘機會
.�祝各位善良勇敢 不枉此生
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First of all, this article is too long for me to translate properly @@
So I will summarize it short and please forgive my grammar mistakes 😅
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I was in my alma mater, Kaohsiung Senior High School, to give a speech to the students.
I shared with them my philosophy of life and suggest them follow their hearts, live in the present moment, do not regret.
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I told students who majored in music, to keep enjoy in music and to work hard with their beloved musical instrument, but be brave to quit if this was not what they did enjoy in. Maybe they were forced by the society, parents or anything. Now is the most early time to save the rest of theirs youth from such a burden.
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I knew they did listen carefully, that’s why they asked me some questions.
Many of them got the same question, which made me astonished and a bit sad,
“Do you think being a dentist with high income is the key enabling you to be engaged in your hobbies?”
Does this question mean they believe one’s income is more important than what one is interested in?
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I cared about this question so much for one week after the speech.
And I asked their teacher to pass on to the cute and young, and maybe perplexed, students as following,
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1.I’ve seen many people who are happy and successful. They are devoted to what they love and get money for living from it. He or she might be rich or poor, upper class or lower class, depending on the definition of the society, but their contentment and joy cannot be defined�.
2. There are a lot of people with high income. Take dentists as an example, is every dentist looking for what he loves? Or happy? Healthy? I find my happiness from my hobbies, that’s why I share this with you. Dentistry should be shared by some dentist who are enthusiastic about dentistry, not me. I shared my occupation to you only because you are facing the college entrance timing.�.
3. Money is a part of our lives, a little part of our lives. Not the whole life, and not necessary either. We are richer than many people, and at the same time, poorer than many people. I would rather compare myself with those poorer than me, because that makes me feel better, and feeling is the most important thing for a person. When I compare myself with those rich men, I am nothing, I can’t afford a villa, a personal airplane, a yacht.
If we have a lot of water, we can fill a big pot. If we have little water, we can fill a thin glass and reach the same height of water level, which represents the degree of contentment.
Make clear who we are, and take our responsibility, and enjoy what we deserve.
There are different people for different places, apartments, condominium, mansion, villa, however, the common point of them are being a nice and safe cozy home.
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If you want to get on a cruise ship, you can earn enough money for the ticket or get the job as a waiter on the ship.
When I couldn’t afford the fee for equestrian class, I worked in the stable and took care of the horses for an afternoon to get the chance to ride the horse for half an hour
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May you kind and brave, enjoy the life with no regret

🎉Happy birthday to my MVP partner on court and friend off court. He’s my MVP because without him, Lu Yang pair wouldn’t even exist.
Dear Po Han:
Today is a special day and I’d like to thank you for sticking up with me through good or bad. Over 3 years of partnership, it sure was a roller coaster ride with you. We’ve changed and grown a lot together, but our friendship stayed the same. I’m sorry that I couldn’t give you QF as your bday gift, but let me make it up to you in Swiss Open. Bro, happy birthday. Love you lots.
Friends, say hbd to po han👇🏼 .
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今天主角是楊肉盧團體中門面代表也是這個團體裡最猛最強的一號人物，之所以稱為一號就是說，沒有他就沒有我就沒有楊肉盧組合了。

博涵：
今天這個3/13特別的日子裡想要跟你說辛苦了也謝謝你無時無刻都堅持著，我們一起經歷了許多事，三年的過去我們成長了不少，唯一的是彼此相處還是一樣有如熱戀般的甜蜜，今天不好意思沒贏球送你個大禮物，接下來瑞士賽補償你一下💪

楊博涵/Yang Po Han 兄弟生日快樂🎂，我真的好愛好愛你喲❤️大家可以留言祝我兄弟生日快樂嗎？
#happybirthday
#allengland
#badmintonplayer
#yangpohan
#楊肉盧

《光明之心旺渡猴年》
To A Fortuitous Year of The Monkey (English version below)

