#6สิ่งที่หมอเด็กคิดว่าตัวเองรู้ก่อนที่ตัวเองจะกลายเป็นแม่
1.#วันแรกที่พาลูกกลับบ้าน_เป็นวันที่แย่มากจริงๆ
จะด้วยฮอร์โมน หรืออะไรก็แล้วแต่ แต่หมอพบว่าตอนนั้น
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1.#วันแรกที่พาลูกกลับบ้าน_เป็นวันที่แย่มากจริงๆ
Hormones or whatever. But the doctor found that it was then.
The brain is blank. Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep
How to breastfeed in the middle of the night? How to do it? (Surgical wound is hurt)
I remember sitting here crying... confused.
Why are you crying... Grandma is confused. Husband is confused.
Doctor thinks it's because of the thought
I'm a pediatric doctor. I can handle it
So it makes us careless
We never prepared a house preparation, a place to place.
And most importantly, we never prepared ourselves.
Even tho it's been so long...
I still remember my failures until now.
2.#การให้ลูกเข้าเต้าไม่ยาก_แต่มัน_โคตรยาก
Before having a baby.
The doctor also has to teach the mother who just gave birth to bring the baby in the breast.
Gotta get the right poses
Gotta let the kids eat when they start signaling hungry.
If you speak theoretically and teach the doctor mother well done.
No lack of defects.
But when I put my own baby in my boobs.
What is this... Kid keeps pushing. Smoking face to face crying for hours.
Finally, doctor has to choose between
Let the baby cry because she is hungry.
But stand up to get into boobs
Or to be full to establish trust in this world.
According to psychology, kids who have studied.
Whether it's a splendid or not patient or an excuse that I want you to be a child to trust the world.
The mist is becoming the mother of a full pump.
And since then the doctor never said the word
#It's not difficult with any mother again.
Doctors say it's difficult, but if you intend to do it, you can do it. Smile to support
3.#สิ่งที่ตำราเลี้ยงเด็กเขียน_เค้าไม่ได้เขียนถึงลูกเราไง
After having a baby salad, a lot of stickiness to a textbook.
What the doctor is very upset about.
Sleep schedule and kid's milk meal
Kids will start sleeping long at 4-6 months old.
Let us practice to finish the late night milk.
REALLY!!!
At 4 months, my kid still wake up every 2-3 hours. At night. At night.
And after 6 months, the textbook doesn't tell us that when teeth grow.
Kids will hurt and wake up crying late night again.
At 8-12 months, when you play with fun, you can sleep and sleep all night long.
Some time find new talents in the middle of the day
Like know you can suck your toes and get excited. Get up to see toes show at 2 am.
The textbook is.... not wrong, but he didn't write about our kids..
Every child is different from birth.
4.#สังคมออนไลน์เป็นดาบสองคม
The doctor knows how to feel after having a baby.
When I was a social media mom that included those who had the same problems.
People who have passed that problem already.
It's like a guru to introduce a freshman.
There is good and bad because there is a new knowledge.
The doctor can't find a textbook read.
How to play nipples, how to treat nipples, white dot, etc.
Damn... Data lines like doctors who need to find textbooks, research readings, rely on these information.
The experienced one comes to tell.
Well it helps us a lot
But it's getting weird.... right where
There is a wrong knowledge set... It's dangerous.
But when someone comes to support me... this information will become.
A textbook for many more people
Which doctor has been in to fix information. Tell me the right thing.
The result is.... weak and lose.
Hey!... health safety information
#มันใช้ระบบโหวตไม่ได้
But doctors understand the group process.
So.. if you want to tell the right thing, you have to create your own space.
So I opened the page.. end.
And hopefully the knowledge from our profession that we want to share
Sincerely, it will be direct to mother and benefit children.
5.#การใช้ชีวิตอยู่กับเด็กทั้งวันทั้งคืน_เหมือนเราใช้ชีวิต #กับผู้หญิงก่อนประจำเดือนมาที่เมาเหล้า
I feel like I can't sleep.
Some scenes reflect us too.