很多很多的人，都對自己的命運，或來年的運程抱著一種「先睹為快」的心理。吾，玳瑚師父認為，這是可以理解的。問題是在於，妳你知道了妳你的命運，或來年的運程後，妳你可曉得，如何趨吉避凶、扭轉乾坤、反敗為勝嗎？又或者增旺自己的運勢，使之好上加好呢？還是「先睹為快」後，淒淒慘慘，慘慘淒淒呢？若然是這樣的話，妳你就得歸類迷信者了哦！

生肖屬猴、虎、豬、蛇者，請向妳你自己的師父（若有的話），請示要如何安奉當年太歲星君，以保流年身心、身體健康、事業順心、家庭合樂、道心堅固、智慧增長、投資安穩、大事化小、小事化無等等。一般人都不會及較少，在家中安奉當年太歲星君。因此，可到有供奉六十位太歲星君的廟宇拜太歲及點光明燈。禮拜太歲星君時，除了獻上供品、蠟燭紙金以外，千萬要記得虔心稱呼，值年的太歲星君啊！歲次丙申太歲星君叫管仲，在拜太歲時，妳你就虔心稱呼祂為「丙申年管仲太歲星君」，這樣妳你才真真正正，拜到那一位值年的太歲星君。

接下來就讓玳瑚師父，為妳你們「紙上談運」吧！生肖屬猴的妳你，在這猴年裡，凡事要加以忍耐、忍讓，退一步才可以海闊天空，且莫食喪家之物、送葬出殯宜避之、夜間場所勿流連、對於年邁的長者或親屬，應多加關懷與關注，她他們的身、心發展，以免真的給玳瑚師父「說中了」，妳你也不必對著她他們唱： 我是不是妳你最疼愛的人，妳你為什麼不說話？哈....! 若妳你正打算「東家不打，打西家」的話，吾勸妳你待明年再說吧！喜歡投資的妳你，則要小心陰溝裡翻船哦！今年應該不圖非份，「萬事如意」才可能在妳你身上應驗。

生肖屬虎的妳你，請勿暴飲暴食哦！不食喪家之物，也勿「自告奮勇」的奔喪，以免累己累人。今年家中乃「多事之秋」，心情忐忑不安、情緒波動，再所難免。但，還是要把家中長者照顧好，或許可免喪神入屋。今年亦是妳你忙碌的一年，轉工、搬家、旅遊，流年中必應驗，要不然就應驗在跌倒哦！請多加注意足下的「工具」，是否是良好的「狀況」。一切宜守不宜攻。

生肖屬豬的妳你，在六親眷屬的關係方面，應多加關注，敢敢做個有愛心的人，自然就能歡度此猴年了。工作、事業與投資，應按部就班地進行，風險自然化小。婚姻及感情生活，祗要不要執著一個「我」字，也就會融洽了。

至於生肖屬蛇的妳你，身邊的親人、愛人、朋友等等，有可能會「突然間不見掉」。真心誠意的對待與珍惜，是唯一的安撫靈藥。再加上「不在乎天長地久，祗在乎曾經擁有」這句「名言」，那就更能夠釋懷了。

其實犯太歲，並不祗是人而已。妳你的宅地的坐山及向首，妳你的公司，妳你的辦工桌，妳你家中的書桌、床位，每個隔間，都可能是在太歲的位置上，因此也就犯了太歲。無論是老、中、少或幼（嬰孩），犯之意外連連，生病破財是小事，不慎連命也陪了，對一般人而言，就非小事了。不妨禮請一位妳你信得過的師父，為妳你及家人，規劃妳你居家的風水，擁抱妳你生命中美好的每一天，根本無需提心吊膽、戰戰兢兢地過日子。若妳你從來都沒找過任何師父勘察妳你居家的風水，那就在今年吧！給妳你及家人，生命中最大的禮物，而且是最愛的禮物，來個「水濂洞中勝樂大，花果山上年年好」。猴塞磊（廣東話），哈....！快樂得不得了。

吾，玳瑚師父，在此溫馨提醒哦！在立春來臨前，就好去拜太歲了哦！可別等或拖到清明，或農曆七月才去拜哦！因為這兩個節日，是讓人們上山掃墓祭祖，及拜俗稱的「好兄弟」的哦！若立春妳你所謂的錯過了，可請妳你信得過的師父，依妳你的生辰四柱，在農曆初一至十五日間，擇吉日良辰去拜太歲，那是很棒的拜太歲法之一。祝：大家「猴塞磊」哈....！

相信大家對「近水樓臺先得月」這句話，應該不會太陌生吧！如果妳你還是有些陌生的話，那「投其所好」，應該有聽聞過了吧！如果還是陌生的話，那看來妳你真的是....。丙申年管仲太歲星君，乃是位熱愛行善、佈施、教育、為善不落人後的神明。因此，妳你若要祂特別「注意」、「守護」、「關照」妳你的話，今年妳你就要比往年，更積極、更勤勞地行種種善，打個比方說；放生戒殺、助印、印施善書、開口勸善、捐錢建寺廟、撥款振災、關注及協助社會不幸的一群，等等。

天天做，天天增。增什麼？增福增慧、增資糧。當中也含蓋了改善命運的利益，天天不計較時間、不計較金錢、不計較體力、不計較工作量的多寡，持之以恆地做下去，很快的就會產生一種力量，無與倫比的力量，可改命可改運。反之，存有計較的心，那妳你所做的，就不能、也無法產生光明。沒有光明之心的「善行」，就不可能「投其所好」，妳你的心和太歲星君的心，始終扣不上，今年妳你諸多的願，就變成了天馬行空。什麼意思？泡湯了！

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There are countless number of people who cannot wait to take a "sneak preview" into their future. Master Dai Hu thinks that this mentality is not without reasons. The problem lies in this: after you have had a glimpse of what your destiny hold, or what would be your fortunes in this coming year, would you know how to usher in the good luck and evade the bad ones? Would you know how to turn a disastrous situation around and emerge as the eventual winner? Or would you be able to ride on the waves of good fortune for an even better outcome? Would it be the case that after you had known what lies ahead, that you fall into depression and self-pity? If this is true for you, then I would say you belong to the category of superstitious people!

For those of you born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Monkey, Tiger, Pig and Snake, please seek advice from your Master, if you do have one, on how to seek blessings from the Grand Duke of Jupiter of the year to ensure well-being in your physical and emotional health, career, family and investments, faith in your spiritual cultivation, growth in wisdom, and that the magnitude of all disasters be minimized or reduced to none. Most people do not or rarely worships the Grand Duke of Jupiter at home. So you can visit temples that enshrine the 60 Dukes of Jupiter to pay your respect and make a light offering. When you are paying respect to the Duke of Jupiter, with the offerings, candles and joss papers, please remember to address Him with all your sincerity and faith. In the coming Lunar year of the Fire Monkey, the Grand Duke of Jupiter is addressed as "Guan Zhong". You should formally address Him as the "Grand Duke of Jupiter of the Fire Monkey Year, Guan Zhong". In this way, you can be sure that your prayer goes to the correct Grand Duke of Jupiter.

Now please allow Master Dai Hu to talk about your fortunes, on paper at least! If you are born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Monkey, please exercise more tolerance in the coming year of the Monkey. Taking a step back will often lead to clear skies. Please do not consume any food from anyone with recently-deceased family members, and refrain from attending funerals and funeral processions. Stay away from places of leisure which operate in the night time.

For the elderly at home, please watch out and show concern for their health and mental well-being as Master Dai Hu does not want to be spot on with his words. I am sure you would not want to be singing, "Am I not the one you loved most? Why are you not talking to me?" Ha!

If you have any thought of changing employer, I would advise you to hold off the plan for another year. For those of you who love to invest, please exercise caution so as not to get caught out by unexpected situations! Do not go after wild ambitions this year so that you can have a smooth and fulfilling year ahead.