When I'm a mother, I read psychology books.
Seriously reading child development textbook
A lot of parenting genre books.
So much for real
Doctor finds that... Reading helps us have good information. Ready for situations.
But the above information is
We need to develop our own positive thinking system.
Because when you have a negative emotion, it takes a positive energy to use.
If there were only theories in the head then.
But positive energy we don't have. We are irritated. We are upset.
We can't raise a positive child.... We can't control ourselves.
We must have a strong heart, but gentle, kind.
I have been raising kids for 5 years. I have found that I am very into Dharma
Because everything Buddha says is true and it's the solution to every problem.
6.#การเป็นแม่ไม่ได้หมายความว่า_เราต้องทิ้งความเป็นตัวเอง
There are some times when the doctor is suffering.
In fact, I am suffering because of my own expectations.
And suffering how other people will see us.
So many things that are polished with kids.
What we want you to be is not that it's good for you.
#แต่มันทำให้เราดูเป็นแม่ที่ดี
What a heavy thing to do with a 2-3 year old
I will choose the dress. Top pattern, bottom pattern, shirt, and neck.
We think it's not pretty....
If you focus on the kid, you are happy.
If you focus on us... wear this outfit.
Others must think that mother doesn't care about kids.
Here's a sample of the little things we often contradict with kids.
We will imagine the good mother that we think (go by ourselves) that society or people around expect us to be.
So we try to be that person.... but peak is
We tried so hard
But no commission to decide if it's done #good enough
I'm sad and confused. I almost forgot who I am.
Come back to settle down....
It's us, kids have to learn how we are.
Doctor can say that
Who wants to propose to doctor's daughter?
The doctor has to say that the daughter's husband is about to expect her daughter to be a housewife... you will be disappointed.
Because when he was a kid.
Mother is not a good example for him.
He always eats with rice with Amma's cooking.
The good thing is that he has a sense of humor and doesn't mind the mistake... he got it from mom 🤣🤣
===================
This is what the doctor wants to tell.
The doctor served as a pediatric doctor for 7 years before having a baby.
But just the first few months of parenting myself.
Make doctor #s̄ả think we know
Really we know very little about it.
.
Before being a mother, doctor is considered a good child doctor.
Textbook that pediatric doctor uses for exams all over the world. How about it?
The doctor recommended the mother to ask for counseling.
Because we also tell the information we know is right.
When I'm a mother, I'm a mother.... Doctor has learned that.
The numbers we hold firmly are just the average he chooses that information to be childish.
But in fact, each child is different.
.
The most important thing that a child doctor should give to a mother who asks for parenting advice.
Not a number that is the middle of data.
But it's a #encouragement, understanding of the problems he has to face.
And the power he receives will make him face his own problems.
.
If there are any new mothers who are not confident in childcare.
Doctor wants to confirm that everyone is.
And now my baby is 5 years old
The doctor still has to learn many things and still learning more every day.
.
Let's learn this together and doctor thinks that the page that doctor wants to open up.
Giving someone a benefit no more or less
.
Dr. Pam
P.S. Child doctor in the article is the only doctor himself.
Doctor, other children may know more than doctors know.
And he may be better than the doctor.
Doctor thinks it's an experience sharing.Translated
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New Zealand itinerary纽西兰旅程 (English and Chinese version)
这是我第一次去纽西兰,没去过的真的是要计划下!因为这里的风景真的是太美了!走到哪都好像一幅画跟着你一样! 🤩
我和男友一到机场就租车,在Queenstown和Auckland都各别租车。只需要我国的驾照就可以在这驾驶自如!
忠告! 👉🏻我们建议在Queenstown最好是租车,因为真的很方便,要去哪里也是自己安排时间。而且这里沿路的风景都很漂亮,如果乘搭公共汽车就没办法停车欣赏风景和拍照。但在Auckland呢,我们就不建议租车,因为这里停泊处的费用太麻烦也太贵了,所以坐uber或公共汽车比较方便。
其实除了滑翔伞(paragliding),我们预订了直升机(heli gracier)和跳伞运动(skydiving),但都因为天气而被逼无奈之下取消。
忠言!👉🏻 活动选择在纽西兰的头两天进行,如果因为天气而被逼取消,还有接下来几天可以安排补回,那就能完成所有活动了!
关于住宿呢,你们可以参考我住的air bnb,真的超值,大概RM300-400一晚。其实air bnb有很多便宜的住宿,没必要花钱住昂贵酒店。
airbnb链接🔗 https://www.airbnb.co.nz/rooms/11422391?s=51
第一次用airbnb,用这个链接可以得到MYR105哦 🔗www.airbnb.co.nz/c/cloh116
10天的旅程,说长不长,应该要待上一个月才能走完这个南岛吧!我个人比较喜欢南岛,因为风景太美,北岛我们也只去了Auckland。在南岛就去了很多地方,其中有Glenorchy, Mildford Sound, Lake Pukaki, Lake Tekapo, Wanaka, 等等。都是必去景点!
点击链接 http://www.chenellewen.com/2018/05/9-days-itinerary-of-new-zealand-trip.html?m=1
我在blog分享我们的行程,因为太长了,所以要看的麻烦点击来读。其中包括有些必去之地,还有住宿链接,感想都写在里边,还有影片和照片,很多资料给大家参考。😊
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第1天
- 早餐在Ivy & Lola’s
- 乘搭Gandola上去Queenstown Skyline
- 体验滑翔伞
- 在 Stratosfare skyline享用自助午餐 (风景超美)
- 回去air bnb泡澡Jacuzzi
- 晚饭在Botswana Butchery
第2天
- 早餐在Vudu Cafe (早餐必去)
- Glenorchy (沿路上停了几次因为风景太美,有去Glenorchy的要注意沿路风景)
- Glenorchy Waterfront Reserve
- Glenorchy Animal Experience(这里跟动物拍照都很美,又可以近距离接触它们)
- Kinloch lodge(午餐和拍照,这边风景也超美的,一边享用午餐一边看风景)
- 晚餐是远近驰名的Fergburger (都要排队买差不多半个小时)
- 买了Fergburger就在这个附近的一间水上游艇享用晚餐,Perky’s Floating Bar (这家游艇的概念就是可以带外带食物,只需要点他们家的饮料)
第3天
- 早餐在air bnb,这间风景真的太太太美了
- 午餐在Eichardts(小吃)
- 享用驰名的Patagonia Ice cream (都是附近而已)
- 参观花园 Queenstown Gardens
- 回去air bnb泡jacuzzi
- 前往Arrowtown (出名的可爱小镇)
- 晚餐在Arrow Thai Food
- 杂货店购物 (大概10分钟车程)
第4天
- 前往Lake Pukaki(开车2.30小时)
- 三文鱼shashimi午餐
- 前往Mount. Cook(一小时车程)
- 由于天气原因,直升机和爬山都取消
- 前往Lake Tekapo
- 入住Lake Tekapo的pepper’s blue resort
- 晚餐在Kohan Japanese餐厅
- 参观Church of Good Shepherd(卢平花开季节)
- 晚上在Church of Good Shepherd 观星
(尝试观看银河系但没有看到它)
第5天
- 在Reflections咖啡厅用早餐
- 前往wanaka时经过clay cliff停下拍照(从Lake Pukaki半小时车程)
- 前往wanaka(2.30小时从Lake Tekapo开车)
- 参观驰名的wanaka树
- 午餐在Alchemy餐厅
- 甜点在Kika餐厅
- 入住Hilton Queenstown Resorts & Spa
- 房间里用餐
第6天 (基本上是很悠闲的一天,因为很多活动都被逼取消,天气真的很重要)
- 在Onsen Hot Pool泡温泉
- 早餐在Bespoke Kitchen
- 前往Remarklables ski scenic area 雪山探险 (路途真的很弯曲惊险,不过风景很漂亮)
- 午餐又吃Fergburger (上瘾了)
- 杂货店购物 (fresh choice)
第7天
- 早上9点乘搭旅游巴士前往Milford Sound (世界第八大奇迹)
- 下午3点到达Milford Sound
- 晚上9点回到Queenstown
- 晚餐在My Thai Lounge
第8天
- 回到Auckland
- 入住air bnb,在皇后街 (Queens street)
- 参观Cornwall Park和One Tree Hill (这里的绵羊很怕生,费了好久才能靠近它们)
- 晚餐在Lucky Buddha
第九天
- 参观pink cycleway (粉红色的脚踏車道)
- 在Aotea Gifts购买手信 (其实如果没时间,可直接在机场购买,那里也是蛮多选择)
English version
This was my first time to New Zealand. For those who have never been here before, I reckon that planning the trip is going to be worth it. New Zealand is really by far the most beautiful country I’ve ever been, with beautiful scenery everywhere as if a painting is following you around.