For those born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Tiger, refrain from overeating! Do not consume food from anyone with recently-deceased family members, and avoid any misguided bravery in attending funerals. This will bring harm to yourself and others around you. Unavoidably, this year is going to be a season of troubled times, often with plenty of unease and emotional upheavals. However, please take extra care of the elderly at home to ward off any visit by the Angel of Death. This is a very hectic year for you with plenty of activities in your career moves, change of residences, as well as travels. If these things do not happen, the year's fortune will take on another appearance: you will risk suffering from falls! So please inspect your footwear to ensure they are in good condition! Every plan this year should be set to defensive mode, instead of invasive.

For those born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Pig, please treat your relationships with your family and kin with extra care, and be bold to shower more love towards them, so that the Year of the Monkey will be a happy journey for you. As for your career and investment, do not deviate from your plans so as to minimize your risks. In your marriage and relationships, let go of the notion of "self", and all will be nice and harmonious.

As for those of you born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Snake, your family relations, your lover and friends, etc, may "suddenly disappear" from your life. The only way to seek comfort from this is to treat them sincerely and cherish the affinities with them. Remember this famous saying, "It may not last forever, but at least you had the moments. " and you will come to a closure with it.

In actual fact, it is not only human beings that come into conflict with the Grand Duke of the Jupiter. Your residence, specifically its sitting and facing directions, your office premises, your work desk, your study desk at home, your bed, and every individual room can be in conflict with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. No matter your age, even if you are a baby, you will encounter accidents, illness, and loss of wealth if you are in conflict with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. But these are small matters. In more serious cases, your life may be in danger.

There is no harm to engage a Feng Shui Master whom you can trust to conduct a Feng Shui audit at your home, for the sake of your family and yourself. Embrace every beautiful day in your life. There is no need to live each day in trepidation and fear. If you have not engaged any Feng Shui master for your home before, make it this year! Let this be your perfect gift to yourself and your family, a gift of great significance and love, and create a haven of bliss and years of prosperity! Ha! How joyous that will be!

Master Dai Hu would like to sound out a gentle reminder: please pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter before Li Chun, the beginning of Spring. Do not wait until the Qing Ming Festival or the Lunar Seventh Month before you fulfill this important task. The Qing Ming Festival and the Lunar Seventh Month are meant for paying respects to our ancestors and the wandering spirits, commonly known as the "good brothers"! If you had missed the Li Chun date, you may request a Master you can trust to select an auspicious date and time, based on your birth chart, to pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter any time between the First Day and the Fifteenth Day of the First Lunar Month. This is an excellent way to pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter. I wish everybody an awesome Year of the Monkey!

The Grand Duke of Jupiter, Guan Zhong, for the Year of the Fire Monkey, is a God who is passionate about performing virtuous deeds, generous giving, education and always the first in line when it comes to kind deeds. Therefore, if you would like Him to take notice of you, to protect and take care of you, you should therefore be more enthusiastic and diligent than the years before to perform virtuous deeds. For examples, refrain from killing lives, liberate lives, sponsor the printing and distribution of virtuous books, speak to encourage virtuous behaviour, donate to build temples and towards disaster relief funds, show care and give assistance for the less fortunate, etc.

Consistent action on a daily basis yields consistent gains. What do you gain? Your merits, fortunes, wisdom and resources increase. In the midst of this lies the enormous benefit of altering your destiny for the better. Do not be calculative in your time, money, bodily effort, and volume of work. Press on day by day, consistently, and soon, you will witness the emergence of a powerful force that is unprecedented, one that can turn your life and fortune around! On the other hand, if you live with a calculative mindset, all that you have done will not invoke the radiant Light, without which your supposedly virtuous deeds can never be aligned with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. Ultimately, there is still a distance between your heart and His, and your many wishes and hopes for this year are just a figment of your imagination. What do I mean by that? I mean you can kiss your dreams goodbye!

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