My boyfriend and I rented a car when we were in Queenstown and Auckland. There is no need to apply for international license to drive in NZ for Malaysian.
A little advice for you, I strongly recommend (or compulsory) you guys to rent a car if you’re coming to Queenstown. It’s much more convenient because you’ll be driving a lot to places outside of Queenstown. On top of that, you can stop by anywhere and anytime for photos and enjoy the magnificent view. And I do not recommend you to rent a car in Auckland, due to the difficulty of finding a parking and the convenience of using their public transports.
Also, we actually booked a few activities such as Heli glacier, skydiving, mount cook trekking and so on, but these activities got cancelled due to the weather. So here’s a little advice, check the weather forecast before your trip and try to arrange your activities on the first few days so you are able to arrange at later dates of your trip if your activity gets cancelled due to the weather.
Regarding the airbnb that we stayed in Queenstown, it was facing an incredible view with an outdoor spa! Most importantly, it was a crazy bargain at only around RM300-400 per night (it could have been more expensive by now). You can also look for cheaper air bnb. After all you definitely won’t be spending much time in the stay other than sleeping in it.
Here's the link to airbnb (https://www.airbnb.co.nz/rooms/11422391?s=51), for first time airbnb user, get MYR105 off by using this link (www.airbnb.co.nz/c/cloh116).
10 days has never been enough to explore the whole NZ, I guess it takes a month to travel the south island. We spent most of our time in south island, for north island we only travelled to Auckland. I personally prefer south island more and had the opportunity to visit Milford Sound, Glenorchy, Lake Pukaki, Lake Tekapo, Wanaka, and so on.
Click onto the link to view the full itinerary
http://www.chenellewen.com/2018/05/9-days-itinerary-of-new-zealand-trip.html?m=1
I’ve shared my full itinerary on my blog, owing to the lengthy post. For those who are interested to know more, click into the link to read, I’ve included the must-go places, link of my stay, thoughts, and so on.
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DAY 1
Breakfast at ivy & Lola’s
Gandola ride for Paragliding
Buffet lunch at Stratosfare, skyline
Go back stay for Jacuzzi
Queenstown garden
Dinner at Botswana Butchery
DAY 2
Breakfast at Vudu Cafe
Glenorchy (stop by a few spots for photos)
Glenorchy waterfront reserve
Glenorchy animal experience (feeding)
Kinloch lodge (stop by a few spots for photos)
Take out Fergburger
Have Fergburger at Perky’s floating bar
DAY 3
Spend morning time at stay
Lunch at Eichardts (tapas)
Ice cream at Patagonia Ice Cream
Queenstown Gardens
Jacuzzi at stay
Arrowtown for dinner and photo
Dinner at Arrow Thai Food
Grocery shopping
4th of November
Head to lake pukaki (2.30 hours drive)
Had salmon shashimi as lunch
Head to mount Cook (an hour drive)
Heli ride and tracking canceled due to weather
Head to Lake Tekapo
Check in pepper’s blue resort at Lake Tekapo
Dinner at Kohan Japanese restaurant
Photo taking at the Church of Good Shepherd (Lupin blooming)
Star gazing at the church of Good Shepherd
(Attempt to watch Milky Way but didn’t see it)
5th of November
Breakfast at Reflections cafe
Clay cliff while otw to wanaka (half an hour drive from Lake Pukaki)
Head to wanaka (2 and half an hour drive from Lake Tekapo)
That wanaka tree for photo
Alchemy restaurant for late lunch
Kika restaurant for dessert
Head to Hilton Queenstown resorts & spa for check in
Dinner in the room
6th of November
Onsen hot pool
Breakfast at Bespoke kitchen
Remarkables ski scenic area
Take out Fergburger
Grocery shopping at fresh choice
7th of November
9am depart to Milford Sound
3pm reach Milford Sound
9pm back to Queenstown
Dinner at My Thai Lounge
8th of November
Back to Auckland
Check in Stay at Queens Street
Cornwall park and One Three Hill
Dinner at Lucky Buddha
9th of November
Photo taking at Pink Cycleway
Buy souvenir at Aotea Gifts (if you do not have enough time, can buy from the airport)
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【賭上靈魂的女人】
青竹蛇兒口,黃蜂尾上針,兩者皆不毒,最毒婦人心。
I have a Bazi client, who has been a social escort for over a decade.
She didn't tell me the truth at the start. In fact, she "challenged" me to use my 6th sense and offered her Bazi.
I do not need your Bazi to read you inside out. Also, Bazi analysis is a highly methodological and scientific method to understand a person's past, present and future Destiny. I'm no medium. There is no 6th sense needed.
Over the many short messages before our meeting, she expressed her shock that I could read so much from merely her words.
I didn't have her birth details at that time, nor had I seen a single photo of hers.
With the internet era, a competent Metaphysics practitioner must have the ability to dissect a person's true character and intention, even from a simple "Hi".
Impossible? Too judgmental? You just haven't met a seasoned human scanner in real life. Or you don't know the true you well enough to see the rock hard truth in our words.
While messaging me questions about a (legitimate) business of hers, I replied with a verse written by my Grandmaster, Living Buddha Lian Sheng:
"君子愛財,取之有道。
不義之財雖到手,
無限後患跟著來。"
(While wealth is covetable, a gentleman makes his wealth through just and ethical means.
Ill gotten wealth, though in your hands, will elicit endless troubles pouring your way.)
She was astounded and asked, "Do you actually know what my job is? This is shocking..."
I guess I passed her challenge with flying colours.
.
She wasn't a sex worker, due to harsh circumstances like severe poverty or mountains of heavy medical bills for her family.
A drunk gang rape incident in her uni days changed her views on men and she wanted to take revenge on men. She lived a life of drugs and alcohol in between her lectures.
The way I see it, is her obsession for money that caused her downfall.
On one hot summer day in 2006, she answered a social escort advertisement. She was barely 21 and was influenced by what she read online.
The "Mama-san" who looked her over told her she needed to put on weight.
She was surprised. Wasn't it easier to earn money with a slim figure?
The Mama-san snapped, "Nonsense. Most men dislike a woman who is too slim. They prefer those with some flesh."
She silently made a promise to herself to swallow more burgers.
Her first client was an Arabic businessman. She was paid US500 for one hour.
That virgin taste of easy money lured her deeper and deeper into the abyss.
Clients of powerful backgrounds, Singapore and overseas, single and married, private and government sectors...one-on-one, multiple players, mass orgies...
She lived like a bird freed from her cage. Suddenly she could buy anything she desired, just by sweet talking and giving lusty men access to her nubile body. She was in and out of hotels, as frequently as 5 times a day.
The carefree lifestyle, the freedom of not answering to any boss and those money that poured from the sky was her drug.
In her own words, she was "the woman that all wives curse and fear".
She referred to herself as the woman the wife will loathe to find traces of existence, when the wife checks her husband's handphone with trembling hands.
It was as if she took pride in that.
How did her cause of seeking revenge on men become a twisted path of demolishing other women's marriages?
.
It didn't take her long to accumulate 6-figures in her bank account.
The more money she had, however, the more insecure she became.
She worried about losing it all. She deeply craved the warmth of love to complete her soul.
She was only 22. The client was manly, handsome and charming. He gave her $20K for her company.
She badly wanted him for her own. To be his wife.
With $100,000 withdrawn, she gave it all to her 2nd Mama-san. She decided she would use black magic to lock his heart. And soul.
But it was a fraud. The Mama-san started exhorting from her.
She was desperate and down to her last $2. She began stealing from her family and lying to feed the incessant demands and threats from her Mama-san.
She gradually realised this was her retribution of selling her body for quick money.
However, this new realisation didn't change her a bit.
She met a new client, Dave. He was a married man. It was love at first sight for her.
The initial joy she had from the money and attention he showered her blinded her wisdom to the extramarital affair.
She stayed in one of Hong Kong's expensive apartments at a prime district. But it soon became an soulless shell of loneliness that prompted her suicide attempts.
Dave coldly dumped her like a hot potato, as he didn't wish to handle an emotionally volatile woman.
.
Ken told her she bore an uncanny resemblance to his first love. She fell hard for his sweet words and gentle demeanour.
He weaved a forlorn tale of an emotionally abusive and lonely marriage, and how it was impossible for him not to to be attracted to her.
They travelled greatly and dined at expensive restaurants.
To have a married man giving his heart to her, was like tasting the forbidden apple. That first juicy bite satiated her craving to be desired. And to win another woman.
This time, she decided she would use black magic again to break up his marriage. She coveted that role of his wife. A permanent and lasting relationship, finally.
Black magic uses the dark forces of ghosts to carry out the client's wishes. She paid a good US$10,000 for a famous sorcerer and another US$4000 for her Thai amulet and mud puppet.
Did she capture Ken in the end?
They got into physical fights crazily. The amulet that controlled the ghosts backfired, and her sanity was devoured by the ghosts.
.
Her craziness drove her to swallow 200 sleeping pills and cut her wrists. ANYTHING to have him stay with her. Ken was horrified and visited her daily at the hospital. She felt triumphant. Finally, he was at her beck and call.
The happiness was short-lived. After her discharge, he broke up with her when he was on an overseas stint.
She went absolutely berserk and grabbed a knife to her throat. It felt that the ghosts wielded full control of her mind and body. Her mum kept yelling at her.
The realisation of truth came too late for her: A man, who lied to his wife and had an affair, will never be honest with her. Once a liar, always a liar.
She was warded into the high-dependancy unit at the mental hospital. Everyday, she was surrounded by suicidal and high-risk patients. They were bounded at their feet and hands. It was a petrifying sight. Was this the end of her life? She wasn't even 28. How did she allowed a man to destroy her prime years?
She sought to understand love and karma. She delved into Buddhist books, wanting to know what caused her to lose her mind. She started to have deep regret about taking short cuts in life and her laziness in earning money the ethical way. She saw, on her hands, the fresh blood of people's happiness that she had killed.
But the greed and anxiety in her couldn't be satisfied with a regular job. Or a single man who doesn't make enough to provide for her.
She was needy, attention-seeking and quarrelsome. I had called her a yoyo. I had spent many hours over a few months, replying to her messages.
Every day, she fought hard against the temptation to take up another escort job
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「捨邪歸正」
I lost count how many Masters she sought advice from before she found me online.
She read my posts and was amazed by my tenacity to take failures.
She watched my video on suicide and became aware of the Hell that all suicide victims go to. To repeat that act of killing themselves every day at the same time they died.
Among the many things I said at our consultation, I could tell her the age range she sold herself and that it was a elder lady who gave her the chance. She was surprised at my accuracy.
I told her the only way out was to sincerely repent for her past misdeeds. Blind listening to Buddhist chants and sutras would do nothing to change her fate. That is passive. Being active is to recite it and abide by the precepts.
I instructed her to write out her story in as much details as possible, to lead other sex workers, or wannabes, suicidal people and men with affairs to the Right Path.
This was one of the fastest ways I know that can change a disastrous life around.
All the Thai amulets, crystals and pendants she stashed in her room MUST go. She spoke of their decreasing power over time, and it seemed like a never-ending black hole as she kept on buying more and more to help her legitimate business.
She asked whether she would be able to get a publisher to buy her story.
I told her to forget about making money from her book. Give it for free. Post it online. Somehow, somewhere, everywhere. Get the story out. Fast.
When her boyfriend left her a sum of money, I insisted that she returned it. Don't take money that you didn't earn it rightfully. She said that was her breakup fee. I put my feet down, and said it was a proper relationship between two singles, and she caused the breakup. Why would she need money for loving a man who had loved her?
She promised she would write her story.
But she lied to me. Just like how she lied of making the $49 donation the next day, before seeking a Bazi consultation with me.
She went to the Guan Yin Temple at Waterloo Street, and sought a divination stick. It was her favourite activity whenever she was troubled or at a dilemma.
Right after she left the temple, she messaged and questioned why she received a 下簽 (bad lot) for my recommendation.
I asked for the number of the divination lot and the actual question she posed.
"I want to write a story about my life to encourage women not to sell their bodies and for married men not to have affairs. I may be hurt or sabotaged by people, so please protect me."
That didn't sound like a question. But the Bodhisattva had a way in teaching sentient beings.
I was dumbfounded at the Bodhisattva's omnipresent accuracy and foresight, when I saw the divination number.
It was a bad lot indeed, but not because of the solution I gave to my client.
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「莊子試妻」
Zhuangzi was a famous and well-respected Chinese philosopher of the Warring States Period.
One day at the mountains, he walked past a new grave and saw a woman kneeling over the freshly turned soil, hurriedly fanning it.
Not understanding the woman's behaviour, Zhuangzi asked for her intention.
The woman replied, that her husband lied beneath the soil. Before he died, he had said she could only remarry, when the soil of his grave dried. It was the rainy season at that time, hence her fervent fanning, so that she could quickly seek a new man.
Zhuangzi shook his head, when he heard of her heartlessness.
Unknown to many, Zhuangzi was an accomplished Taoist practitioner. With his supernatural powers, he helped the woman to dry the soil almost immediately. Thrilled at the dried grave, the widow gave her fan to Zhuangzi and hurried down the mountain.
Zhuangzi returned home, singing and waving the fan. His wife, Tian, questioned where he got the fan from. When she heard of the widow, Tian was so angry that she tore the fan into pieces and called the widow shameless.
Zhuangzi pacified his wife and said he had faith in her chastity.
A few days later, he fell very sick and died. Tian was saddened at her husband's sudden death and wept in sorrow
At his funeral, a very handsome young man showed up with his old servant. He said he was Zhuangzi's student, and a son of an important government official.
He wanted to perform the rites of a dutiful student, and helped in his teacher's funeral, by watching vigil for three years.
His good looks caught the eye of the newly minted widow, Tian. She sought to know more his eligibility from the old servant.
Within 20 days, they got married.
On the night of their wedding, the young man was struck with an ear-shattering migraine. Tian anxiously asked the old servant for help. The old servant said his young master had this strange illness since birth. The only cure was to consume the brain of a human. Back in his hometown, the father would take the brain from the prisoners sentenced for death for his son.
But in this remote countryside, where could they find a human brain as medicine?
Tian thought of her dead husband. She promptly took an axe and hacked open his coffin.
Zhuangzi leapt out from the coffin and mused this now-famous Chinese verse, "青竹蛇兒口,黃蜂尾上針,兩者皆不毒,最毒婦人心。"
Tian proclaimed that she heard noises in her coffin and wanted to see if Zhuangzi was alive.
Zhuangzi questioned the red finery on her and the red decor in the house. Tian argued that she wanted to welcome him. So she donned on the wedding finery to get married with him again.
The young man and his servant walked in. They were actually manifestations of Zhuangzi's supernatural powers.
Tian was so ashamed of her heartless and deciteful act that she eventually hung herself.
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Every divination lot comes with a poem and a background story. This was the background story on my client's divination lot.
The poem states:
因名喪德如何事 卻恐吉中變化凶
酒醉不知何處去 青松影里夢朦朧
Virtues are destroyed in pursuit of self gain. Fear that the auspicious will morph into bad.
The drunkard knows nowhere to go. In the green forest a shadow lingers in a dreamy haze.
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It is common to encounter clients that lack faith in my recommendations.
Some will ask many questions after our session, wanting to know why my solutions will help them or how I derive my solutions. There are also emotional clients who would flare up and lose all their manners, when they can't get an answer that they like from me.
I don't ask my doctor what ingredient goes into the making of my cough syrup and how it works scientifically in my body.
I take action by drinking it as prescribed. Because based on past experience, I trust that his medicine will work to help my predicament. I don't drink, I continue to be sick, I don't see results.
My suggestions don't require my clients to consume unknown medical liquids into their bodies. Yet few clients take action, when it comes to their Destiny.
Despite me being recommended by their friend who experienced positive results with my help, and have genuine testimonials to justify my fees.
That divination lot was Bodhisattva telling me: My client will not write her story, for she does not sincerely regret her past acts.
It was also a grave reprimand to her to mend her ways before it was too late.
But she didn't see the divination lot in the same manner as I did.
Not only does she lack faith in my words, she distrusted the holy words of the Bodhisattva too.
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Give money, buy love, buy fame, buy business, buy wealth and buy that. No need hard work.
Such is the sexy appeal of many ghostly amulets. They appeal to people who want many things in life but refuse to follow the Law of Karma, to sow seeds the right way.
I see one client bidded for a Thai amulet from a Facebook Live. Another wanted to buy a multi-coloured bracelet, because "so pretty! Got power some more!" Luckily, his Wife who had learned some Buddhism from me stopped him.
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In March 2017, this client sent me a message:
"Hi Ji Qian, hope you are well. Good luck for your Home Fengshui For A Happy Marriage tomorrow.
I was looking thru our past convos where we first started speaking online. Yes, Im a spoilt brat and Im a yoyo porcupine. I look at a sentence that is poignant - "the day you stop relying on men is the day you become prosperous". I wonder if that day will ever come. I I finally understand that my Facebook Adverts getting disabled is due to my past karma. And I haven't finished writing the repentance story which u instructed me to write in August. I think I know that I'm half-hearted in repentance, that's why I can't bring myself to finish the story. I'm just wondering if I am supposed to survive on my savings till my Facebook Advert Account get reactivated.
I haven't been able to find any new product to sell since XXX (sales also failing miserably). I am weak-willed and too reliant on men. The only thing keeping me from committing suicide is my mum and because I'm reminded by Shifu's words that a suicide victim is doomed to repeat the same act."
菩薩英明。
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Last year, I had casually asked if I could share her story. She promptly gave me the permission.
Yesterday, one client called me unempathetic towards him. The way he wrote suddenly jolted my memory of this client. I had taken too long to write her story.
I told her to write in English and Chinese, and she did part of it.
The account you read of her past was adapted from her written work. Though there are many grammar and structural mistakes, she does write very well.
The poison in our hearts will eventually consume our souls if we do not purge it out. What joy is there when we resort to brutal force to keep a man by our side? Should he chooses to leave, that does not discount the value of our self worth. A man who isn't interested in you for the right reason isn't attractive.
The same goes for men who cheat or pay for sex. You are ruining another woman's life when you satisfy your lust.
When you inflict suffering on another being, in return, you get pain and suffering on yourself. So don't sow the seed in the first place. Repentance done right over a period of time can prevent your past bad seeds from germinating, and reduce your suffering.
If there is any merit in sharing her story here, I dedicate all of it to my client.
May she have the inner wisdom and stability to lead a virtuous life.
May she always be surrounded by good teachers to show her the way.
May her vile affinities be broken and replaced by good ones.
May her greed and hatred be subdued.
May she repent for her past transgressions in time.
No matter how long it may take, one step forward into the Light is one step away from Darkness.
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ཨོཾ་མ་ཎི་པདྨེ་ཧཱུྂ༔
Om Ma Ni Peh Me Hom
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